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| a man who is 36 years old is falling in love with me ..
Posted: 6/2/2008 5:38:04 PM |
i met this guy while i was travelling in thailand . . he came to talk to me and my sister with his two friends ..i felt that all of them were interested in me ..but i didnt take anyone of them to be with me ..we just hang out to club and play pool .. since i came home i keep in touch with one of them .. and a month ago i visited him in his country ..we had a good time but i didnt have sex with him coz i took him as my good friend and right now we are doing trading business together .. but since i came back from his country everynight he called me from his country and chatted with me on msn ..keep telling me how much he loves me .. but i dont love him at all ..just like him as my good friend nothing else ..
actually he is much older than i am .. he is 37 ..i am 21 .. and he has religion but i dont .. and i dont wanna have any relationship with anyone who has religion .. P.S i do respect ppl has religion ..
he asked me does he have chance to be with me forever ..i told him no .. he asked me why i said to him coz i am not ready to be with anyone and he is not my type .. .. i was not dare to tell him coz he is much older than i am ..
how can i stop him loving me ?
Here's a similar post from her, only the guy is 37 in this one. He must age in reverse! Lol! | |
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| a man who is 36 years old is falling in love with me ..
Posted: 6/4/2008 5:56:32 AM | yup same stroy from me .. since i came back to china ..he is still in his country but we are doing business together right now .. ... yup i think he was born in 1971 now he should be 37 i think .. buthe told me he is 36 ..anyway .. i do mind his age ..
one good news for myself .. two days ago i told him everything and i made him knows that he never has chance to be with me .. he told me he understood now and he wil not disturb me anymore after this last business ..
but i found out that since that ..the way how he talked to me is completed changed..he isnot being nice like before .. anyway it is better forme .. | |
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| enough already
Posted: 6/4/2008 6:23:13 AM | Tiger San,
In case you haven't noticed, while some people tried to offer valid advice in response to your post, others' primary focus is to make a complete mockery of you simply for their own amusement. If you have resolved the situation between your business partner and yourself to the best of your ability and feel you have received enough constructive advice from this OP, this may be the opportune time to close this thread.
Good luck ~ | |
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| a man who is 36 years old is falling in love with me ..
Posted: 6/9/2008 6:17:36 PM | | i don mean to be mean but if age is a point in your dating at your age then you should not be dating at all that is to say this is not a dig at you or eney one but at the ages we are at 18-99 if you dont want somthing then say so dont use age my friends ect, be onest with your slef and others agin this is not agenst you or eney one just the truth | |
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| a man who is 36 years old is falling in love with me ..
Posted: 6/10/2008 4:50:59 PM | LMFAO
if that dude looked like Brad Pitt... who is 44 by the way, you'd be game!
He's 36 and you're 21, why he would want you for long term is beyond my comprehension, but anyway i'll give you my 2 cents.
Men and Women cannot be friends if one of them is attracted to the other, and rather than get into all the reasons why, that's just how it is. He's probably falling in love with you because of a body part or maybe your face, , it happens... it's not your personality.
I have to laugh when girls say "He's Not my Type" because what that really means is: You'll never see me naked.
All you can do is let him down lightly but firmly. Too bad you're business partners, that's another can of worms.
 One for the guys! | |
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| a man who is 36 years old is falling in love with me ..
Posted: 6/10/2008 5:48:12 PM | | I'm not really sure how someone at his age can TRULY fall in love with someone so young. Dating, flings etc. sure. but as a wife? Don't Know. Anyway his attitude toward you now is because he realizes he can never have you. There is no more need to try. So why be friendly? | |
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| a man who is 36 years old is falling in love with me ..
Posted: 6/14/2008 12:56:12 PM | | If he didn't get the point, ...assuming the you were very clear, you should probably cut him out altogether. Sell your portion of the business or buy his and tell him to get lost. This guy could be manipulating you and playing you to wear you down. I know a woman in a similar situation, only she actually did marry him finally. Now divorcing after years of horror. He should get the point. If he doesn't, get a restraining order and buy a gun! Potential stalker comes to mind! | |
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| a man who is 36 years old is falling in love with me ..
Posted: 7/8/2008 10:47:37 PM | "one good news for myself .. two days ago i told him everything and i made him knows that he never has chance to be with me .. he told me he understood now and he wil not disturb me anymore after this last business ..
but i found out that since that ..the way how he talked to me is completed changed..he isnot being nice like before .. anyway it is better forme ."
OP are you for real? Of course he is not going to be nice to you, you told him he did not stand a chance with you. I think the majority of posters explained this was going to happen.  | |
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| a man who is 36 years old is falling in love with me ..
Posted: 8/16/2008 5:08:31 PM | Hello
I'm 38 and I'm falling in love with you too...
I'm Sincere and honest, Canadian living
here in Hong Kong. I enjoy what you do.
I have an international watch business in Hong Kong, and I need to come to Shenzhen each week to buy watches, parts, and see companies.
I think it would be nice to meet some nice people to spend the weekend with and have some fun, and help to show me around Hong Kong.
Would you like to meet a new person from Canada to have coffee, dinner and clubs with?
If the chemistry is right we can be friends
I enjoy eating out and spend week ends driving out of town.
fun. I'm not pushy and feel I have a gentle style.
I'm genuine and open minded. | |
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| a man who is 36 years old is falling in love with me ..
Posted: 8/16/2008 7:17:35 PM | OP, I've read all this thread including your updates, and I still think you need to get this man out of your life!
Men like that dont take rejection lightly and no matter what he says to your face, there will come a time when he sees an opportunity to revenge it and he'll take it.
Be very careful, and dont be tempted to say things like 'see him around in a few years', he is likely to read much more in to it than you mean.
Unfortunately, the only thing that is likely to keep him from this behaviour is if he targets another woman with it, but dont be fooled in to thinking he couldn't return to you if you were the one most visible to him.
Get well away!
I dont like to scare monger but this is the kind of situation where it is definitely better to be safe rather than sorry. | |
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| a man who is 36 years old is falling in love with me ..
Posted: 8/16/2008 7:28:06 PM | My advice is to point over his shoulder and go "Oh my God what is that thing?!?!?!?" Then as he turns to look you turn and run!
All kidding aside, there is no reason to continue to persue a friendship or business relationship with this guy. He probably won't ever get over you even when you are out of his life but then it won't be your problem anymore anyway. He's a big boy, he can handle the pain and consequences of his actions. | |
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