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Posted: 6/20/2008 5:59:10 PM | | what yah got here is a guy in love with a set of genitals and no cerbral fluid to jack the crack..............!!! are you f'in crazy kid .......... this is an std waiting to happen and great sex is not ........ goin to happen out of super-size the pandora's box surprise , anyone who cannot invest in the emotional connection of another is never gonnah be great sex ... great sex is cerebral ... mister it all starts with the human brain ... no d!ck slap is ever goin to be great sex and anyone who disputes that total chemistry of the respect of their mates mind is imperative is shallow and not even worth the attempt at procreative recreational genital slamming ... kid you need to meet a smart girl not a **** phart girl....!!!!zzzzzzzzz gees she mustah been raised by a dandy vagina that one.... | |
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| Advice on Break up
Posted: 6/20/2008 6:19:34 PM | | Love is HARD when it is one sided. She does not love you, and my bet never will LOVE YOU. She will use you as long as you will let her. I speak from exp. in a onesided relationship (30 years exp) Run far run fast she will never LOVE you. No I am not bitter I pray for my ex every day. I wish her the best. We are talking about love true love right. the bible tells us WHAT true LOVE is and how it acts. She is in no way in love with you. IT HURTS but RUN | |
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Posted: 6/20/2008 6:26:04 PM |
She's a wild girl.
There is your problem. You must choose wisely young padawan. | |
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Posted: 6/22/2008 8:01:14 AM |
Can you say ANGER MANAGEMENT ???????
My anger management coach says I need to beat up on things smaller than me, so I targeted you. | |
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Posted: 6/22/2008 3:42:37 PM | Honestly my dear, the only thing I want to say is, make sure that u use protection, AIDS is a killer and that is only one of the STD's that one can catch having sex with someone who is sexing multiple partners, especially someone who drinks hard. They don't usually know what is done to them or remember what they do while drunk.
Try not to let ur bottom head control ur top head.!!!!
Take good care of u. | |
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| Advice on Break up
Posted: 7/16/2008 11:52:45 AM | This is exactly what I would have said. Insightful dude is Avante
Hey bro!
I have one advice for you. Cut off all forms of contact. She appearenly says that she cares about you, she doesn't. If she cares about you, the ex wouldn't throw in other guys that she had been with to your face. Personally, I am not even friends with any of my ex's because they did me wrong ultimately. If they can do me wong during the relationship, they really weren't a true friend to me to begin with. Therfore, how can I possibly trust them as a friend. Take it from me, cut her off completely.Its gonna hurt you in the end and you deserve someone better and happiness, not trash. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 1:41:29 PM | I JUST THINK YOU SHOULD SUCK IT UP AND STOP YOUR DAMN BELLY ACHIN! Be glad you have some1 that wants to share those moments with you . Be it what it is , dont judge it for what its not. I am in the same situation but even though i cant have the partner aspect of it i will take the sex! Enjoy it and remember that if she can find a **** friend so can you! | |
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gvnage
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Joined: 6/16/2008
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| Advice on Break up
Posted: 7/16/2008 2:26:22 PM | well dear, the bad news is : she's a player, with a capital P. The really great news, though I know you dont feel great about this part, is that she is honest with you-or at least it sounds that way from what you wrote. Now, the question is, how do you separate your chemistry and hormones from your heart and emotional needs. When you suffer enough, you will come to needing to ask yourself the big why-like why do you not want to look at the truth here of what her values and priorities are, and why do you want her to settle down for you. She's not a wolf in angel clothes, shes a wolf and tells you that over and over. Have you asked yourself how comfortable YOU really are with true intimacy and relationship ( are you ready to settle down)? Could it be that by having a sidekick so extreme that it is obvious she throws away true intimacy that that allows you to avoid asking yourself who you are and what you really want out of life? Are you willing and /or interested in dealing with your own stuff and growing so you can better point yourself in a direction where ALL your needs are met and not just some of them? There are many posts & forums on here about players. Most of them I've seen are women lamenting about being in love with guys who have acted like your wolflady. But, the dynamics and effects of someone hurting over being played are the same. I hope you do some looking into these posts and can get past the fact that these are women crying over guys.It could be healing and helpful for you to read about other peoples experience letting go of and moving on from this kind of a 'dance partner'. If you add up all of the years of each of these contributing members, we are talking 1000's of hours/days/ years of wisdom here all for free-dont even have to pay for therapy!~ Really, it doesn't matter about whether the playa is m or f. Players dont do relationship and they dont do intimacy, so they can come in either gender. I know there is a big difference between those who are dishonest players and honest plyers like your lady, but, in the end it all hurts when we want more of someone then they are able or willing to give. Good luck to you and sorry you are hurting  | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 2:35:42 PM | I know this is an old thread, but:
i dont want her to get hurt.
You aren't going to hurt her, because she's not in love with you, and she doesn't feel the same feelings you do right now.
You want to keep her around because you love her. She wants to keep you around because you are the best sex she's ever had - and who would want to give THAT up?
You are being used for sex. I wouldn't mind that at all right now. But there's a point where you have to have something more substantial. You are at that point, and it doesn't sound like she's going to be. Oh, and she has an alcohol problem. You don't want THAT in your life, either. She's bragging about how many guys she's been with since the breakup, then she's coming to you for sex. If I were you, I'd hope she's sober enough with them to insist on STD protection... | |
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gvnage
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Joined: 6/16/2008
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| Advice on Break up
Posted: 7/16/2008 2:46:11 PM | | whoa pearlj-whats up w/ the unwarranted hostility towards op? That didn't feel good to read at all, and I am sure you didn't help his cause. Op, hope you didnt let that stuff rock your world. That kind of put down is NOT what these forums are supposed to be for-hello MODERATOR, hint hint | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 2:59:11 PM | | You know what? Some people don't give a crap regardless of what you feel for them. Forget about her, she's not worth it. | |
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