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Posted: 6/6/2008 5:41:28 PM |
Your therory is flawed there is no such blowjob that could make a man come in a minute.
You haven't gotten around enough. A good willing woman and a bit of talent and sexiness will achieve that.... | |
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Posted: 6/6/2008 5:53:41 PM | sorry to hear you have never experienced a good blowjob .. well according your own expectations and such .. have you ever asked what made you not like it? could your part have been played differently in order for the job to be done better? .. lots of questions .. / comments.
basicly however .. one day you may get what you are looking for .. just don't give up. The best blowjob usually comes when the girl is willing to give and feels cared for and/or ... loved. | |
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Posted: 6/6/2008 6:48:16 PM | | Any good woman who can cook a good dinner, can give a good blowjob and a good ride! I'm happy to oblige with my long tongue to suave' her **** for awesome orgasm or long dyck to make her gyser! | |
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Posted: 6/6/2008 7:17:34 PM | I think the difference is made somewhere between whether she WANTS to do it and enjoys it, or if she's doing it because she feels she "owes" you for favors you've performed.
Big difference there..
If she's getting into it... then of course it would be more enjoyable.. but if you gotta chick thats just kinda.. (you know) ... not into it... then, it's not gonna feel that great, physically (or mentally).
However, i dont have a penis so I cant say for sure, these are only assumptions...lol ;) | |
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Posted: 6/6/2008 9:17:48 PM |
I think the difference is made somewhere between whether she WANTS to do it and enjoys it, or if she's doing it because she feels she "owes" you for favors you've performed.
While this would seem to make sense, it, like most generalizations, does not always hold true. For example one woman I know was more than willing, but only ok at it. Another woman really disliked doing it, but was mind-blowingly incredible at it.
However, with the woman who was incredible, there was a definite difference between when she was doing it to make me happy and the rare occasion that she really got into it. Having had that experience, I strongly disagree with the original post of this thread. | |
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Posted: 6/6/2008 9:32:59 PM | | Any normal woman gives a real blowjob cause she knows she's got a real man! | |
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Posted: 6/7/2008 12:44:50 AM | imma keeper,
I can't speak for anyone else, but for me, that's it exactly. It has never been exciting for me to feel that the woman's doing it because she thinks I'll enjoy it, or because she wants to reciprocate. Long ago I had a gf who really was into giving me oral. And that's what made it so great. So sometimes one partner pleases the other one most when they're not trying to. When someone's fascinated with what they're doing and pretty much can't get enough of it, their technique is almost guaranteed to be good. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2008 1:15:05 AM | If you are attracted to each other, open and not inhibited, communicate well and can accept direction, and totally comfortable with human sexuality...you can learn to give great BJ's if you don't already. I personally could not give a BJ to someone who I was n0t totally into in every area..mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually..and when I am on all those levels I give all I have got..and boy, it is good..so, if a woman isn't giving you what you would like, analyze the depth of the relationship, communication level/abiltiy..and also, what can you give her in return...if not first? Ummm...ladies first..and then see the magic unfold!
Heavenscent1 | |
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Posted: 6/7/2008 1:24:21 AM | i guess im a prude, i think thi spost is lame and turns me off....! | |
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Posted: 6/7/2008 3:01:08 AM | well i have never had any compliants. except twice where i did give BJ like they do in porn films and they did not like it. The porn films are put on and scripted and so this isnt real.
Plus everyone is different and therefor likes it different
carole | |
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Posted: 6/7/2008 3:02:01 AM | | of course guys get worked up over this, isn't that your whole point for this post??????????? | |
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Posted: 6/7/2008 4:16:40 AM | i have the right to remain silent, but i can't!!
to know so much about the proper way to give the (&(*&_^&^) one has to believe you must have a lot of experience giving.
dude you are a joke!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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Posted: 6/7/2008 4:43:08 AM | | To think this post is lame suggests you would be an example of a woman not really into giving head, thus adding to the very point of the thread. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2008 4:45:11 AM | | i overheard somewhere that girls on the plus side tend to have better skills with the meat Popsicle.... | |
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Posted: 6/7/2008 4:49:27 AM | | This is some bull shit right here! Like you are a connoisseur of blow jobs? It works better if you ask them to suck not blow . . . Unless you are Laurence Welk and the bubble machine crapped out. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2008 7:46:38 AM | Didn't you ever hear of "talking her through it"? Maybe most women do not know the stimulation you want did ya ever think of it that way?
Some people are just so dam clueless.  | |
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Posted: 6/7/2008 7:49:01 AM | "It is better to be silent and thought of as a fool, then to speak and remove all doubt. "
LMAO, that is great and sooo true. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2008 8:05:30 AM | this whole topic makes my eyes bleed..
guy wouldnt know a good blowjob from a bad one??
heres some basic thinking on that..
All tongue/lips/mouth = GOOD
Teeth = bad.. unless its playfull teething and not clamping down on it like it detaches..
I dunno.. Most guys appreciate the gesture of a woman even going down on them and pleasing them.. I dunno.. I know ive had some that arent the same feeling but really.. whats the goal of a blowjob?? if you cant answer that you need to stop smashing your head with a frying pan.. if you reach that goal I would say it was a good blowjob over all wouldnt you??
Bad blowjob is when you wont let her finish due to risk of having it ripped off of dismembered by your overzealous eager wood chipper. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2008 11:33:31 AM | i'd have to agree with cktoronto,
women the longer it takes to get your man off means you're not doing something right.
example 1: takes a long time but hes moaning alot like he likes it-means hes faking it an it wasn't a good one.
example 2:takes a short time-means you done a fabulous job honey keep up the good work sweety  | |
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Posted: 6/7/2008 2:01:12 PM |
or convince them to give me a blowie
We're calling them "blowies" now??
I totally missed that memo.
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Posted: 6/7/2008 4:21:09 PM |
women the longer it takes to get your man off means you're not doing something right.
Unless we're in a car in traffic or her hubby or kids are in the next room I don't want a quicky...
Looong sloppy wet BJ... Take me to the edge and keep me there a while... | |
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Posted: 6/7/2008 4:36:56 PM | Agree the longer a woman can keep me out there just on the edge the better it is and obviously the better she is as well. QUICKIES SUCK!!!! 
Some guys have no feelings at all and want it "wham bam thank you mam" and done but real men want it to last "AAAAALLLLLLLLL NIIIIIIIIIGT LONGGGGGGGGG!!!!!!!"
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Posted: 6/7/2008 5:51:22 PM | I don't think it's fair for you to generalize your statements. You should have said "women I've come in contact with".
I know that I give great blowjobs. I know that may be a little too much information but honestly, someone has to stand up for the great head-givers on here. I would say that the lack of "talent and expertise" in this area, just like anything else in life, comes from lack of experience. Also, a woman cannot know how to please a man if he doesn't tell her. If the girl is going downtown all wrong "coach" her through it. She'll love you for it. You'll love her for it. Men always say "tell us what you want" well darn it men should do the same.
I know a guy that take about 20min to orgasm, every single time I've gone down on him and he tells me every single time that it's the best head he's ever had - "I should teach a class on this" - direct quote... and I can tell from his body language that he isn't lying.
I think we should all take initiative and responsibility for our own bodies. If you've never had a great blowjob, it's your fault, not the chick who went down on you. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2008 7:20:21 PM | | Well, given that I have had blowjobs that I would rate as poor, mediocre, good, and mindblowing, I would have to disagree. *chuckle* | |
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