| is he psycho or is it just me?
Posted: 6/17/2008 7:46:59 PM | Id never give some guy like that my number, hes pushy and doesnt know what a boundry is...sounds like someone who will bully and manipulate you into doing what he wants.
I knew a guy (personally) who would call me and being that im more introverted I dont often answer my phone, and he did leave a message to the extent of "well dont fkn text me if you arent going to answer my call when I fkn phone you bleep bleep bleep". Im sure glad I never agreed to meet up with him in person cause some people just are perfectly unbalanced and it will show. | |
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| is he psycho or is it just me?
Posted: 6/17/2008 9:46:56 PM | | well i don't think it's that weird for him to ask for your # and call you. i've had plenty of men who have IM'ed me and 5 minutes later want to call me. it's up to you to decide whether or not you feel safe enough to give him your #. i doubt anything terrible would happen if you did. most people are not stalkers and don't have the time to keep calling you. | |
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| is he psycho or is it just me?
Posted: 6/18/2008 12:43:35 AM | | Know what it's becoming more common for people to exchange number's online...I had alot of women send me their phone number's after their second email to me..To me it was a turn off...but then again i am too shy to talk to someone i dont know.If that guy was being pushy then dont give him your number...normal people dont stress over phone number's.plus phone number's carry alot of infomation just to be giving it out to every tom****and harry.block his ass and move on. | |
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| is he psycho or is it just me?
Posted: 6/22/2008 7:41:03 AM | | One time a guy did something like that to me. I gave him my number, but told him it was my older brother's because I said I was staying with my older brother for a while. I went on about how muscular and intimidating my brother was. In short, the guy never called me, and that bad feeling I had about him was gone. | |
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| is he psycho or is it just me?
Posted: 6/22/2008 8:10:54 AM | There is differnate red flag signals ,and just aint worth the risk ,its to early and hes being real pushy ,(no good feeling what if) ,i would say that down the road if this was pursued ,you would be kicking yourself for not going along with the firsty gut feeling.
Why risk injury at such a early stage ,when its easy to walk away.plenty more fish in the sea .Good luck. | |
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| is he psycho or is it just me?
Posted: 10/2/2008 10:09:53 PM | | Stay away from this guy do not give him your number your story creeps me out I thing he is hiding something also and common he does not know you that well | |
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| is he psycho or is it just me?
Posted: 10/3/2008 4:24:13 PM | Doesn't maintain contact through the net but has a profile on here but doesn't have access to the net? Okkkkk. Ask for more and more pix then haggles with you over a phone number? Can tell you have been hurt and likes you still hammers you down?
RUN FOR THE HILLS. | |
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| is he psycho or is it just me?
Posted: 10/3/2008 5:16:41 PM | BLOCK HIM!
He's a Psycho alright, you'll be lucky if he didn't come on knocking on your door with a knives. | |
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| is he psycho or is it just me?
Posted: 10/3/2008 7:48:13 PM | I must have missed something on the original post because I don't see what the problem is with giving out your phone number to someone who is interested in talking. Not everyone enjoys spending weeks online when a 10 minute phone call will tell you so much more about the other person. Yes, he may have been a little pushy but psycho? Not even close.
I've had plenty of guys ask for my phone number after just a couple of online chats. If I was even remotely interested I don't see what the problem is. I wouldn't give him my home number if it was listed in the phone book and he can do a reverse lookup and find my address. Always try to play it safe, of course, but that's what cells are for. Its not easy to locate someone through a cell number. And frankly, a guy is not going to start stalking you over a couple of pics, a couple of online chats and a phone call. Get over yourselves. | |
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| is he psycho or is it just me?
Posted: 10/3/2008 8:00:02 PM | he's f'in with your mind girl..........he is already so soon in the game.....picked
up on your vulnerabilites............playin you down.(you must of really be hurtbad)
yes red flag thebegginning of the perpetrator gets the victim and they live
abusively ever after..........
think more of yourself..........if you had you would not be here asking this
question............you'd already pressed delete andnext????????? | |
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| is he psycho or is it just me?
Posted: 10/3/2008 9:08:45 PM | do what i did ask him for his # then when you call block your number so he doesnt have it thataway if you dont like him he cant call you. you know *67 then the number. | |
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| is he psycho or is it just me?
Posted: 10/4/2008 12:42:13 AM | | Take him off your Yahoo list and put him on ignore. Be sure to copy his member name down exactly and add him to your ignore list, and he'll never see you online again. OR, do like me and set your Yahoo IM to "ignore anyone who isn't on my buddy list" and take him off your list. Then just don't respond to any further attempts to contact you. | |
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| is he psycho or is it just me?
Posted: 10/4/2008 7:25:59 AM | | I'm so glad I'm a guy... You ladies have spent your whole life building these walls around yourselves and refuse to let anyone in and we spend all our time trying to break through, even someone who just wanted your dang phone number to talk to you instead of typing on a keyboard. Maybe the guy just wanted to hear your voice and maybe get a feeling of who you might be by talking to you instead of on a machine where every word is cold and unfeeling. I don't know about you but I had rather talk to someone on the phone for two minutes to get to know someone than chat online for months and never know the sound of the person on the other end. Gosh there are some people on here that I wonder if they ever step outside and see the sun for fear some guy they chatted with online will be waiting out there to jump on them. If you are that scared of life I'd buy a gun and never leave home without it. | |
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