| made mistake of lifetime
Posted: 6/7/2008 8:23:24 PM | sounds like you avoided making the mistake of a lifetime...
sounds like while you were simmering on your self imposed back burner, she had more than one pan on the stove ...since she can't figure out who's sending her flowers..... | |
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| made mistake of lifetime
Posted: 6/8/2008 2:19:45 PM |
best way to get over a person is to get under another... you know what I mean lol
While this is cute, it is wrong. Healing is best accomplished on your own. When you drop the baggage then you are ready.
[quote}I am going to not worry about her and try and move on living my life,working my two jobs and spending time with my two sons.
One of the best decisions you could have made. Also, don't speak badly about her to your sons as they are learning things from you. Tell them you screwed up and now you have to accept the consequences. It's not always the most fun, but it is reality.
The best to you and your sons. | |
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| made mistake of lifetime
Posted: 6/8/2008 5:36:08 PM | With any luck at all ~ it won't be your last mistake ~ you'll make more
I see many of my ex ladies from time to time ~ while I still love them to death
It wasn't no mistake ~ not like I orginally thought it was anyway ~
I feel this too ~ will happen to you ~ Dance | |
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| made mistake of lifetime
Posted: 6/8/2008 6:53:01 PM | I met a woman of this site we ended up moving in together lived together a year,while we were togethr I got sick with a lung problem she bialed on me,then moved back in.While I was out feeding the horses at 4;30 in the morning my sister called told her my dad just past she yelled for me to come in 4 hours later she asked me too leave,wich I did.now she has all my stuff and is selling it off,so ya messed me up thought she was copassionate guess not coldest woman I have ever met no heart at all.so now I,ve lost everything and have to get a lawyer to get what is left back. | |
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| made mistake of lifetime
Posted: 6/9/2008 5:51:08 AM | You are not a fool for how you feel. But you should NOT wait around for her.
Dude, you "fell in love" with her on the rebound. She wasn't in the same "place" as you when it happened, and she's not in the same place now.
You have got to put her out of your mind just like she's done you, and move ahead. You've had a year to do this, and you've wasted it hanging on to her. She's gone...you've got to respect her wishes and leave her alone.
When you start dating others again, don't fall in love with the first person you meet...(or with every person you meet!)you've got to get over what your wife did, and what happened with this other person before you can actually learn to love someone. You've been "dormant" for a whole year that you could have spent working on getting past all this mess, and you've wasted your time.
Start today, get busy getting over all of it and start living your life! | |
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| made mistake of lifetime
Posted: 6/9/2008 3:03:13 PM | | i don't think you're a fool OP - i really can empathise with you on this. That's how you feel now. Check it out a year from now though | |
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| made mistake of lifetime
Posted: 6/9/2008 3:28:00 PM | JustJJ2:
WOW this is a tough group.... eeshh give the poor man a break.
Sweetie.. time is all you need.
jmo
JJ
Thank God there are one or two here like you. I'm ashamed to see that it's mostly guys who gave him a hard time.
And to the original poster: No, of course you're not a fool to feel as you do. It's rarely our feelings but what we do with them that is foolish, and I think you did the right thing by declaring them so openly. I hope she'll have a change of heart. | |
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| made mistake of lifetime
Posted: 6/10/2008 9:16:21 PM | emotions run wild during a divorce, it is hard to know how to feel, so dont beat yourself up at all.
Do not wait, do move on and begin dating women that do NOT work with you, take it slow and think about things for a very long time before acting on them.
Nobody should blame you for anything, you were getting divorced and in a very emotional situation.
Best of luck to you, I pray you heal quickly and find someone perfect for you.
BL here is a hug | |
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