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 countrytat

Joined: 2/1/2006
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Posted: 6/4/2008 10:00:37 AM
I disagree.... I give AMAZING BJ's... ....so I have been told!
 swingpup

Joined: 10/21/2006
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Posted: 6/4/2008 1:18:09 PM
Oh buddy you're associating with the wrong women. 99% of all BJ's are great a.k.a. "amazing" the other 1% are simply good. Step it up a few notches son, hell your young enough, you'll dial it in.....It sometimes takes time to truly relax and enjoy the adventures, which cums with experience.
 Von Erik

Joined: 3/28/2008
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Posted: 6/4/2008 3:00:25 PM

A little bit of gagging can be really erotic..... the feeling of your throat closing around the head of his c*ck is apparently a pretty amazing feeling from what I've been told. Not all women can "embrace the gag" as another forum poster said in a different thread awhile back....

I love to lay my partners fingers on each side of my throat so he can feel himself inside and how it makes me gag a bit once in awhile. The men I have been with find this very hot.




Amazing indeed...

A woman I went out with a few years ago came up gasping for air, mascara ruined... She said "*sniff* Brings a tear to my eyes..." I said "yeah... me too"...
 Kazot

Joined: 8/11/2007
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Posted: 6/4/2008 3:21:52 PM

A little bit of gagging can be really erotic..... the feeling of your throat closing around the head of his c*ck is apparently a pretty amazing feeling from what I've been told. Not all women can "embrace the gag" as another forum poster said in a different thread awhile back....

I love to lay my partners fingers on each side of my throat so he can feel himself inside and how it makes me gag a bit once in awhile. The men I have been with find this very hot.

I would dare to say that here is a woman who has made mens eyes roll back in their head and caused them to loose the ability of coherent speach.

Yes some times gagging can be incredably erotic. The ego stroke that you are big/long enough to gag her and then double ego stroke that she is willing to gag on your c0ck to please you.

WOO HOO!!!
 777roxy777

Joined: 10/27/2007
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Posted: 6/4/2008 3:24:07 PM
speaking 4 myself i disagree,but i personally think you have to love and be turned on .therefore i do it with a passion ,and found each man differs. so if i dont know by body language id ask.hope ive helped you with ur mission ,could i ask personal question are you gay no affence?
 MalibuSteve

Joined: 2/1/2008
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Posted: 6/4/2008 3:54:27 PM
I admit I haven't read all responses yet, so this may have been mentioned, but there is a fundametal flaw in your reasoning.

What makes a bj good is whether or not the people involved enjoy it. A man can tell if a bj is good because if it is, it feels good. Even if it's the first one he's received, he's capable of determining if it's good.

As far as women being good at it, I have first hand experience that says that at least some women are. (To aAny other women looking to prove their skill, I'll help you out and be a willing recipient. )
 singleandhot

Joined: 4/29/2007
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Posted: 6/4/2008 4:33:30 PM
*1..come on you've probably saw loads of those porn stars giving bj's there abolutely crap....a man likes to be teased in that area first leading up to a fantastic bj...i've never had no complaints...i get told mine are special....if someone said to me rate yourself out of ten for giving bj.s i'd say 11 haha!! all true...a porn star does'nt even look like she's enjoying it....
*2...Well you've never had one off me thats why lmao....
Re..*2...and if a guy shoots real quick how the hell does he know he's getting a good bj? just means he can't control himself and is a turn off for a woman....
 fulbak33818

Joined: 4/16/2008
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Posted: 6/4/2008 5:35:52 PM
1missblueeyes, can i find out those skills one day? :)
 SmellOfPoop

Joined: 6/8/2007
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Posted: 6/4/2008 5:39:32 PM
Like all people, some are talented and others suck, pun intended. :P

I had a "slave" who was EXTREMELY good at giving blowjobs. Not only was she talented, she swallowed every drop and tried to suck me off 3-5 times in a night.

Now, compare that to women who complain it's disgusting or simply suck without enthusiasm. I can tell the difference and will never settle for one of those kind of women ever again.
 SmellOfPoop

Joined: 6/8/2007
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Posted: 6/4/2008 5:48:07 PM
It is easy to tell from porn which women are being mechanical and which ones are enjoying the act. In general, good bj porn is in the "amateur porn."
 ExplosiveSheep

Joined: 9/22/2007
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Posted: 6/5/2008 3:20:24 AM
That's why amateur porn is the best stuff to watch. Oh and not just for bj's.
 fragster_72

Joined: 4/16/2007
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Posted: 6/5/2008 7:42:40 AM
I just dont think you appreciate the fact that most women will give you a good blow job, at the end of the day i have had a few but i've never been satisfied to the full but i dont complain about it, its just experience at the end of the day, some how i think you missed the point on that bit!
 fragster_72

Joined: 4/16/2007
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Posted: 6/5/2008 7:43:18 AM
Are you single, i haven't had one in awhile, i'll tell you if you do or not. Do you swallow? LOL?
 heaight

Joined: 9/6/2007
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Posted: 6/5/2008 8:02:24 AM
ive gotta disagree with u on all counts guy, well kinda: yea alot of women actually dont give good blow jobs, and porn might actually be a big part of the reason, porn stars are required to cum on cue, and when the actors moan its usually faking it, simply for the viewers, to let us know yea there into it. the key, at least to me for all parties on oral is slow then fast, some girls stroke it like their rolling dice, it doesnt feel good to me.

-and of course men can tell which ones is good and which ones bad, im a nuetral g when it comes to me getting oral, id like to get it once in a while, but i wont die if i dont,
so i know when one is good if i cum quick, the wack ones are usually longer.
i know chicks dont like it when a guy comes too quick, but hey, be happy u got him to the point where he couldnt hold it any longer, and theres a different from a guy who jus naturally cums too quick and one who cums quick from a good bj, and if chicks dont like that he might cum too quick maybe u should suck at it more
lol and naw guy 99% of the bj's arnt amazing.
 Kazot

Joined: 8/11/2007
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Posted: 6/5/2008 9:46:04 AM
A BJ is sex and just like any other form of sex there are those that are good at it and those who aren't.

And just like any kind of sex there are guys who think it is great they are getting sex so it must be good.

Most woman think they are good or great at sex because that is all they have ever heard from guys. Just from the number of inhibited posters on PoF it is easy to see that many of them are not that good.

I have been with enough woman to have found there is a great variance between their sexual capabilities yet every one of them thought they were a great lover.

Ladies, just because a guy doesn't complain or even if he says you were great take it with a grain of salt.
 dustyangel1

Joined: 3/13/2007
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Posted: 6/5/2008 10:06:04 AM

decent = mouth only.
good = mouth and tongue.
excellent (level one) = mouth, tongue and hands.
excellent (level two) = mouth, tongue, hands, fingers.
excellent (level three) = mouth, tongue, hands, fingers, tits against my balls
excellent (level four) = mouth, tongue, hands, fingers, tits aginst my balls, deep throat
excellent (level five) = all the above plus teabagging
excellent (level six) = all the above plus biting
excellent (level seven) = all the above plus swallowing
excellent (level eight) = all the above plus her girlfriend
excellent (level nine) = all the above plus passionately kissing her girlfriend
excellent (level ten) = all the above.... and she opens my beer while her girlfriend retrieves the remote control in time for the second half of the Super Bowl.


I must say, it's interesting going thru a whole weeks worth of replies to a thread when the time comes that i can log on... however, the above provided grading calculator... GOLD GOLD GOLD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Excellent work My I, that's a priceless addition to this post... I love it!
 ExplosiveSheep

Joined: 9/22/2007
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Posted: 6/6/2008 12:37:03 AM
Replace Super Bowl with Stanley Cup Playoffs for us Canadians and he's got something.

Oh and BTW, socially the idea is out there that in order to be good at sex all women have to do is "show up". Most men and women think they're totally the hottest thing going in the sack, the difference between the sexes is that when men are bad women are more likely to say so since it's a lot less likely he's gonna get up and walk out on her, where as if you criticize a woman's work in bed, I guarantee to you it's not going to go as well as you'd hoped.

I was watching a thing on T.V. a while ago where some woman was talking about how she's the blow job master, she knows how to do it and her boyfriend should stop being an idiot trying to show her little tricks and stuff, she was born with innate skills in bed. You could tell by the look on his face he was thinking "if you were that f*ckin good I wouldn't be trying to teach you stuff I like."

Every guy is different, what rocks the socks of some guy's c*ck, might not do much for another guy, for some people, myself included sex is at least 50% mental, honestly what do you think dirty talk is for, or sex with the lights on, or different positions, or fancy underwear, or whatever is all about?
 Kindredspirit07

Joined: 7/29/2005
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Posted: 6/6/2008 2:28:11 AM
I disagree on all three points. I consider them generalizations. Maybe you have just been with the wrong women.
 ScruffyDude

Joined: 1/14/2007
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Posted: 6/6/2008 2:31:08 AM

Re: #2) This happens because guys in general mostly get so worked up about the idea of having a chick sticking their****in her mouth that they shoot in all of a minute or less. Which i believe in turn leads and/or contributes to the above point #1 regarding women.

Agree or Disagree?



Your therory is flawed there is no such blowjob that could make a man come in a minute.
 AdRtist

Joined: 5/11/2008
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Posted: 6/6/2008 2:34:35 AM
Wow.....I personally believe its all about chemistry. If youre happy and in love with whomever your with....then and only then, that will determine the act.
 Kindredspirit07

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Posted: 6/6/2008 2:35:38 AM
It's partially your responsibility to be properly pleasured in bed. If you just lay there and say nothing then maybe she won't do the things that you prefer. An active partner will always be a better pleasured partner in the end. Tell her what you like and you will get the BJ that you like. Plain and simple...
 groovinalong

Joined: 5/2/2008
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Posted: 6/6/2008 7:10:44 AM
Disagree. I think the trick is asking the man exactly what HE wants you to do. There can be much more than just putting your mouth on them, most guys know what they want you to do, they just may not feel comfortable asking. I also think it is alot of the position you are in at the time. Leaning over them, or on your knees in front of them, etc. There are many different ways to enhance the "performance" so ask him what he wants! The most important quality to giving good oral sex is enjoying what you are doing, if you don't like it then you probably won't be that good at it, however if you do enjoy it then you will take the time to rock their world.
 wranglergrl

Joined: 6/17/2007
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Posted: 6/6/2008 7:37:28 AM
Hey plumb5150, you hit that one right on the nose. Good for you.
 mztia6

Joined: 6/2/2008
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Posted: 6/6/2008 11:35:49 AM
if you've ever seen a great looking guy with an ugly dog, that's why...she's gave him the best head he ever had...
 westmoe

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Posted: 6/6/2008 4:42:57 PM
adelica when you do it do you enjoy it.
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