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| Fake language - Babe, hun, luv, dear, hot, fit, sexy and so on...
Posted: 7/4/2008 1:00:04 PM | oh nooooooooooooooo
i say darl all the time and honey and babes...
i am from the north living in the south ... and find most southerners call me hun or hunnie , and my southern friend hates it when i call him darl...
it just comes out my mouth
i wont be stopping , regardless of this new informaton on how you all hate it..
sorry my darlings.. its meant as a term of endearment , not as an insult or an over familiarity
i think your all mean  | |
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| Fake language - Babe, hun, luv, dear, hot, fit, sexy and so on...
Posted: 7/4/2008 1:40:46 PM | I suppose it’s ok...
(long sigh) Who am I kidding? It's too generic in my opinion. And like you say “afx777”, it lacks imagination. Saying “luv you” or "I love you” ...tends to lose its meaning when said on a constant bases too - so I used to reply “Yep, ok” with the equally cheap "love you too" (voice raised at the end like a question). Does demean love and also shows insecurity to whoever is repeating it all the time. Re. babes, darling, baby and the like, I'm sure "angelsprinkles", you're a lovely lady. Somethings sometimes just don't need to be said. Am I being a b6stard here? | |
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| Fake language - Babe, hun, luv, dear, hot, fit, sexy and so on...
Posted: 7/4/2008 2:00:08 PM | | Found that after living in Stockport i have the tendency to say Cheers Luv etc when being served in a shop ( oi keep it clean ) and now i find in Essex the term most commonly bandied around is "Mate" now that does grate the heckles a bit though... In a relationship terms of endearment are going to be common but as mentioned overuse can become complacency and lose their meaning .. | |
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| Fake language - Babe, hun, luv, dear, hot, fit, sexy and so on...
Posted: 7/4/2008 2:26:50 PM | no afishinthesea your not been a b9stard .. i would probably really really like you if you where
and sure as hell not a lovely lady ... i get called.. love, honey,hun,babe,babes,sweetheart , lovely lesley, blondie,darling and her at the till .... all day.. never even thought about it til i read this thread.. but cool ... and as 98% of my customers are men, just been friendly and passing the time of day , i guess they too wouldnt have thought anyone would really bother looking into it with any deep thought | |
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| Fake language - Babe, hun, luv, dear, hot, fit, sexy and so on...
Posted: 7/4/2008 4:24:34 PM | Whether a pet name as the OP describes, is intended as "friendly" or "flattering" in the first message , the ASSUMPTION that pet names is ok with me, is wrong, they have not bothered to/incapable of comprehending my profile -
I do not like pets names given to me by strangers, never have done, to me it smacks of insincere usually sexist BS.
when i tell em I don't like pet names ... "well, I'm only being friendly, lighten up" .... To those who think I need to lighten up - yet another assumption that somehow I am wound up -now your telling me how to feel < and that is patronising< and so's this, - Great! a man to run my head for me- perhaps I could shove me brain down his pants- then we could have a natter.
On forums i think expressions like hun are actually helpful and help to give a sense of how the messenger intended their post to be taken, flirty/friendly/sarcastic -  | |
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| Fake language - Babe, hun, luv, dear, hot, fit, sexy and so on...
Posted: 7/5/2008 6:21:40 PM | Hello, Frisps- , I don't like " Babe, hun, luv, dear, hot, fit, sexy name- Buuuuttt I like cheese-
I have a cringy, stinky humour.>
" Hello cheesy, you give me the roqueforts, me stiltons are starting to throb. Ee, dam have fondued me crackers now- fancy a nibble?
www.milkum4u.com. xxx"
Your "bloody cheese" frisps- - its late am having rambling chheze thoughts- gone off thread- will come back- "Hay frisps I have had an idea- I could call you....
frisps!!!!!!!!!!! xxx----- night.-
will read,weep,delete tomorrow. lighten up, no stay dark,
    wot no fart button- < what the hell is this? < and this???-they all look the same- shall call them hun.-doh SOAP.. need soap | |
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| Fake language - Babe, hun, luv, dear, hot, fit, sexy and so on...
Posted: 7/6/2008 3:31:29 PM | | Ermmm? not sure what to make of that last comment,are u being nasty????? sorry its off the thread topic, but keep reading it and me's thinking its not nice......nothing wrong with cheese,just dont like cheesy men (or ones that smell of it) | |
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| Fake language - Babe, hun, luv, dear, hot, fit, sexy and so on...
Posted: 7/6/2008 4:39:59 PM | | Hi, frisps, I read my post and agree it could be construed as nasty. - Am very sorry, I wasn't critising your post but agree that it is way to ambiguous - was playing with cheese words as reaction to "bloody cheesy"- my bad english- sorry, can delete if you would like. | |
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yes! someone else agrees with me, ive put exactly that on my profile, No babe or Hun thank you, its so bloody cheesy!!!!!!!!!! Blergh!!!!!!!!!
