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| The sex lasts too long....he doesn't like to be rushed? He's wearing me out!
Posted: 6/3/2008 10:06:16 AM | Sheesh... when I was younger it was too fast.. now it's to slow. Women... you can't live with 'em... and can't be heterosexual without out 'em. I'll take 'em... even with all the complaining. LOL.
What's wrong with telling the dude.."look, we have 47 minutes to get this done, bust a nut by then or we'll try again next time."
Say what you want and by a timer to put by the bed... quit complaining.  | |
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| The sex lasts too long....he doesn't like to be rushed? He's wearing me out!
Posted: 6/3/2008 11:18:52 AM | I am soooooo reminded of the saying "Be careful what you wish for, you just might get it".
Anyway...sounds like you've figured out a few key things (start earlier, get freakier, etc.) and your back to having good hot fun.
Sorry to hear about so many women that don't get this kind of action. Not sure about other men...but for me, nothing gets round 2/3/4/5/6 started quicker than a BJ (I guess I'm endowed with an "inflatable toy"). A message to the guys...giving her oral inbetween is a GREAT way to kill some time and keep her motor roaring while you recover & get ready for the next round...or just go exploring all over just to see exactly where/what makes her tick/purr/roar.
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| The sex lasts too long....he doesn't like to be rushed? He's wearing me out!
Posted: 6/3/2008 11:26:05 AM | I don't get it
how is this a problem?... if I was single I'd say send him my way... love a man who will take his time and last more than 20 minutes.
is he giving you yours?
Maybe you should schedule it so that after say..oh..an hour and a half you have to leave for an appointment or something? It's a thought. Or you could do what some guys do and just start snoring! Or get up and make yourself something to eat and put the game on. | |
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| The sex lasts too long....he doesn't like to be rushed? He's wearing me out!
Posted: 6/5/2008 10:27:07 AM | Nobody seems to take this problem seriously. And it is a problem.
If you like this guy, you need to talk this out with him. He probably doesn't have a clue that it's a problem since most women have the opposite complaint as some of the responses here have shown.
Here's a suggestion, since he's capable of 2 or 3 rounds a night, maybe you should ask him to "take care of business" BEFORE he comes over, if you get my drift.
I've read that porn actors do this so that they can last during a session.
In my much younger days I had a problem with not being able to last very long, so I would do that before a date that I knew was going to involve sex. The "second" time took much longer and was more satisfying for both of us. | |
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| The sex lasts too long....he doesn't like to be rushed? He's wearing me out!
Posted: 6/5/2008 10:43:32 AM |
Nobody seems to take this problem seriously. And it is a problem.
If you like this guy, you need to talk this out with him. He probably doesn't have a clue that it's a problem since most women have the opposite complaint as some of the responses here have shown.
Here's a suggestion, since he's capable of 2 or 3 rounds a night, maybe you should ask him to "take care of business" BEFORE he comes over, if you get my drift.
I've read that porn actors do this so that they can last during a session.
In my much younger days I had a problem with not being able to last very long, so I would do that before a date that I knew was going to involve sex. The "second" time took much longer and was more satisfying for both of us.
Your suggestion of him taking care of himself first, so he can last longer is the exact opposite of what she is looking for.
You are right, not everyone is taking this as a serious problem, as it shouldn't be a problem. Some of the people here do want to be with someone over and over until they both fall to the floor from complete exhaustion.... yeah
I think this woman has the best of both worlds, she has all her sexual needs completely taken care of, and she doesn't have to deal with any emotional baggage, she sees him on her time. I really don't see the problem and I would gladly help her out.
Many of us women want an attentive lover, not a 2 minute man as some of the posts here have shown. Too many times we end up with a man that only satisfies himself, some of the women here have expressed that they would love to have a man that has the stamina to 'wear' us out! I still don't see the problem.... | |
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| The sex lasts too long....he doesn't like to be rushed? He's wearing me out!
Posted: 6/5/2008 11:29:07 AM | This the perfect situation for compromise. When you have the time do it until you both pass out and when you don't have the time make him give you a quikee. Tell him exactly what you think and exactly what you need and get him to do the same. Then you can compromise. If you both give a little and take a little you should both be happy. If not you are not ment to have a lasting relationship.
It's simple. The main thing is communicating exactly how you feel. | |
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| The sex lasts too long....he doesn't like to be rushed? He's wearing me out!
Posted: 6/5/2008 11:30:46 AM | | No, I wasn't suggesting that so he could last longer, it was so he didn't have to have 3 rounds to get satisfied with her. I only brought up the other issue because in my 20's and 30's I was like him but the first time was always quick. Fortunately, that's no longer a problem...but neither is the wearing her out from 3 or 4 times a night, even with the blue pill. LOL. But there are always other methods. | |
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| The sex lasts too long....he doesn't like to be rushed? He's wearing me out!
Posted: 6/5/2008 12:58:45 PM | two things: try building up your stamina by getting more exercise. i cant see jogging a mile or two a day being much more strenuous than a few hours of laying on your back doing something naughty and fun. also try some lotions, toys, gels or activities that may get your partner off quicker | |
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| The sex lasts too long....he doesn't like to be rushed? He's wearing me out!
Posted: 6/5/2008 2:32:23 PM | OP when you said he was younger than you and said he is thirty I had to go look at your profile. You look very young but then I thought maybe you posted an old picture….. HE IS ONLY 4 YEARS YOUNGER.
I am 44 years old my FWB is your age . We go on for hours, literally. I have a job and a child that take up most of my time but I still make time for myself.
All I have to say is…
Girl, take some vitamins! 
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| The sex lasts too long....he doesn't like to be rushed? He's wearing me out!
Posted: 6/6/2008 6:37:35 AM | OP when you said he was younger than you and said he is thirty I had to go look at your profile. You look very young but then I thought maybe you posted an old picture….. HE IS ONLY 4 YEARS YOUNGER.
I am 44 years old my FWB is your age . We go on for hours, literally. I have a job and a child that take up most of my time but I still make time for myself.
All I have to say is…
Girl, take some vitamins!
lol....hours of fun is good most times, but sometimes I just want a quickie, but he never does!
He say's that he doesn't like to be rushed and he likes to take his time. Also no matter how long or short the first session is he ALWAYS wants 2 or 3 more. Now, this is of course somewhat flattering, but when you have already had a long, hard day and have to get up early it can just be down right annoying! | |
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| The sex lasts too long....he doesn't like to be rushed? He's wearing me out!
Posted: 6/6/2008 6:44:52 AM |
: He say's that he doesn't like to be rushed and he likes to take his time. Also no matter how long or short the first session is he ALWAYS wants 2 or 3 more. Now, this is of course somewhat flattering, but when you have already had a long, hard day and have to get up early it can just be down right annoying!
Girl... pass him on over.. I'm sure another female would be more then happy to have him take care of her needs!! Without being annoyed!! sheesh | |
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| The sex lasts too long....he doesn't like to be rushed? He's wearing me out!
Posted: 6/6/2008 7:13:44 AM | Nope....keeping him for awhile and taking some extra B-12 
Just FYI- last night we were talking on the phone and he told me that he wants "more" from our relationship than just sex, because he already feels like it's more than that. He asked me what I thought about that, and I told him that I like things the way they are now, but we will see what happens.
We talked about the whole marathon sex thing once again and he said that he can't help it....he just craves me...I guess that's good, huh?
He also wants to know if he can spend the night sometimes so he can hold me all night long...I said MAYBE....I picture him waking me up at 3 a.m. for more sex...LOL
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| The sex lasts too long....he doesn't like to be rushed? He's wearing me out!
Posted: 6/6/2008 5:03:50 PM | In some ways you are very lucky, I wish all men had a lot of stamina, most don't! But at same time I can understand how it can get tiresome too, when you find yourself thinking of what you have to do the next day or find yourself wondering off into another world and than coming back to reality and he still is there , ya I would get tired too. LOL I've been there, I know how it can be.  | |
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| The sex lasts too long....he doesn't like to be rushed? He's wearing me out!
Posted: 6/6/2008 5:07:23 PM | | I know what you mean. When I was young every guy was a minute man now my last relationships have been with much older men and yikes, they can go for hours. They spend too much time in foreplay, are too oral, and want to do it 3 or 4 times and cuddle for hours. I used to like this but now I just want to kick them out of bed as I like to sleep alone. | |
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| The sex lasts too long....he doesn't like to be rushed? He's wearing me out!
Posted: 6/7/2008 11:33:02 AM |
I know what you mean. When I was young every guy was a minute man now my last relationships have been with much older men and yikes, they can go for hours. They spend too much time in foreplay, are too oral, and want to do it 3 or 4 times and cuddle for hours. I used to like this but now I just want to kick them out of bed as I like to sleep alone.
At last a kindred soul!  | |
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| The sex lasts too long....he doesn't like to be rushed? He's wearing me out!
Posted: 6/7/2008 12:02:19 PM | Start sooner.. take up harder positions that wear him down? umm.. ya..
Some days I was like that somedays not.. take a frigging stick to make it go away..
when your tired just say so.. thats what my ex did.. she was sore.. or far to sensitive to go anymore.. she would use her hand/mouth then we would curl up pull the sheets up and crash n burn.. even though several minutes later we would both be awake when shes not comfy enough is enough. | |
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