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Posted: 6/1/2008 12:31:47 PM | I have a theory & want various opinions on it whether they be agreeing or disagreeing.
The theory is thus;
#1) Women (in general), apart from porn starlets and literal professionals, wouldn't know how to give a good & decent blowjob to save their lives.
#2) Men (in general), can't tell the difference between a good blowjob & a bad one because they usually have never had a truly good one.
Re: #2) This happens because guys in general mostly get so worked up about the idea of having a chick sticking their****in her mouth that they shoot in all of a minute or less. Which i believe in turn leads and/or contributes to the above point #1 regarding women.
Agree or Disagree?
You must be a whiz with the ladies. You should make this your conversation starter...
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Posted: 6/1/2008 2:19:20 PM | In order for a woman to give good head, she needs a partner to tell her what feels good and what doesn't. Now if a guy can't even last 5 minutes with a mouth on their c--k then the fact that a woman isn't doing a good job is his own damn fault. I think I'm pretty darn good, any takers? jk.  | |
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Posted: 6/1/2008 3:10:59 PM |
#1) Women (in general), apart from porn starlets and literal professionals, wouldn't know how to give a good & decent blowjob to save their lives.
I don't agree with the porn star part. Porn head is about looks and I have found some women try to emulate porn thinking it makes it godd and it isn't all that great.
I will agree many women do not know how to give good head.
Hehehehe I am sure most women will say most men don't know how to give oral also.
#2) Men (in general), can't tell the difference between a good blowjob & a bad one because they usually have never had a truly good one.
As I can only go from my own experiences but from the ratio of women who say that all the men they have been with said they gave great head and they weren't that good at it I would tend to agree.
Re: #2) This happens because guys in general mostly get so worked up about the idea of having a chick sticking their****in her mouth that they shoot in all of a minute or less. Which i believe in turn leads and/or contributes to the above point #1 regarding women.
Sounds reasonable.
Good fellatio is like good cunnilingus. It takes knowledge, practice, empathy and it is very important to really really like doing it.
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Posted: 6/1/2008 3:13:11 PM | It would seem from reading this thread that the OP doesn't even understand that 'blow job' is just a figure of speech.
I have met ladies of all abilities from non-existent, to those that literally could suck a billiard ball through a garden hose.
Like all sex, it's a two way street. You only get out, what you put into it...
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Posted: 6/1/2008 7:30:19 PM | | Guys are the ones watching all the porn, i think if a girl was slobbering on your knob like a doberman or smacking it off her nose most guys would be able to safely assume she doesn't know what she's doing. | |
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Posted: 6/1/2008 7:38:23 PM | if it were that easy none of us would be here..... | |
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Posted: 6/1/2008 10:48:00 PM | What a bizarre thread topic.
(1) In general, women figure it out (except for some reason, need to be reminded about the molars periodically.)
(2) What makes you think that guys ``get so worked up'' about this? Maybe oral sex is uncommon on your planet, but here on Earth, it seems to be a part of the whole sex thing. I've always taken it for granted that oral sex is part of the deal and would get really ``unworked up'' about an encounter where it was off the table as an option. | |
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Posted: 6/1/2008 11:12:22 PM | #1 - Agree
#2 - Strongly disagree. Men know the difference...most guys don't...jerks don't (read: Re: #2)...wusses don't (too scared to act like it matters...just happy they're getting laid).
And Re: #2 - I've only had 2 woman who weren't more than willing...in fact most were anxious AND willing...but I think very few...4 at most, truly put the heart, mind, body and soul into it. And those 4 I'll remember and cherish.
And now that I think about it...one was able to get so into it...that she was able to have orgasms just from the sucking and me talking to her about what she was feeling. She said it was the most strange orgasm...total body but started in her chest rather than the more usual locations.
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Posted: 6/1/2008 11:26:28 PM | | I disagree completely. There are plenty of women out there that not only give good blow jobs, but get turned on while in the act. As far as getting a bad blow job? She should at least be applauded for the effort. | |
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Posted: 6/1/2008 11:33:50 PM | *Speechless* to say the least...
Some people are naturals at this (not me)...
Porn isn't real....
So you wouldn't recognize a good one if it happened to you (Sad!)...
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Posted: 6/2/2008 12:37:03 AM | I disagree on the first point... I think its complete bull... I think it all depends on the person recieving the BJ and their personal preferences... One mans trash is another mans treasure...
I disagree on the second point... for pretty much the same reasons as above. When you are with someone you learn to do what they like by communicating with each other...
Just for the record I have never had any complaints... more the opposite. | |
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Posted: 6/2/2008 1:56:30 AM | I dont know what you mean by all men...because you sure as hell dont speak for me...You must be messing with some metal mouth girl's....There is clumsy girl's that give head , or too much teeth..But there is no such thing as bad head.Some of you might even mistake bad head for something else.Like the fact that maybe the woman is having trouble getting passed the musty smelling ball's.So if your pube' hair's are looking like an afro or your if your****taste like piss lemonade...then you might want to groom yourself up..And i promise you there will not be anymore bad head.Your so worried about bad head that you didnt stop and ask yourself...Hmmm...Are my ball's stinking today??? Are my pube's growing out of control??? If you dont keep yourself clean down there..women will give bad head just to get you to say stop.Me I dont have that problem...Mine taste like chicken  | |
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Posted: 6/2/2008 2:04:55 AM | speaking from my own experience...i've been told that i could give lessons, and i have a few ex lovers who'd happily volunteer to be my demonstration model should i ever do so. however i really don't believe that there's any way to teach someone how to give better head, it's more about desire and pleasure during the act than a specific technique. most girls simply don't like it (the taste or the act), so how the heck are they going to do a good job when they have a complete lack of motivation? i like what i do, orally and sexually...i use eye-contact, fingers, tongue, lips, mouth, and occasionally toys on my lover. it's all about feeling a man's body writhing in response to what i'm doing to him and being sensitive to his reactions -- pleasing my partner is my ultimate turn-on, and why i'm good at what i do.
as for the OP's comments...
most porn starlets look absolutely bored while giving head. i can't imagine that they're very good regardless of all the practise they get. i've known a few men who've actually been involved in the porn industry, and they describe their female counterparts as generally self-absorbed and sexually selfish. based on those reviews, i think that the appeal of a porn nympho has more to do with fantasy rather than actual fact. as for any other men who've actually gotten a bj from a porn actress or a pro, please feel free to share your experience if it differs from the opinions above -- i'm sure there must be a few exceptions out there. | |
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Posted: 6/2/2008 2:27:04 AM | Interesting....
crazycurlz,
Taking notes! LOL!!!! | |
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Posted: 6/4/2008 6:38:58 AM | Seeing this guy doesn't a good one from a bad. He is just out of luck.
What about a Thread of :
Spitters vs Swallowers, Does swallowing make you a dirty slut?
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Posted: 6/4/2008 7:20:14 AM | I wouldn't totally know. Out of all of the women I've gotten head from, including those in that type of profession, there have only been around three of them or so who could give it to me good enough to get me off. One of those may not have even been a guy. She looked and acted like a women, but I still wonder until this day. Anyway, I have a hard time with getting off from a B.J. because I prefer to have an orgasm from intercourse instead.
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Posted: 6/4/2008 7:48:00 AM | | just becasuse your Man says your good at is, dosn't mean anything, ive had a amazing blowjob that i coudlnt handle it, i told that girl she was dam good, i also told another girl that sucked ass she was good, don't want to hurt no feelings ya know | |
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Posted: 6/4/2008 8:19:16 AM | Who is the most beautiful woman in the world?
The one with your c**k in her mouth!
'Nuff said :) | |
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Posted: 6/4/2008 8:28:11 AM | If what I see in porn is defined as a "good" blowjob, then I'm doing something wrong
the women look like they are gagging most of the time...bwahahahahahahahahaha
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Posted: 6/4/2008 9:03:02 AM |
If what I see in porn is defined as a "good" blowjob, then I'm doing something wrong
the women look like they are gagging most of the time...bwahahahahahahahahaha
Really? Most of my guy friends have been telling me getting my gf to watch some porn is the best way of improving her oral skills. I haven't asked her to yet... I think shed be up for the porn watching but Im not sure how well she would take an honest assessment of her abilities in that area. | |
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Posted: 6/4/2008 9:06:38 AM | Visit ideepthroat.com ... Heather sells videos teaching her remarkable techniques. I am proud to say she helped me. Of course, one tends to be good at things one loves to do  | |
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Posted: 6/4/2008 9:12:57 AM | #1) Agree. (with the stipulation that I have no idea about, or experience with, pros and/or porn stars, so I really have no idea if they're any different)
#2) Disagree. I'm lucky in that I've had one good one in my life (long, long ago...), so my calibration is properly set. Therefore I also disagree with the statement under #2b, but mostly because it's nothing I ever fantasize about, which is perhaps a result of #1 being true. | |
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Posted: 6/4/2008 9:52:54 AM |
the women look like they are gagging most of the time
A little bit of gagging can be really erotic..... the feeling of your throat closing around the head of his c*ck is apparently a pretty amazing feeling from what I've been told. Not all women can "embrace the gag" as another forum poster said in a different thread awhile back....
I love to lay my partners fingers on each side of my throat so he can feel himself inside and how it makes me gag a bit once in awhile. The men I have been with find this very hot.
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Posted: 6/4/2008 10:00:33 AM |
#1) Women (in general), apart from porn starlets and literal professionals, wouldn't know how to give a good & decent blowjob to save their lives.
From what I have discovered, most men don't like getting bjs the way a pornstar does them. A pornstar goes really fast, and looks like she is really yanking on it. Most men (once again, from my experience) prefer a nice slow lick and tongueing method, with slow deep movements of the c!ock into the back of the throat. Of course you can mix in some faster movements.. and change technnique up.. but from what I know of porn, all I see is the woman trying to suck and beat at the speed of light. | |
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