| The sex lasts too long....he doesn't like to be rushed? He's wearing me out!
Posted: 6/7/2008 12:58:37 PM | | I would set a boundary here and let him know how you feel. Tell him you love the experience but it is lasting too long and set a limit. You could also tell him that you have other plans later and need to be done by a certain time. Don't lie, but anything can be "other plans", resting for one... LOL | |
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| The sex lasts too long....he doesn't like to be rushed? He's wearing me out!
Posted: 6/7/2008 6:19:11 PM | | I agree, not many people are seeing this as the problem it can be. Let's get real, we don't always have 3 hours every time we want to have sex. Of course you should give as much of yourself as you can, but how can you relax and have fun when you're the one who's worn out and had enough? I find this selfish on the boyfriend's part to expect a long and drawn out sex party every time. He's going to have a rude awakening when he's a parent and kids can't be unattended for 3 hours! | |
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| The sex lasts too long....he doesn't like to be rushed? He's wearing me out!
Posted: 6/7/2008 7:49:14 PM | My opinion: some black, leather knee high stiletto's,or other various outfits that he loves.....he may need to spend some more time on HIS knees and ......tell some tasty stories to him so you can kick back and read a magazine while he keeps himself busy.Otherwise, for those tired days, caller I.D baby, caller I.D.
P.S I find green tea gives me energy.
Good luck and GOD BLESS.
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Posted: 6/7/2008 9:40:31 PM | | So my friend thought he pulled a muscle at the gym....was really hurting so he went to the urgent care center and turns out he has a hernia...ouch. He is going to need surgery to repair it. Date not set for the outpatient surgery yet, but at least 2 weeks before he can engage in any sexual activities after that! | |
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Posted: 6/7/2008 10:45:34 PM | Believe it or not, my now ex-wife divorced me because (among other reasons) she thought I took too long to cum and that I was too big for her.
So your problem is not totally unheard of. . .not where i am concerned anyway. | |
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| The sex lasts too long....he doesn't like to be rushed? He's wearing me out!
Posted: 6/9/2008 8:11:21 AM | | I have always done my best to satisfy the woman i was with. Sometimes lasting for hours. I did everything i could think of to make her squirm or squeel. However i found that sometimes i worked at it to long and hard. After a while it could be like work. Not because i didnt enjoy it but because she didnt want or need that much and became less interesting to her. I think you should sit down and talk about how much you want and need. There is probably a point at which you will both be satisfied. As for you girls that complain about it not lasting long enough. Raise the age limit of the guys that you are looking for. We appriciate you more and will work harder at your satisfaction when we are a little older. | |
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| The sex lasts too long....he doesn't like to be rushed? He's wearing me out!
Posted: 6/9/2008 8:22:19 AM | I would rather have a guy who can last longer than 15 minutes or unfortuantely in my case the quickest was 5 minutes. *gags*
I will assure you I was pissed beyond pissed when that happened.
I want a marathon man not a minute man!!!!!!!! I wanna feel MUSH to the point where it hurts SO good in all the RIGHT places....... mmmmmmhmmmmmmmmm :)
OPie where ya live -- I'll move there and take him off your hands for ya.  | |
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| The sex lasts too long....he doesn't like to be rushed? He's wearing me out!
Posted: 6/9/2008 8:53:37 AM | Maybe he doesnt get turned on by women as much as he thinks so it takes him hours to convince himself its time to finally explode....
Maybe he isnt as turned on by you as you think?
Personally speaking im a marathoner myself, but only if the woman is up for it otherwise i could flick a switch in my mind and make it a quickie.
Try this: Ask him to do it in public where you can almost get caught, see how fast he shoots then...if its still a marathon id be wondering if he is turned on sexually...public "i might get caught" sex always gets me in 2min flat LOL. | |
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| The sex lasts too long....he doesn't like to be rushed? He's wearing me out!
Posted: 6/9/2008 9:27:21 AM | Never had a problem like that.... tends to be the other way around....
But...
If I ever did...
I just can't picture it... IM sorry OP... I just don't know what I would do..
hmmm... wait... I'd limit my days at work and enjoy the extacy of that man...
Ugh... How about ask him to come over on your days off... then you will have the time and energy to carry on this kind of a relationship....
I envy you.... grrr | |
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| The sex lasts too long....he doesn't like to be rushed? He's wearing me out!
Posted: 6/9/2008 10:07:44 AM | | Personally when I was "single" I was somewhat like this, would go often and for a while, tried to be a marathon man, in retrospec think it had to with insercurities about not really pleasing the women I was with enough. Now after being with my partner for 3 years we've learned to have a nice balance of quickies, and being really late for meetings ;) She said something along the lines of what the OP has said. I remember my SO saying "Its just no fun wincing everytime I sit down at work, people always ask if i'm alright" | |
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| The sex lasts too long....he doesn't like to be rushed? He's wearing me out!
Posted: 6/9/2008 11:18:42 AM | If more men did their Kegel's instead of jackin to porn there would be FAR MORE Marathon Men. It's not rocket science (Oh, wait...maybe it is!! LOL). Men can control their orgasms nearly as well as women, but for the most part guys are TOO LAZY!!
Heck, if you are gonna pick ONE muscle you can control, might as well start with your favorite, right?? I see guys at the gym & dojo practising to control dang near every muscle in their bodies, yet MOST neglect to spend an short period of time daily to dedicate to Kegel. (Of course the steroid use tends to cause shrinkage problems anyway...lol) So they kvetch about their relationships, or go through an inordinate number of women trying to find the "Right One" (meaning one that'll put up with the BS & lousy sex) while ignoring the simple exercise that will make them not only last LONGER in bed, but give them multiple orgasm capability!!
Do the Kegels. Do them daily. Take the time to actually LISTEN to the women and try out their fantasies (most are kinkyer than you'd think). Be the guy they'll forever remember as "Oh Gawd, there was this one guy...mmmmm....I miss him..." because 92% of men out there are Minute Men and YOU will be a Bacchnallian Delight.
Now for the bad news. Being a Marathon Man also makes it somewhat difficult to find that "Miss Right" just as the OP stated. Most gals have NO IDEA what they've got and actually complain about it...at least the first time they run across it, the second time they chain you to a bed & keep you there  I've got ex-gf's going back to 1985 that want another go-round...but as I'm currently monogamously occupied they are outta luck  The other bad thing is that occasionally you will find a wonderful woman that matches your intellect...but is absolutely horrid in the sack...what to do there?? break it off and move on. Sexual Compatability is not an option, it's a requirement. | |
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| The sex lasts too long....he doesn't like to be rushed? He's wearing me out!
Posted: 6/10/2008 2:36:39 PM | | My live in girlfriend is kind of like your guy. She orgasms extremely easily and ususually has multiples and she is almost always in the mood. We'll have wild sex, she'll have several orgasms during intercourse. Then I'm wiped out but she wants more so I go down on her and she has several more. Then we'll go to sleep, we'll be spooning and I'll wake up because she is sort of humping against my tailbone so I roll over and do some more oral until she cums a few more times. then when we wake up she wants more. She also squirts so we change the sheets 4 or 5 times a week. I'm not complaining at all. I totally love it. It's just a very similar situation. The only thing is that we can still do a quickie and move on to other stuff. It's just that when we get home she will definitely want the full treatment. | |
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| The sex lasts too long....he doesn't like to be rushed? He's wearing me out!
Posted: 6/19/2008 12:54:15 PM |
I knew a guy , he's 47 & its unbelievable!! he can, without a doubt, on a daily basis have sex, no problem 10 times, & more. He cums, it doesn't even go down. He woke me up all night when I slept over there & omg..if he had some wine or alcohol in him...it was even worse!! He says he needs a doctor, that something is wrong..I said..R U Nuts!!!???? There's no problem honey, its just one of those things!
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