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Posted: 7/1/2008 5:23:17 AM | According to your theory, it seems that us women are damned if we do and damned if we don't...
I'm guessing you aren't getting too many blowjobs. When I met my bf I would get wet just sitting at dinner with him, as we've spent more time together things have changed a little. A guy may cum after a minute 'the first time' he gets a blowjob but as it become a more normal occurence he will probably last a little longer and have an opportunity to enjoy it a little longer.
Find a nice women, spend some time getting to know her, talk about your likes and dislikes, play and experiment, then you might find we aren't as bad as you might think.
But you might actually find that the best part is that you're engaging intimately with another person and that can be really great too! ...much better than wanking in front of a mirror which is what I expect you do most nights.
One thing is for certain, I would definitely not ever give you a blowjob !!!
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Posted: 7/1/2008 5:49:14 AM | clearly, you have never had a good blow job or you would not be complaining.
im sure if you have never had a good blow job your are looking in the wrong places.
Maybe start looking in different places for women?... | |
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Posted: 8/8/2008 5:29:53 AM | I find my "bachelors collar" puts many ladies off.. | |
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Posted: 8/11/2008 7:39:24 PM |
#1) Women (in general), apart from porn starlets and literal professionals, wouldn't know how to give a good & decent blowjob to save their lives.
Ummm.....Ouch?
You'll be lucky to get ANY blowjobs after talking like that mister!
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Posted: 8/11/2008 7:51:31 PM | I strongly DISAGREE with the OP - you "can not" generalize women like that.
I've received great mind-blowing ones, and I've received "oh my god I hope it heals" ones.... some it takes practise, some know it natrually - but to clasify that "most" women cant give a good blow job? ...ouch bud....
A constructive way to IMPROVE the quality of your partners ability is simple - teach her, tell her how you like it - youd be suprised how much communication can improve things in a relationship - in and out of the bedroom! lol.
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Posted: 8/11/2008 8:00:37 PM | it all comes down to sexuality.
some women are sexual beings, as are some men. anyone can have sex, not everyone can be intimate and sensual. a persons ability to give/recieve pleasure is what its about, not generalities on gender.
i disagree with your theories because they are too general and we are all so individual. how much of the population are highly sexual? that is what i want to know.... | |
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Posted: 8/11/2008 8:12:25 PM | Oh this is so precious!
#1) Women (in general), apart from porn starlets and literal professionals, wouldn't know how to give a good & decent blowjob to save their lives.
Sooo, how many porn starlets have given you a BJ?
#2) Men (in general), can't tell the difference between a good blowjob & a bad one because they usually have never had a truly good one.
Soooo, how do you know this?
Re: #2) This happens because guys in general mostly get so worked up about the idea of having a chick sticking their****in her mouth that they shoot in all of a minute or less. Which i believe in turn leads and/or contributes to the above point #1 regarding women.
Ummm. Nope. Not in a minute or less.
You're ignorant (in the true sense of the word) and obviously painfully inexperienced. | |
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Posted: 8/11/2008 8:14:12 PM | I'll admit it.. I suck during blow jobs. | |
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Posted: 8/11/2008 8:17:56 PM | | Perhaps no one other than professionals have taken a liking to your 'equipment' OP...sad, but likely true... If you had found a woman that liked you, and wanted you happy...you wouldn't be paying for a decent bj... | |
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Posted: 8/11/2008 8:23:57 PM | The real question to raise here is "Why are so many woman against giving head, when they will just as easily be the first ones to have a man go down on them?"
I talked to quite a few woman who won't blow men, yet will gladly have a man give them head.
Not to bring this thread Off topic, just saying what we should do a thread on. lol | |
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Posted: 8/11/2008 8:25:29 PM | Ms.Beavenhouse, if you want to improve your quality of blow jobs you can always sign up for a course ... or find someone willing to communicate clearly with you giving you step by step instructions on how to perform fellatio .. with a series of enjoyable and exciting variations.
reference the material here... http://sexuality.about.com/od/oralsex/ht/fellatio.htm
Good luck in improving. | |
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Posted: 8/11/2008 8:28:22 PM | | What I don't understand is why don't men realize that a movie is just a movie???? like those porn stars are for real????? like Wrestling is for real??? no contest here.... geesh... | |
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Posted: 8/11/2008 8:37:05 PM | Lover of Sand
I was kidding, it was a play on words, I suck vs blow. I give tarded head, you know he is a bit retarded after. But thanks for wanting to help your fellow man out lol. | |
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Posted: 8/11/2008 8:55:48 PM | I can only speak for myself
Out of all the partners I have been with, only one has made me cum through a blowjob.
And it frustrated the hell out of the women. Even affected the relationship to some extent. | |
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Posted: 8/11/2008 8:58:10 PM | | I go by this theory. If she is willing to give you a bj then I'll return the favor to her and eat her out. Usually that occurs in everyones favorite position of 69. | |
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Posted: 8/11/2008 11:05:20 PM | "Agree or Disagree?"
Disagree my first GF when I was like 17 gave the best BJ's ever no idea where she learned that from nothing comparable to since... Yes we compare smarten up girls and watch some porn or somethin and I ain't stickin my thing in there so you can learn that's what banana's are for.....
Simple just watch them damn teeth for pete sake's or bring your friend next time so she can show you how, well in my dreams at least.
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Posted: 8/12/2008 12:29:23 AM |   all i will say on BJ's is i know im good and i love it some times better than sex its self lol, never had complaints as olng as you get the right reaction from the reciever and im enjoying who cares | |
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Posted: 8/12/2008 1:06:48 AM | Dude;
The sad truth of the matter is that none of us can write from anything but our own personal experiences.
#1) Women (in general), apart from porn starlets and literal professionals, wouldn't know how to give a good & decent blowjob to save their lives. So, you're either saying you've never had a good BJ; or you've only had them from porn stars and prostitutes. Is that what this is about; you're trying to market video, or still shots?
#2) Men (in general), can't tell the difference between a good blowjob & a bad one because they usually have never had a truly good one. Can you tell? If so, how? 
Re: #2) This happens because guys in general mostly get so worked up about the idea of having a chick sticking their****in her mouth that they shoot in all of a minute or less. Sorry to hear you've had this issue. Although, I will admit I am a bit concerned about how you know so much about what other guys do, think, or feel during a BJ. Usually, to get that kind of info, you had to be present. The only guy who was ever present any time I've ever gotten a BJ was me. How is it you have managed to gain so much down low? If "women" don't know how to give a good BJ, who does?  | |
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Posted: 8/12/2008 2:01:47 AM | Personaly...I think I am with alot of other woman the have written..I have never had a guy say "STOP". lol As for anything else communication is pretty much key, as for Porn Starlets...lol, exactly how many *Shots* do they take before they even get it right?. We are only human..if she is not doing it for you time and time again...mabey find someone that you really connect with on a physical "BLOW JOB" level. haha
*Trust me if she is eager to taste what you have...she will be eager to find out what makes you tingle and grip the bed sheets!!!!
*If she bites, giver her a spanking and turn it into something else?.
Then again just my opinion......:) | |
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Posted: 8/12/2008 2:37:57 AM | | Uhhhh definitely disagree on all points. I've never had any complaints, praise oh yes and lots of it. This chickie enjoys giving them when in a relationship and seeing and hearing his pleasure whenever and wherever. Blowjobs allow me to control a man's pleasure which makes me feel naughty! | |
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Posted: 8/12/2008 7:12:48 AM | Dusty, there is no such thing as a bad HJ,
but one thing I have always wondered, do woman do this to men because they like it, or do they do it because they think the man does. | |
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Posted: 8/12/2008 7:17:10 AM |
#1) Women (in general), apart from porn starlets and literal professionals, wouldn't know how to give a good & decent blowjob to save their lives.
#2) Men (in general), can't tell the difference between a good blowjob & a bad one because they usually have never had a truly good one.
The same could be said for men.
This reminds me of a quote from SATC: " You men have no idea what we're dealing with down there. Teeth placement, and jaw stress, and suction, and gag reflex, and all the while bobbing up and down, moaning and trying to breathe through our noses. Easy? Honey, they don't call it a job for nothin'!" | |
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Posted: 8/12/2008 8:40:55 AM | | HEY IF SHE MAKES ME CUM SHE DID A NICE JOB | |
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Posted: 8/12/2008 9:02:23 AM | | You are incorrect, however, I have female friends (yes, my friends and I discuss sex) who refuse to even GIVE a blow job. Me on the other hand, being the 100% woman that I am, prefer and actually get off on giving a good, long blow job. (mind you, this will be with a man I love and care about)It is all about preference my dear. You may be meeting the wrong women. And I could say a few things about men not knowing what "they" are doing either, but I find it unfair to assume. We all know what that means...makes an ass out of you, and me. Please do not compare women to cheap drug ridden porn stars. I can do anything to you sober if I love you and want to be intimate with you. :) | |
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