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 good guy75
Joined: 3/25/2008
Msg: 51
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first of all i think thats a bunch of crap.when you meet theses women and they say i am onley doing this to put myself through college or pay the bills.bull most are attention seekers who likes it.i could have stripped,i am goodlooking,six feet six in great shape plus i am hung.that would have been the easy way.i took out student loans and worked three jobs when everybody was out partying i got my masters and now i am rich.so if a kid from kings borogh projects can do it anybody can.i date models i had stopped but i found women on here with alot o baggae because they were hurt and cant trust thats why i am bak to dating models.to me it was dating these women who cant trust and or damaged goods,or date theses models who i have to play dr.phil with.i am choosing dr.phil.ladies and gental men remember when you do this stuff you will attract the nuts,and you cant get mad at them when you have no respect for yourself when your up there naked.
 life_of_leisure
Joined: 1/4/2007
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Models in skin mags: what do you think of them?
Posted: 6/3/2008 10:29:43 AM

If a man buys (or even just looks at) porn, what's the opinion he has of the women in them?

I think 80-90% are way better looking than any women I ever see when out and about.


Does he think they're trashy, or that they're doing what they can to pay their way through life?

No. It's you gals who are way over-concerned with "reputation".

I just think they're naked.
 whenyer_strange
Joined: 4/10/2006
Msg: 53
Models in skin mags: what do you think of them?
Posted: 6/3/2008 10:53:29 AM
I know this question was for the guys, but I'll answer from the women's perspective with men. Since I don't really look at male models (just doesn't do it for me), I'll use the example of actors instead. I have my list of favorite movies where I get really excited over one of the male characters. I don't get excited over the actor himself though. The personality in the movie and the real life personality are two very different things. I'll give them my money at the movies and lust over them, but after that, I'd rather see my regular guy at home.

I haven't figured out why so many women claim to love Brad Pitt when all most of us really know are his movie characters. Quite frankly, I think his out-of-movie look is sorta boring. Same with Tom Cruise. We all know he's a fruit loop. He's just a fruit loop who's really good at acting and I enjoy him in movies. I really never want to meet the guy.

For some reason, I think the majority of people who are in the limelight (musicians, actors, models, politicians) have a high likelihood of being a bit tough to get along with.....and a few are nearly impossible, and I feel bad for the poor schmucks who are stuck sucking up to them all day long. Watching from a distance is really preferable.
 that sam i am
Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 54
Models in skin mags: what do you think of them?
Posted: 6/3/2008 11:59:01 AM

I think 80-90% are way better looking than any women I ever see when out and about.

Whoa! What site are you looking at? Most of the girls there look like shit. Either that or the girls in my city are gorgeous.
 Steve_Sandy
Joined: 3/19/2006
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Models in skin mags: what do you think of them?
Posted: 6/3/2008 2:35:56 PM
to the OP, they are often air brushed to remove imperfections and to honest are about as appealing as barby dolls are to kids

porn actors are simply actors doing different stuff, the role they have in the movie is often nothing to do with their real life

guess if I bought porn mags to stimulate things, then would not really think all too much about the person, they are just pictures :)
 1missblueeyes
Joined: 4/2/2008
Msg: 56
Models in skin mags: what do you think of them?
Posted: 6/3/2008 4:33:53 PM
LMAO, so sluts in skin rags who are fake after having tons of surgeries and been overly airbrushed are 80 to 90% better looking than any women out and about? If you believe those tramps are better looking (those chicks ARE NOT real women) then you have no concept of what a real woman is. You've clearly been spending too much time looking at whores in skin mags. You need to get out more.
 HarryTuttle
Joined: 2/22/2008
Msg: 57
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Posted: 6/3/2008 5:09:29 PM
man, you are angry about naked women.
 life_of_leisure
Joined: 1/4/2007
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Posted: 6/3/2008 5:54:54 PM
> Either that or the girls in my city are gorgeous.

That's it, Sam. Vancouver has the most beautiful women on the planet, judging by how frequently I end up there when clicking on attractive thumbnails here at POF. By comparison I live in Fuglyville, and it would make no difference whether I was talking about off-line or online.

You should consider yourself extremely lucky.
 CSIAnaheim
Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 59
Models in skin mags: what do you think of them?
Posted: 6/3/2008 7:24:16 PM
If you believe those tramps are better looking (those chicks ARE NOT real women)

What are they, then, robots? You think they descended from a spaceship or something?

No, they *are* real women. And many people on this board, myself included, have posted firsthand accounts of meeting some of these women and can personally attest that they are every bit as human as anyone else. Some even have fantastic personalities. Just because they have a profession you, personally, disapprove of doesn't make them fake.

And not all of them have had "tons of surgeries" as you claim. Some have, some haven't. Besides, even if they have had surgery, what gives you the right to decide that they are any less "real" women then you are? I see by your profile pics that you wear a fair bit of makeup -- does that make *you* "fake?"
 Sardonis
Joined: 9/28/2007
Msg: 60
Models in skin mags: what do you think of them?
Posted: 6/3/2008 7:55:41 PM
LMAO, so sluts in skin rags who are fake after having tons of surgeries and been overly airbrushed are 80 to 90% better looking than any women out and about? If you believe those tramps are better looking (those chicks ARE NOT real women) then you have no concept of what a real woman is. You've clearly been spending too much time looking at whores in skin mags. You need to get out more.


Well, that is actually not what he said.

He said: "I think 80-90% are way better looking than any women I ever see when out and about." He is talking about his own personal experience where ever he lives, I assume.
 crayonzz
Joined: 11/14/2007
Msg: 61
Models in skin mags: what do you think of them?
Posted: 6/3/2008 9:40:34 PM
Simple enough answer.
I DON'T worrry about what kind of girls they are because I wont' be meeting them.
Nice bodies, nice faces. Start and end of story.
 platypus_man
Joined: 8/29/2007
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Posted: 6/4/2008 11:57:38 AM
Really smart people get jobs where they can use their 'smarts' to make money.
Really strong people get jobs where they can use their strength to make money.
Really skilled people get jobs where they can use their skill to make money.
Really beautiful people get jobs where they can use their beauty to make money.
Really sexy people get jobs where they can use their sexiness to make money.
Exactly what's the difference? Each person uses the abilities and qualities that they have to make a living. Now, since I really like beautiful, sexy women, why would I have any problem with that? Hundreds of millions of men the world over that have no female partner available get at least some happiness from looking at those actors and models in 'p0rn'. Only the puritanical, who hate the thought of anyone having enjoyment without pain or punishment of some kind to go with it, would have any problem with that.
 Aurora772
Joined: 12/1/2007
Msg: 63
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Posted: 6/4/2008 2:12:56 PM
Men who are porn addicts deep down know it. They know at the bottom of their empty hearts that they paying for whores, one way or another, and they think the women are dirty and unclean and worthless. The porn models are disposable and the porn addicts make them disposable, and so it's a lose-lose situation. The models are never going to be respected by the men who purchase their products; the men don't want a real relationship, but just an empty fire-and-forget fantasy with some unreal photo. Seeing the woman in real life probably made the guy super-embarassed, because she knew what he had been doing to her photos for years. He also saw her flaws, heard her voice, and a thousand other fantasy-killing things came to light. Not only that, but he suddenly had to talk to her and treat her as a real human being instead of a photo or a video, and that brought to the surface -- inescapably so -- that she is nothing more than a whore.
 Uncle Fist
Joined: 12/18/2006
Msg: 64
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Posted: 6/4/2008 3:19:53 PM

So let's say she won't stop stripping, or getting in on with strangers. It's her job to do that, and it would bother some guys a lot, right? Why? .. it's not wrong to watch, right?


I don't think it's wrong in any regard. It's just not something that makes logical sense to me.

I mean seriously, why buy the cow when not only you, but everyone else is getting the milk for free. And not only that, but some people are actually getting paid to get that milk.



Women are not objects, but some choose to willingly work in a profession where there body IS the marketed product. As such some objectification is inevitable from a BUSINESS PERSPECTIVE. If you are a model and suddenly gain 40lbs, then yes you will lose certain contracts, but if you are dynamic and well connected you can simply win others (plus-size modeling). Same thing goes for aging, you see plenty of famous actresses that go from modeling swim wear, to evening wear, to casual wear and make-up, etc. They can remain in the public eye, but just as their body evolves, so does their modeling career. That is the natural course of things


Well said.
 celts123
Joined: 5/15/2008
Msg: 65
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Posted: 6/4/2008 3:41:00 PM
LMAO, so sluts in skin rags who are fake after having tons of surgeries and been overly airbrushed are 80 to 90% better looking than any women out and about? If you believe those tramps are better looking (those chicks ARE NOT real women) then you have no concept of what a real woman is. You've clearly been spending too much time looking at whores in skin mags. You need to get out more.


How would you know that these things apply to all or most magazine models? I know a few women who did some modeling as a part time job to earn some extra money. They were just as attractive in person as they were in their pictures. They were also "real" women with great personalities.
 good_catch77
Joined: 3/28/2007
Msg: 66
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Posted: 6/4/2008 3:51:51 PM
I know they are real. I mean why aren't they. Oh photo editing, let's see "anyone" can do this now. With new computers and technology. Oh they've had plastic surgery. Well I know a girl that her mom paid for her "new boobs" on her 18th b-day. She is the most attractive girl I know where I work. She could model. She did it for her self not because of a man told her to or to make it big in modeling. But because she wanted to. And trust me she is far from fake.

Best of luck to everyone
 Straight Christian Lady
Joined: 6/14/2007
Msg: 67
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Posted: 6/4/2008 6:21:49 PM
This thread seems to have become about how 'fake' the models are, which is not what I was getting at.

Men who are porn addicts deep down know it. They know at the bottom of their empty hearts that they paying for whores, one way or another, and they think the women are dirty and unclean and worthless.
According, then, to Aurora772, "They know at the bottom of their empty hearts that they paying for whores, one way or another, and they think the women are dirty and unclean and worthless." ... do these buyers see themselves as dirty and unclean and worthless as the 'whores' they pay to see?
 mytfineman
Joined: 11/21/2005
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Posted: 6/4/2008 7:36:50 PM
If a man buys (or even just looks at) porn, what's the opinion he has of the women in them? Does he think they're trashy, or that they're doing what they can to pay their way through life?


Well I can only speak from my own experience, boldly presented here on the internet for all eternity!! The short answer is it depends on the grade of porn.

soft core porn, women erotic modeling. I have a generally good idea of them, these women are not lowering themselves to the hard core stuff and I see that as more respectful..since really the money difference (both aren't as high paying as many might think) between the two is not great. These women I would probably not have an issue dating but there is always the thought of why are you doing this when you can get an education and not sell pictures of your ass for money? But then again fashion models, lingerie and Hollywood actresses essentially do a limited version of the same thing so....

hard core porn, women with women. Hey I am a fan, pretty ladies making out, bring it on...if that is their sexual preference fine, it is my preference to watch. *grin* Most of these women are lesbian or bisexual...if lesbian, guys like the fantasy idea of "turning them" if bisexual , THIS guy wouldn't mind having one. I'd be open to her dalliances with other women ...ehem...so long as I can participate in some way.

hard core porn, women and men. Lowest of the low, I can enjoy some of the woman's attributes but I wouldn't ever consider them for a relationship. They tend to be severely messed up in the head, any woman that enjoys the act of having multiple guys ejaculate,urinate, deficate on her face or having multiple penises in her orifices..well there is something dangerously wrong IMO. These women tend to be incapable of commitment (from what I've read of many of their stories) at the same time, they seem to be perplexed that they can't find lasting relationships WHILE still engaged in the porn "business". They call it "work" but lets be clear, you get reamed/rammed and ridden on video by strange guys for a living, don't be surprised that the bulk of society will see you as whore, doesn't matter if you weren't into it, doesn't matter if you were paid for it by a third party, end of story..ya labeled yourself as trash. Only the occasional "actress" makes real money and those are the ones that have to F thousands of guys and experience all manner of abuse on video to do it. So I am supposed to now look at a woman like this as just as valuable as another woman who is just as physically attractive but didn't sleep with half the country, uhh...not.

that's my take!
 ubkobalt
Joined: 5/7/2006
Msg: 69
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Posted: 6/4/2008 8:11:46 PM

Do some men judge porn models as being immoral, even tho' they enjoy the view


If I'm even at the point of judging morality, it's probably really shitty porn. That is way too much thought process for porn. "Gee, I wonder if she's a good person." doesn't really cross my mind all that often.

Except for Misty Mundae. I hope she's a good girl. She's the Alison Hannigan of porn. Only better.


Whoa! What site are you looking at? Most of the girls there look like shit. Either that or the girls in my city are gorgeous.


Yes, you're in Canada. Canadian women on the whole tend to be better looking, and often more single. This either means that the men are losers, or the women are insane, which is typically the case with the hot ones. Something about that makes them not strive to have a worthwhile personality. I'm not quite sure what it is.
 TheS0urce
Joined: 4/7/2008
Msg: 70
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Posted: 6/5/2008 6:32:11 AM

According, then, to Aurora772, "They know at the bottom of their empty hearts that they paying for whores, one way or another, and they think the women are dirty and unclean and worthless." ... do these buyers see themselves as dirty and unclean and worthless as the 'whores' they pay to see?


Most men don't think about if a woman is a whore or not. Men are visual creatures and men are very simple. All men want to do is get their rocks off. Men aren't like women thinking about 1000 things before anything happens. Women watch porn also, you would be shocked how many do. I even knew a girl watched porn with her mom.
 usertaken
Joined: 7/7/2007
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Posted: 6/5/2008 8:11:06 AM
Models in skin mags are .,..............models in skin mags !!!!!

Look we think about sex more than the next 3 most important things (food,sleep,beer)
Its who we are, what we do, why we are here.
Skin mags make thinking about it that little bit easier, thats about it
Im sure most skin models are married with kids, fair play to them for having a body worth sharing
I THANK THEM !
 Michaelann
Joined: 9/11/2004
Msg: 72
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Posted: 6/12/2008 11:16:31 AM
Only the puritanical, who hate the thought of anyone having enjoyment without pain or punishment of some kind to go with it, would have any problem with that. - stellarbystarlight


Sorry, but I can't agree with that. I am not puritanical by any stretch of the imagination, but I am old-fashioned in
some ways. I would never respect a man or date him, if he was into porn. I understand that some single men use
it to stimulate the iumagination when they are alone, I find it sad, pathetic & repulsive, but I suppose somewhat
understandable. But if I met a man who was into it (while single) & would not immeadiately get rid of it, out of respect
to having a real, loving woman in his life, well we would just not be compatible. I would never look at another naked
man, & I expect the same kind of loyalty from my partner.
 ilietowomen
Joined: 5/29/2008
Msg: 73
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Posted: 6/12/2008 11:49:34 AM
I'd **** them.

I'm short sighted, so that's about as deep as I can get.

During the pillow talk, I might discover they are the world's deepest mind, to my eyes.
 that sam i am
Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 74
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Posted: 6/12/2008 4:14:02 PM

I would never respect a man or date him, if he was into porn.

riiiiiiight! And where do you plan to find him? Outer Mongolia...or some place without internet?
 xeot
Joined: 10/25/2007
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Posted: 6/12/2008 4:32:03 PM

I came up with the question when I watched a show where a man actually met the woman he'd lusted for in his magazine. He did not want anything to do with her. Why?


Imagine for a moment that you lust over some actor... he always plays a certain kind of character. Then you meet him... and he's well him. He's not the person that you saw him as. Same thing.


..they are not real women. They are surgically enhanced and altered, the pics are airbrushed


Sometimes yes, sometimes no. I for one find the surgical enhancements and the photoshopping to be a turn off or just boring. That is not unusual as far as I know. Some Playboy images might as well be paintings or cartoons as the case may be. That said, there is much that isn't more than simple makeup and good photography.


cause men to have unrealistic expectations of their wives and girlfriends.


Either you are saying men are so dumb they don't know when images are extensively altered or that large numbers of women can't look great with well done makeup and good photography. Not exactly sure who should feel insulted here. Maybe both :)

One could also equally say that the men in movies, TV, magazines and other media give women unrealistic expectations of the men in their lives. Some women have a problem with men looking at boobie pictures and the like (or porn) because they feel men take it the same way they do. That since they create expectations in their lives from the media they feel men do as well. That may be true for some men, but I hardly think it the majority.

As far as having an opinion of the actual people behind the images... well there are people who do certain things for a living that I couldn't have in my life. A porn actress is one of those. Now a woman who just posed naked or something that just showed off the female form... I don't think that would bother me. Everyone has their own line.
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