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 Author Thread: So you see two girls in a bar rubbing up on each other on the dance floor. Does this turn you on
 Guy4theForums

Joined: 4/28/2008
Msg: 26
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Posted: 6/4/2008 11:44:56 AM
MSG#1Prairie wrote:So you see two girls in a bar rubbing up on each other on the dance floor. Does this turn you on? Do the girls have to be hot? Or can they be unattractive girls too?

Nope. Seeing a couple women rubbing on each other? No it doesn't turn me on a bit. I think if they want to get all physical they can do it in a privite place. An each to their own on their preference of Gender attraction.I'm straight myself.
If a good looking woman is rubbing up against something, I think it would be more of a turn on if she was rubbing up against me,, not another woman.
 ByteMeOk

Joined: 5/2/2008
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Posted: 6/4/2008 12:02:28 PM
Umm no not really. As somebody mentioned sure it looks fun but...

Now if I was in the middle sure.
 prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007
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Posted: 6/4/2008 3:08:26 PM
Great replies!
I see young girls do this in bars when I go, which is rare. And pretty much every guy in there is staring with mouths wide open.
But like a couple guys said already. That's for desperate women seeking attention and a lay. Not at all for me. I have grown up and if I want attention from a guy I'll let him know. As for my friends, a couple of them have tried it, after a few drinks. I thought they looked stupid.
 lauren-

Joined: 5/26/2008
Msg: 29
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Posted: 6/4/2008 3:47:10 PM
If the two girls do it because they feel it, like it (not to attract men's attention, even if the man's attention can make it more interesting...), and they are attractive ("attractive" in the eyes of the man watching), I think it turns on...

Most of you said it doesn't...I am just asking myself where did disappear the 3some (2 girls one man) fantasy? or maybe it has nothing to do whith it...?
 CanadianBeef

Joined: 1/5/2008
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Posted: 6/4/2008 4:03:10 PM
Truth be told...some days...I'd hump anything with a heart beat...if two girls are rubbing and getting hor and horny...and I was at the beach all day...at that point...i'm pitching a tent and camping on the dance floor.

Other days, if I'm feeling bummed out, lazy, tired, not overly horny, etc...

I'll look but it won't likely do much...

In the summer time, when chica's wear those little sun dresses and it's hot out and every in tanned and stuff...thats usually when I want to jump in on the action, but the damn bouncers usually restrain me.

Same goes for complete nudity, such as strip clubs...sometimes I'm just there to drink and socialize, other times, I'm looking to get wound up, go home, blow a hole in my shower curtain.
 mytfineman

Joined: 11/21/2005
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Posted: 6/4/2008 6:42:24 PM
Watching them do it at a bar is nice, doing it in my bedroom would be better though. *grin*

And of course they need to be attractive to me, I have no interest in watching two wildebeest getting it on, that's not vibes. ;)

your female friend is mostly correct from my experience...with the qualification of straight men being the observers.
 prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007
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Posted: 6/4/2008 6:44:12 PM
CanadianBeef, you are so open and honest with your feelings. I like it!
 prairiechick2

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Posted: 6/4/2008 6:48:53 PM
[And of course they need to be attractive to me, I have no interest in watching two wildebeest getting it on, that's not vibes]

Mytfineman, very true. Nobody needs to see that.
 sometimesithink2much

Joined: 9/23/2007
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Posted: 6/4/2008 8:11:40 PM
It is a turn on particularly if there are no males in the picture. But its definitely a fantasy because the hope is they are bi sexual and .. looking for a 3rd player. I'm not interested in seeing two unattractive girls doing that however. lol. While guys might* like seeing two women rub up against one another the likelihood of them sharing themselves with a male is pretty low unless of course that's their intention. So yes its a "turn on" there are some large if/and/but to realize. It's mainly a fantasy which is fairly unrealistic.

Just sayin.
 aginghoneybear

Joined: 5/27/2008
Msg: 35
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Posted: 6/4/2008 9:40:30 PM
all they have to do is give me that certain type of look that turns me on more then that, if you are the type of man that is as straight as an arrow it can actually turn you off
 garnet73

Joined: 1/2/2008
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Posted: 6/4/2008 10:58:37 PM
I don't at all mind getting an eyeful of this sort of action. Depending on the who and the how, it's either sensual, sexy or slutty... and there's a time and place for all of those things.

However, I'm not going to approach chicks who are grinding on each other. I assume that they're interested in a kind of guy that I'm not... or that they're only doing it because they're with friends and they're not really looking for a guy at all. Or they're putting on a Tease because it's safe... none of these things makes me think there's any point in making a move.

I was at a club back in December and two of the girls I was with were definitely dancing pretty sexy with each other, and a guy sitting near me made a comment. I piped up to say "actually, they're dancing like that because they're a lesbian couple," and this was actually true. I don't think they were dancing the way Heteroflexible girls dance though... they weren't putting on a show, they were dancing with each other.
 ubkobalt

Joined: 5/7/2006
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Posted: 6/4/2008 11:14:59 PM
Seeing: Oh yeah!

Wanting to do anything with them: Not even close. Unless they both wanted to take me home, and this has to be their decision, and not mine.

What are they trying to accomplish?
 johnayboy88

Joined: 5/31/2008
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Posted: 6/5/2008 2:14:34 AM
if i saw 2 really overweight girls rubbing against each other i would laugh... but if it was 2 cute girls, i would have definitely been turned on .

Both entertaining =)
so where is this place with the rubbing girls? =P
 hiheelsareOk

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Posted: 6/5/2008 7:33:03 AM
Complicated answer OP. Yes and No at least for me. Let me explain briefly. When I was about 22 I had a FWB thing with two lesbians. At first it was that satisfied fantasy, but shortly turned into me realizing I was just a sex toy for the two of them to play with. There was something far more special between the two of them.
Women interact differently with other women anyway as compared to how men interact with other men. I think all heterosexual men would agree that if it was two men grinding away on the dance floor, they would be repulsed and couldn’t even stomach watching it. Viewing two women being physically close in a provocative way arouses most men. I think it is some type of biological engineering of men. I don’t think that this would be the type of woman to introduce to your mother, but it is still sexually arousing.
Look at the differences on how women greet other women, and men greet other men. Women will hug and even kiss each other on the cheek. Men shank hands or gently punch each other in the shoulder to say hi. We are very different in our interactions with the same sex. So my answer is; arousing yes, but I would not want to date either one of them. Been there done that.
 usertaken

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Posted: 6/5/2008 8:14:16 AM
Women could be just standing there we well those normal men anyway would find something sexy about it !
NEVERMIND rubbing off each other..... please send videos !
 OutMind

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Posted: 6/5/2008 8:23:39 AM

OK, there will be a few men who will approach you. Not nice guys. The men who approach you will want SEX. They will want it NOW-- in the bathroom of the club, in shadows outside, or in their car. They don't want your phone number or your name.


Dude, I think you hit the nail on the head.

Also it gets so old.
 sweetjemgirl

Joined: 4/11/2008
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Posted: 6/5/2008 9:47:43 AM
anotheramy, very good point and very true. This was how it was w/my friends and i (tho I rarely go to clubs anymore, just not into it as much). There was a period of time where what you said was the rule for us. And NONE of us were lesbians, we just wanted to dance w/o strange men. Even had the gay guy friend as well. And there were many times I and my friend went and sat down. I don't think this is uncommon at all.
 yarimelma

Joined: 5/4/2008
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Posted: 6/5/2008 10:41:23 AM
turn on?
pffft...
are they rubbing up against me?
no?

I don't get off watching other people...
same reason,
I don't watch porn
I don't goto strip clubs...
 9 to 9

Joined: 5/22/2008
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Posted: 6/5/2008 12:06:50 PM
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Nothing beats a public display of lesbian sex, an you know I'm all for it. ;)
Its like free soft porn, and with people you equally don't want to be seen with!

And once again, if I may,(and of course, I will) discuss the matter.

Before there was a club, my niggaz, there was fertility dances. Now we primates have 'da club', where all manner of 'freaky' byaches, are still putting bones in their noses, and are willing to jump rope with their whimsically cloathed and over exposed ovaries with well revealed droopin' labia majoris, that charmingly flutter over their slim thong panties. Why? To get attention! Just the same as in our primate villiage!

Call it a "my humps" moment, my niggaz, but I really think they are just there to dance and try to look sexy. But, it would be most revealing to study how quickly the STD's keep pace with the next generation's stupidity, and if that along with a weaknes to STI's are an inherited trait. Or would that STI just be predominately of the "Aquired Immune" type?

After all, I can allways "pour a 40" for the young dumb female "niglet wanAb's" later. And you know with all that drama at 'da club' I could make a killing, into a small fortune. That is, my niggaz, if I built a voucher based low income funeral parlor next door.;)

Call it a Ken Schram/Jerry Springer/ Slim Shady moment:

"You Know, I've noticed all the crack hoe's widt da AIDS, are in a place called 'da club'." " and I think society, and the byaches, should do something about that?" "What do you think?" "Lets all try love, not gatt and give AIDS an Crak baybees, to eachother." "Yo! Peace!"

lol ;)

But to answer the question.

Awww heyll no!

Y'all byaches, is crayzy! Snuggins! Bling! Praise dre. and snoop! Ayyymen!

9 to 9
 GbBengi

Joined: 11/23/2007
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Posted: 6/6/2008 5:51:38 PM
Women are beautiful, plain and simple, you put to beautiful objects together you get twice the beauty. Its not a "turn on" but also not something most men would look at and say EWWW. No, they don't have to be hot, define hot anyways! Its mostly something young girls do.......to be "different" and something most young boys dream of, because they are "boys".

That being said......

Prepare for the next one.....
 GbBengi

Joined: 11/23/2007
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Posted: 6/6/2008 5:56:58 PM
WTH is this............. is this even a serious reply to the post, or a rediculous rant?

Before there was a club, my niggaz, there was fertility dances. Now we primates have 'da club', where all manner of 'freaky' byaches, are still putting bones in their noses, and are willing to jump rope with their whimsically cloathed and over exposed ovaries with well revealed droopin' labia majoris, that charmingly flutter over their slim thong panties. Why? To get attention! Just the same as in our primate villiage!

Call it a "my humps" moment, my niggaz, but I really think they are just there to dance and try to look sexy. But, it would be most revealing to study how quickly the STD's keep pace with the next generation's stupidity, and if that along with a weaknes to STI's are an inherited trait. Or would that STI just be predominately of the "Aquired Immune" type?

Seriously, is that even a freaking language? I speak fluent ENGRISH. Who are your "niggaz" And I am lost, what primates? Fertility dances? What tribe you be from YO. byaches is not even close to being spelled correctly, the actual ghetto spelling is biiiiiiiiiiiatches. How the hell can one "over expose ovaries". What is a "my humps moment" my niggaz? Can you spell yet, or write intelligent conversation? Or shall I show you hooked on ebonics?


 GbBengi

Joined: 11/23/2007
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Posted: 6/6/2008 6:00:38 PM
WTH is this............. is this even a serious reply to the post, or a rediculous rant?

Before there was a club, my niggaz, there was fertility dances. Now we primates have 'da club', where all manner of 'freaky' byaches, are still putting bones in their noses, and are willing to jump rope with their whimsically cloathed and over exposed ovaries with well revealed droopin' labia majoris, that charmingly flutter over their slim thong panties. Why? To get attention! Just the same as in our primate villiage!

Call it a "my humps" moment, my niggaz, but I really think they are just there to dance and try to look sexy. But, it would be most revealing to study how quickly the STD's keep pace with the next generation's stupidity, and if that along with a weaknes to STI's are an inherited trait. Or would that STI just be predominately of the "Aquired Immune" type?

Seriously, is that even a freaking language? I speak fluent ENGRISH. Who are your "niggaz" And I am lost, what primates? Fertility dances? What tribe you be from YO. byaches is not even close to being spelled correctly, the actual ghetto spelling is biiiiiiiiiiiatches. How the hell can one "over expose ovaries". What is a "my humps moment" my niggaz? Can you spell yet, or write intelligent conversation? Or shall I show you hooked on ebonics?


 sam-spade

Joined: 12/2/2007
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Posted: 6/6/2008 6:22:35 PM
We're not laughing with you honey.
 brahamella

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Posted: 6/6/2008 7:24:05 PM

So you see two girls in a bar rubbing up on each other on the dance floor. Does this turn you on? Do the girls have to be hot? Or can they be unattractive girls too?


If I am horny it is like adding fuel to the fire. If I am just out for a drink and see two women who are not lesbians and seem to be doing that for attention, I start to take pity on them for their low self esteem.

To each ther own and I am all for bisexual women, but doing it to turn on guys is just sad, imo. Un;less of course there is a chance both will be coming home with me. Hasn't happened so far and probably never will.
 bcBlunted

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Posted: 6/13/2008 10:51:16 AM
did it ever come 2 a conclusion 2 any of u that if 2 girls are griding in a club might be because they are together? Just cause ur Gay, Lez, Bi dont mean u have 2 stick 2 the gay bars...... 2 girls dancing is hot only if their hot. but generally chicks like 2 have a good time. Dancing 2 gether is fun. personaly turn around and get the F*CK outta the club if u dont like it .. cause its not like we really care. we do what we want.
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