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 WpgGentleman2

Joined: 6/19/2008
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So you see two girls in a bar rubbing up on each other on the dance floor. Does this turn you on
Posted: 7/7/2008 1:42:03 AM
There is only one way to decide this, we need to carry out the experiment.

Fortunately, I'm in Manitoba, and Saskatchewan is not that far away.

Seriously though:
a) If they girls are hot, they could be doing just about anything and hold my attention.
b) If they are *definitely* not hot, it won't matter what they are doing, it might attract my attention but it won't excite me.
c) And if they are in between, well, I couldn't predict.

It might bore guys who work in nightclubs and see that all the time. So if that is the kind of guy you are trying to attract, you'll need to try something else.

Now, would seeing 2 women rubbing up against me make me want to have a long term relationship with either of them -- probably not.
 abelian

Joined: 1/12/2008
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So you see two girls in a bar rubbing up on each other on the dance floor. Does this turn you on
Posted: 7/9/2008 1:59:08 AM
It would if they asked me to join them.
 Kaitiey

Joined: 10/12/2006
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So you see two girls in a bar rubbing up on each other on the dance floor. Does this turn you on
Posted: 7/9/2008 8:37:22 PM
Not that I have much an opinion on the turn on part but....

I dance like that with my girlfriends when we want creepy men to leave us alone. We send it as a NO signal. In our minds we believe we are saying "I don't want to dance with you creepy man because I already have a partner, its the girl I am with". When the creepie leaves we start dancing like idiots again.

When I see girls dancing for attention it makes me laugh. When women dance like that and really enjoy it its sensual. When they are idiots it looks almost awkward and slightly out of place.
 Desdemona00

Joined: 6/6/2008
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So you see two girls in a bar rubbing up on each other on the dance floor. Does this turn you on
Posted: 7/9/2008 9:20:23 PM
I enjoy dancing, if the music is playing I will dance in Best Buy, In the Disney Store, or at the bus Stop, that said while some "young girls" may do do this psuedo lesbian shit for attention most of the girls I know don't.

You see it's a comfort thing, when you dance with guys at the club they don't understand that 95% of the time they are merely a pole, you do not care about them as a person, you just want to dance, if you dance remotely in any way that is sexy they will subtly attempt to rub you, gyrate against your butt, graze your chest and all this shit is not welcome.

A t least with your friends you know that if you drop down to the floor, shake your hips and your breasts jiggle a little they won't feel the need to disrespect your personal space and your body. And they never whisper in your ear " God you're making me h$@d", TMI anyone.
 Namats III

Joined: 2/11/2008
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So you see two girls in a bar rubbing up on each other on the dance floor. Does this turn you on
Posted: 7/10/2008 9:55:58 AM
It's fun to watch .. if the ladies are attractive....
..but if there's a group of BBW's on the floor...I just look the other way...
[~ Not to be judgemental...BBW's just don't Appeal to me...~]
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Actually, it's more a reflection of how guys don't Dance, anymore...!!!
While the ladies L O V E dancing ..
their 'Macho' dates don't want to embarass themselves in public..!!!
~ Even Slow-dancing .. the 'Clutch-and-sway'-types make me laugh.. ~
I generally feel Cheated if I don't get to use the _Entire_ floor in a single dance...!!!
... ...
 greeneyegrl

Joined: 12/4/2007
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So you see two girls in a bar rubbing up on each other on the dance floor. Does this turn you on
Posted: 7/29/2008 7:02:28 AM
Hmmm...
I have BEEN in that situation. I have 2 girl- FRIENDS that I hang out with that tend to be a bit on the BI side. I am not, but I do show PDA with them. We dance, we have fun. People stare. Men, women, everyone. Doesn't mean that we are EXPECTING to be taken into the bathroom, parking lot, ANYWHERE for sex. I have never left the bar with anyone for sex....EVER. I'm not that type of person. I dance the same way with men. Does that mean I'm disgusting? Gross? Easy? I think not! I think it means we are there to have fun and take advantage of being OUT! It's FUN. If you don't like it, turn the other way, talk about us, do what you will....just don't spoil our FUN. LOL. Besides, maybe it's something you should try! You might like it!
 fortytwelve

Joined: 4/10/2008
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does this turn you on?
Posted: 8/10/2008 11:43:26 PM

I agree that this type of women aren't relationship material.


I really don't think that's true. I've been known to do it, not for attention, but for fun, and I am ready for a relationship. There's also the factor of bisexuality. Writing someone off for dancing with a member of the same sex makes you less datable in my opinion.
 Stripeycat

Joined: 6/11/2008
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So you see two girls in a bar rubbing up on each other on the dance floor. Does this turn you on
Posted: 8/11/2008 12:13:03 AM
This is not appealing to me in the least.

I am really only interested in women who would be interested in me, not another woman. Why would I want to have to compete with the population of the entire world when I can be smart and cut that in half by sticking to straight women?
 Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008
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So you see two girls in a bar rubbing up on each other on the dance floor. Does this turn you on
Posted: 8/11/2008 10:58:29 AM
What would have turned me on is both of those rubbers rubbin' on me instead of each other. Otherwise, nah, doesn't get a rise outta me.
 Gangster Kitten

Joined: 4/3/2008
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does this turn you on?
Posted: 8/11/2008 11:00:42 AM
When I see this, I think "ohai, it's 2 attention-seeking floozies who are tipsy, not like i've never seen that before."

half of that is probably pent up jealous rage that neither of them will ever have sex with me.

But only half.
 LemonVision

Joined: 5/2/2008
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So you see two girls in a bar rubbing up on each other on the dance floor. Does this turn you on
Posted: 8/24/2008 11:52:41 AM
I'm a bit of a hypocrite on this one; I blame my biology. I would certainly find this a turn on, I simply can't help that, but I would never date the type of girl who looks for attention this way.
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