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| this happens with EVERY guy i meet? WHY?! or is it just me?
Posted: 6/5/2008 5:25:47 AM |
How do you figure ? She never said anything about the type of person that she prefers to date, How do you know it wasn't a librarian type of introvert ? , the quiet ones are sometimes worse.
I disagree......... I think quiet girls are sometimes the most interesting girls around......... I never judge a book by its cover.......... you should take the time to actually get to know those guys you are passing up and you might be married by now and not on POF........
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| this happens with EVERY guy i meet? WHY?! or is it just me?
Posted: 6/5/2008 5:43:53 AM | Now spellbinder all guys can't be scum. there is a few of them that are. I don't think that all women are golddigging B$#@%% and H$#@% and other things I've had my Heart riped out more times than I can rember but I figure there has to be a good one for me. Is'nt that why you are on here to find someone for you? | |
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| this happens with EVERY guy i meet? WHY?! or is it just me?
Posted: 6/5/2008 3:33:05 PM | I never believe those words too soon, people use them too freely. What they really mean is "I am infatuated with you" and infatuation is only a temporary stage. If I were you, I would tell them that. Why don't you try building the relationship by being friends first, and see if the attraction builds from there.
You need to find a way to slow things down a bit. Look closely at yourself to see if perhaps you may be coming on too strong, both sexually and emotionally. Are you sending the wrong signals? | |
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| this happens with EVERY guy i meet? WHY?! or is it just me?
Posted: 6/5/2008 3:45:05 PM | I thought Id respond to this thread but I read a couple of the posts and thought, "Why"..MEN R SCUM..MEN R SCUM...MEN R SCUM..MEN R SCUM...
Wow, I could not contain myself...
I guess everyone has an opinion... ...puke..barf..yuk..
For the Op physical beauty is in the beholder...Build a relationship first and stand your ground... | |
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| this happens with EVERY guy i meet? WHY?! or is it just me?
Posted: 6/5/2008 3:57:50 PM | | At first I figured you were in your early 20's- that's the nature of the beast at that age. Most guys only want sex and still want to be able to hang with their friends. No matter what they say. But then I looked at your photos. I didn't even have to read your profile to understand the problem. Look at your photos and the image you're presenting. It's all sexual with holding your breasts or the other poses. Dress a bit more conservatively in your photos and bring out the sexier gear after a couple of dates. | |
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| this happens with EVERY guy i meet? WHY?! or is it just me?
Posted: 6/5/2008 6:57:35 PM | i know what u mean..ive gone out with guys from here who go out with u and on the 1st date use u as there own therapist and all they do is talk about the x over and over again ..u dont get to find out anything about them and in the end they come out with some lame xcuse to why they cant c u...ive begun to think its me also and not them...but hang in there prince charming may not even b here he could b on another web-site....lol this web-site is full of frogs  ive said it before if ur not ready to date or have not gotten over ur x dont waste my time or urs!!  | |
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| this happens with EVERY guy i meet? WHY?! or is it just me?
Posted: 6/5/2008 11:56:57 PM | | Girl, I think it happens to us all once or twice before. sometimes I wonder the same, is it something that Im doing wrong or something that I said. But when u think about, it seems like when you are doing right it nevers goes right. sometimes I feel like jus dating forever, because thats the only time when a man wanna act right!!!!!!!!!! my only advice to you is, never change being the woman that you are for a man, because once you start, you'll forever find yourself trying to fit in. | |
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| this happens with EVERY guy i meet? WHY?! or is it just me?
Posted: 6/6/2008 5:53:29 PM | | I had a girl whom i think left me because I wouldn't have sex... I can't be sure about that but I told her, Sex is offlimits to those who arent my LONG TERM GF.. at least.. and concidering i've had a total of 1 GF who lasted a total of 2 weeks then told me she wasnt ready for a BF... I'm feeling behind the 8 ball in terms of women as a 24 year old who just wants someone who wants to be with him a LONG time.. but people our age don't see that or know how to deal with it so we get no where.. | |
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| this happens with EVERY guy i meet? WHY?! or is it just me?
Posted: 6/6/2008 6:16:24 PM | | BarbieS, I am 59 years old and I can tell you that it doesn't get any better with age! I've been a widow for 8 1/2 years and started the internet dating thing about 1 year ago. I could write a book!!! Men who start out being users generally end up in the same category. I extend myself to people that I meet on the sites in that I am considerate of their feelings and expect the same in return. Unfortunately, there are many folks out there who don't follow that philosophy, though in their minds they think they do. The best advice anyone can give you is to stick to your own beliefs, don't be cajoled into folding to someone else's desires when your heart is telling you differently, and maintain your self-pride and respect. There is a man out there for you, but, as the saying goes, you'll have to kiss a lot of frogs before finding your prince. I'm still kissing the frogs, but I'm doing it now with my self-respect in tact. If they want to move along to another possible conquest because of it, there's always another bus behind the one that just left. By the way, the fact that you are recognizing that this behaviour is unacceptable to you is a step in the right direction. Don't fold under their pressure. Good luck to you. | |
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