| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 3/9/2007 3:58:58 AM | | I was a virgin until I was 28 years old. I didn't even hold hands until I was 27. I have always been very shy. I have only been with the one guy. I was with him until he died 8 years later but that's another story. I miss sex but I'm not going to jump in bed with just anyone. I don't see anything wrong with a male virgin. My oldest cousin was a virgin until the age of 36 when he met the right girl and they're married now. shy too. He was always very Maybe it just runs in the family. | |
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Posted: 3/9/2007 6:16:40 AM | absolutly loved the virgin flesh i managed to drug and beat into submission...the crying and pleading look in thier eyes as they looked up at me made it all worth while.
he was a virgin and i (no surprise there) wasnt...it wasnt awkward at all, just a physical act made special because he chose to share it with me...and...dissapointing sex is my middle name so things will only get better for him as time goes on.
weather hes a virgin or not means little to me...does he drink english breakfast or earl grey and how fast can he heat up the spoon is all im interested in | |
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Posted: 3/9/2007 7:57:06 AM | Hi, my name is Nick, and I'm a virgin.
"Hi, Nick!"
Hey guys. A few months from 23 years old, now. And I just got my first kiss last November (thanks to another dating website, lol).
I'm not waiting due to faith (I'm Christian, but don't believe in waiting until marriage), it's simply a matter of conditions. You can all guess the excuses: I was shy in high school, had a hard time talking to women, and don't know how to approach them. I've gotten better in my years, but I still can't understand how to approach a stranger and ask them out. So I have to use online dating sites, but I haven't had the most success there.
Yeah, I'm the nice, easy-going guy that every woman wants... but I'm not perfect. I have issues. I suffer from anxiety. I may not be nearly as bad as I was in high-school, but I'm sure I still have some minor anti-social issues. And my self-esteem is shot, which I think is perfectly understandable.
But everybody has issues. I wouldn't want to date someone who DIDN'T have 'issues'. Because that means I'd be with the perfect person, and THAT is an issue I wouldn't want to deal with. | |
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Posted: 3/9/2007 9:53:38 AM | | I'm 23 and only slept with one person who i was with for 6 years. Now i'm back on the market I'm shit scared. The anxity of will I be up to performance. I am inexperianced really. Feel like if i might let that person down if they are expecting more from me . | |
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Posted: 3/9/2007 10:36:23 AM | I've actually dated a virgin.. He was 19 and told me that he was before we went out. He was just waiting for the right girl cause he didn't want to lose it to a "slut". He was one of the sweetest guys I've went out with. And after it was all done and said, he couldn't get enough of it. He said that he was making up for lost time! haha But the reason we broke up was cause he wanted to get out there and see what else is there.. But while we were togther he was kinda clingy and wanted to be with me all the time...
But in other words, I had fun teaching him!v | |
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Posted: 3/9/2007 10:48:43 AM | I was a virgin until I was 24... it doesn't take long to figure out the right buttons to push. It's not some kind of unsolvable puzzle in other words...
I was just shy and lacked confidence... but, in a way I'm glad that it took so long - at the time I wasn't - and even now, I'm very particular - not that I have great numbers of women knocking down my door.
I find it interesting that people are talking about having to teach a person... Is it really that hard to have sex? To understand what works for that person? Seems like some people have a rather limited view on things...
the giggleparts - I pluck my own banjo | |
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Posted: 3/9/2007 11:22:23 AM | | Hey were all virgins at some point in time...if you ladies don't take the time to teach us, how do you expect us to learn? And think about it...would you rather be telling your girlfriends about your boyfiren Bob who is sweet and innocent and a virgin who you can shape and mold into the perfect lover or Chaz your hot boyfriend who has so much expirence from the 100 notches on his belt...but your are number 101 arne't you!!! | |
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Posted: 3/9/2007 5:17:16 PM | I'd date a virgin. I know several guys around my age (30s) who are still virgins - some are waiting til marriage for religious/other moral reasons, some just haven't found the right person. I figure if he won't judge me for not being one, then there's no reason for me to judge him for being one. And it is fun to be the teacher. ;)
As far as complete virgins go - not unheard of. Again, the guy could be shy, he might not have found the right person, what have you. There are also people who believe the first kiss should be saved for the wedding day. (I will say I couldn't date someone with a complete hands-off-til-marriage policy) | |
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Posted: 3/9/2007 8:58:20 PM | Ah ha!!! Here I am, a 43 year old male virgin. The reason I have never had sex because to be totally honest, it never interested me. I have other odd interests that naturally wouldn't sexually fulfill a woman. Sadly, that's why most of the women I see have to take Visa and Master Card. Gee... seeing it in writing like this.... I need HELP!!!!!!!
But a few of the ladies above are correct. If you put "it" in front of me, I wouldn't know what to do with it...... Maybe pet it or something.... Do they eat??
Tory
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Posted: 3/9/2007 9:02:23 PM | I guess Virginity has become a taboo nowadays. I don't know why people make such a big deal about it. Seems like a rat race to loose virginity... lol. Reading from other "virgin" threads, lot of people had awful first time sex. But doesent that kindda makes sense, when virgins are just trying to get laid irrespective of whether they have any attraction or not. Couples in love and totally into each other, normally enjoy their sex, even if it is for the first time. I am a virgin not for any religious reasons but just cos I did not find the right woman and I'm in no hurry. And I am not a shy person or any such thing and neither am I waiting for some princess or marriage, etc....
Virginity is just like the hair on your head. You can loose them if you wish or sometimes you loose it without your wish and sometimes they plainly suck
Just an experienced virgins 2 cents
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Posted: 3/9/2007 11:15:16 PM | There is honestly nothing wrong with being a virgin, i am one and i am proud of it and i surely do not want to waste on a fling with a woman i barely know.
I ain't saying i am waiting for the wedding night, i am just waiting for a woman i can settle down with.
But the people saying that they don't have the patience for virgins, isn't exactly being honest about it....i think its mostly due to fear of not being good enough for their first time.
Cause it is alot of responsibility, the virgin will remember their first time for the rest of their lives and if its crap, they will likely think sex is crap and won't bother looking for it. | |
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Posted: 3/10/2007 6:49:46 AM | | I would gladly date a celibate Man or a virgin. I have been married previosly but am celibate by choice as I am a Christian and I beleive my faith prohibits it. ( I do have Christian grounds for divorce and my husband sought the divorce not me) Most guys ask about sex when you're chatting on the 1,2, or 3 conversation as soon as you say celibate you never here from them again or the ones that do still chat try to convince you that sex with them would be very enjoyable and say oh so you don't like sex. They should get a clue I enjoy sex very much but if that's what the relationship is built on then it's not much of a foundation. I was faithful to my husband through 2 years of impudency. | |
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Posted: 3/10/2007 6:50:42 AM | well im just 25 and im a virgin Ive kissed girls and other stuff was a while ago tho just havent gone there and I didnt really want to lose it to some random slut and the last 3 years ive havent got out of this little bitty community where the only girls close to my age are my sister and maybe 3 others that I wouldnt touch so if tha 25 thing is true i hope someone saves me before its too late :)
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Posted: 3/10/2007 3:18:45 PM | | if you have non specific tastes then yeah its never too late but i will not apologize for being human...i WANT a hot 20 year old chick to f uck the living piss out of her..i want to have fun convey youthful exhuberance...i dont want to sleep with divorced 44 year old mothers of 4....so for what i want it will be soon too late. | |
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Posted: 3/10/2007 3:31:37 PM | Yikes Vinny...after that last comment, I'm guessing they all went running thattaway <<~~~~~~~~~~~ That was a bit harsh..but you're entitled to what you want.
OT: I wouldn't seek out a virgin. At this stage of my life, I'd aim more for someone experienced that can maybe introduce me to things I've missed out on.. If I really hit it off with someone, I wouldn't turn them down due to their virgin status though. | |
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Posted: 3/10/2007 5:12:35 PM | | its no more harsh than you saying you wouldnt want a virgin at this stage in your life...yes my wording was a bit harsh because i didnt want to write half a novel to explain myself....but i also appretiate where youre comming from...its not about age its about stage...where youre at in life...i never experienced anything before so im not ready to settle down with a woman with 4 kids and 2 marriages behind her and arguing about property tax and fixing the basement steps....i want the going to the movies holding hands and having sex in cars and partying with hot young chicks and that is something that there will come a time it is too late..but im not going to apologize for wanting it..why shouldnt i? i dont want to settle down and marry the 1st woman who likes me. | |
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Posted: 3/10/2007 5:19:28 PM | NEVER, NEVER, NEVER ditch your self-respect to fulfill somebodies view of the world.
Develop a respect for their choices and a fcuk em attitude. But I guess that is the crux of this thread.  | |
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Posted: 3/11/2007 12:43:09 AM | wow this I'm completely amazed by this thread.
To the woman who wouldn't be interested in a virgin: you realize you are basing the whole of a man, including personality, intelligence, goodness, and love on whether or not his pee pee entered a certain hole. Wow if your that shallow I wouldn't be interested in you either.
I'm 19 and a "technical" virgin.
If you must know, pretty much by choice.
I grew up in the church and so I was taught that I'm going to hell if I popped that cherry.
When I got a little older I experimented sexually with a couple girls but I never went all the way. One of the girls I think had an std so I'm glad I didn't. It really wasn't an issue with me, still isn't.
I mean it's like people have this stereotype that virgin guys are like social pariahs, who are old creepy and as hideous as a basilisk.
That's not true at all, I mean jeez even the people who have posted on this thread as virgins, look perfectly normal. | |
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Posted: 3/11/2007 12:16:25 PM | How would the ladies feel about dating a virgin? Would you feel strange because you are more experienced than them? Or would you take the thrill of teaching them to be great lovers?
It would depend on their backgrounds and cultures.
Some cultures, for example, may view male virgins as less of a man than other men.
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Posted: 3/11/2007 12:17:52 PM |
A good buddy of mine is 39, and simply hasn't FOUND the right one yet. That's nothing to judge a man (or woman) for, is it?
How does his family feel about this?
Michael | |
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Posted: 3/11/2007 12:22:39 PM |
I guess in this day and age its dangerous to be a virgin because so many women like to bash men from 25 into their late 30's just because they feel that they are not capable to get laid and therefore get judged harshly as having problems and issues when that may even not be the case.
The best thing to do is to keep it a secret, if your culture views male virgins as less of a man than other men.
The important thing is to maintain an image that is acceptable to whatever culture you happen to be in.
Michael | |
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Posted: 3/11/2007 2:17:34 PM | | I am 34 and still a virgin does it mean I have issues, Yes but who out there does'nt have issues my relationship with women are led by my heart not by my penis.In this day and age where everybody gives it up like nothing virgins should be commended I am proud to be a virgin and I will wait for the right one! The woman that God has for me! | |
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Posted: 3/11/2007 8:16:12 PM | CONGRATES TO THE GUYS AND GIRLS WHO CHOSE TO WAIT. WISH I HAD!!! | |
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