| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 3/11/2007 8:24:38 PM | I'm a re-born virgin, i need to be de-flowered, accepting resume's... | |
|
| |
| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 3/11/2007 10:44:30 PM | | uhhhh... i see no problem with it... shit i was one about a year ago... and i don't have issues sex just isn't a huge thing for me. Unlike most people clam for it to be a must thing to do, sex isn't life in my opinion.. | |
|
| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 3/12/2007 4:10:39 AM | Virgins are overrated. They don't last long, they don't know what they are doing. Men who sleep around can barley do it right. They cry  mmm lets see... they are needy, need I say more? | |
|
| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 3/12/2007 4:53:17 AM | | what is it with these threads, people are a virgin over a certain age and people post specifically to bash them and put them down :p | |
|
| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 3/12/2007 5:59:48 AM | Men around my age are in control of their own timing and I am not about to start at the beginning. I can't fathom returning to a time when the tip is barely in and suddenly all you know is he is apologizing and you now have to act like you didn't feel the swift kick to the face you swear you just received all while trying to form a smile and utter it's okay when you are MAD AS HELL! Mad and now more horny and now he has fallen asleep and begining to flippin snore! Hell no that plays out like a nightmare.  | |
|
| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 3/12/2007 6:33:03 AM | wow, thats a lot of drama, think its going to give me a real nightmare, if its going to be like that should i even bother?  | |
|
| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 3/12/2007 7:20:54 AM | | im a virgin but i know id be wickedly awsome in bed anyway...i base this on the fact that i know guys my age whove been ****ing sing they were 11 who still have no clue what sex is about they are get on get off ..dog humping the chesterfield type ppl..where as i have a sexual intelligence that you cant teach some 1may be a bold statement but i think id be awsome. | |
|
| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 3/12/2007 1:02:45 PM | scarter thats just the way people are they have to put us down to make them feel better about themselves
as for falling asleep after uhm that i wouldnt thats what tounges and such are for i wouldnt rest untill she was happy | |
|
| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 3/12/2007 2:49:51 PM | | For the record, I didn't put anyone down at all. Just as you guys have made a personal choice to remain virgins, at 35 years old and right into my prime I prefer to meet someone that DOES have experience. Personal preference is a wonderful thing... I'm not looking for the happily ever after moment, nor am I looking to have more children or anything of that nature, so for me to say I'd love to find a virgin would cause a lot more backlash from you people than me being honest in saying I'd have more fun and gain more knowledge from someone that was more experienced than me... I don't think there's anything wrong at all with being a virgin until you feel the time is right. I just don't feel that would be something I'd seek out. | |
|
| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 3/12/2007 2:56:42 PM | 'Jeez, I hate sayin this but I dated 3 in my twenties not last week. Part of my issue with that whole 'waiting to have sex' philosophy some things u wanna know before you get too attached. Mostly what sucks is they need to be set free to do their thing (in my opinion) and you've done all that work and someone else reaps the rewards.'
For some guys it's not about waiting to have sex, it's because they've just never had the opportunity to have sex. | |
|
| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 3/12/2007 3:02:14 PM | *For some guys it's not about waiting to have sex, it's because they've just never had the opportunity to have sex.*
Bingo!, for the most, people on here who admit to being a virgin are automatically stuffed in a box that say's i chose to wait
does no one really think that a there are men and women who havent had the opportunity? | |
|
| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 3/12/2007 3:06:28 PM | Bingo!, for the most, people on here who admit to being a virgin are automatically stuffed in a box that say's i chose to wait
does no one really think that a there are men and women who havent had the opportunity?
There is actually a message board which is dedicated to people who never get the opportunity to have sex, and surprisingly there's just as many women on there as men, they're called Incels (short for involuntary celibate), they're seemingly normal people as well, I don't think I've ever seen one disabled or mentally ill person on there. | |
|
| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 3/12/2007 4:45:05 PM | Originally posted by vinny low
all these things eqaul 1 thing....a bad ****ing self esteem which leads to depression which leads to poor physical health..lack of sleep ulcers fatigue and in time death.
Find yourself a good gym and develop a solid (ie, practical, realistic, efficient) exercise routine. Virgin or not, after you jog four miles and pump iron you're ready to tell anyone who questions your worth to burn. Exercising increases your stamina, makes you happier, and helps you maintain a healthy perspective on things.
And yeah, you have as fair a reason to kvetch as anyone else, but when you go about it in that tone it sounds pretty bad. You're brain hasn't been set in concrete, and you're not going to die from not getting laid. If you're going to sound morbid and dramatic, read some Edgar Allan Poe first so you can go about it with some pop.
Originally posted by iamsiam
Develop a respect for their choices and a fcuk em attitude. But I guess that is the crux of this thread.
Well, having that attitude certainly keeps you from becoming distressed about being a virgin, but it's not going to help you get rid of it. I've been told that acting like you don't care attracts the ladies like nothing else, but in my personal experience that seems to exude the sense you simply don't care and turns them off as a direct result. Can't blame them there, apathy is a pretty strong turn off.
Originally posted by tango-shoes
Virgins are overrated. They don't last long, they don't know what they are doing.
I've seen a number of posts like this in this thread now...and let me guess, you've all dated virgin men with Leprosy!
Am I close?
Seriously, who are these men that are unable to perform any kind of sexual act just because they've blown their load? I mean, jeez, I can only assume if I were in the middle of the act and my Long Thomas fell off I could still fool around with the use of my hands, tongue, and the rest of my body for at least half an hour before asking if the girl wouldn't mind driving me to the hospital.
And then, ya know, telling her that she might have contracted Leprosy.
Am I missing something? How does an orgasm drain a person of an hour's worth of energy? If the dude doesn't have it after the orgasm, I'm thinking there's a fat chance he was going to last long regardless of whether or not he get his before you yours. | |
|
| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 3/12/2007 5:18:04 PM | And yeah, 21 year old virgin here. I'm neither proud or ashamed. I'm not a virgin because I'm religious or because of anxiety problems. Used to have the anxiety stuff, but no longer. And for the record:
I have a backbone
A sense of humor
A brain
At least average looking
Artistic
Good at conversation
A student
Has a decent job
Pays my own rent
Works out regularly
And either confidence or arrogance, depending on whether or not you agree on the items above. Also, I'm not a self acclaimed "nice guy" who does nothing but complain about how women only date jerks. I'm not a jerk either for that matter.
So how and why? 'Bout a year ago I'd have a few answers, but as for now I really don't know. I lead an active lifestyle, but rarely is there a mutual spark between me and a member of the opposite sex. I have a mind open to everything, a lot of interests, and a seriously warped sense of humor, so the typical person tends to bore me. I think I could have gotten laid several times over if only I've had the patience to endure hours and hours of worthless small talk about sitcoms, celebrity news,
work gossip, and thoughts on the latest contrived pseudo philosophical movie over seven beers and five hours. I see a lot of this going on. The people that hang in there fare pretty well, sexually.
But I'm not much of a drinker, and the places where people go to talk about my type of movies, shows, and news (cafe's, Enzian theater, bookstores, etc) tend to be filled with couples.
I've had the "friendship zone" thrust upon me a couple times lately. It's not fitting. I shirked it for one girl but kept a friendship with the other because I felt we fit that role for each other better anyways.
Really, I'm over being a virgin. The low self esteem is gone, the anxiety that kept me indoors for so long is kaput, I'm done second guessing my self with women, and I have no hard time shunning a girl or telling her to go away if I think she's trying to play games. I'm no ones little metallic dog. I'm so over being a virgin, I'm even over the anxiety of being a virgin at 21 years of age. I'm constantly full of energy, upbeat, caring, adventurous, horny, and kinky as hell.
Why am I still a virgin? Dunno. Came close to losing it once, but that date ended with the girl crying because, surprise surprise, she was cheating on her boyfriend of seven months with me. And this was after I had already spent a considerable amount of time, thought, effort, and money planning said date. Pretty bad night all around really.
Still, I got my first few dates and kisses out of the girl. The kisses were pecks, but that still counts for somethin', eh? | |
|
| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 3/12/2007 5:44:10 PM | Virgin guys (mid 20's+) are a rarity. I have a friend who's about a year away from 30 and he's a virgin. However, he's gotten to 3rd base a handful of times, alongside a few stand-up doubles. He doesn't mind getting on base at all if he just meets a lady. I think once someone ends the college-days a virgin, you can expect them to be a virgin until they get into a serious long-term relationship.
I think what women have to worry about is that if the guy is older (mid-20's+) and still a virgin, it means that you won't be having sex for a long time... but if you don't mind sexual escapades except for actual sex for a long while, you can be in business. You'll be able to tell right away if the guy is a wierdo-virgin or just someone who's accustomed to keeping homeplate dust free.
As far as virgin guys not knowing how to do it... well, I think that's probably true with younger guys with no sexual ("relations") expertise. Remembering when I lost my virginity, it wasn't some cum-in-a-heartbeat situation at all. The difference of feeling (for all you virgin guys out there) compared to 'everything else' was much like the difference between a so-so blowjob and an awesome blow job. | |
|
| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 3/12/2007 5:56:54 PM | "Virgins are overrated. They don't last long, they don't know what they are doing. Men who sleep around can barley do it right. They cry mmm lets see... they are needy, need I say more?"
there are exceptions to every rule.... | |
|
| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 3/12/2007 6:58:23 PM | | i agree you wont die from not getting laid but going to 1s grave at 88 years old having never even hugged a member of the opposite sex they considered attractive much less had sex..im sorry but thats not ok...that is beyond horrible. | |
|
| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 3/12/2007 6:58:31 PM | | well u got problems miss lady because all of us were virgins at one time. it all depends on the person up brining like religeous belief,and u folks got to respect that.nowadays virgins are laughed at which is not funny.everyone just wanna have sex like crazy and not focusing more on a person ways and character.Get over it folks and be honest most of u folks just havinh sex because u dont want to be laughed at by your friends,u dont want to look like the soft one.But deep down are u folks satisfied and by the way do most people break up anyway because of arguments lack of communication,without it nothing works. | |
|
| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 3/13/2007 9:34:16 AM |
what is it with these threads, people are a virgin over a certain age and people post specifically to bash them and put them down :p
It is called enforcement of cultural norms via ridicule.
Michael | |
|
| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 3/13/2007 10:28:07 AM | | I'm always up for a challenge, but would only pass on my knowledge with someone who I was having a relationship with - I would n't want to start a school! | |
|
| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 3/13/2007 10:42:37 AM | Women are sexually selective and, generally speaking, drawn to the most attractive minority of men. This minority of men has it easy, whereas the majority of ordinary men have to work fairly hard to obtain sex, and there will, inevitably, be a sub-set of these men who rarely or never succeed sexually. It has nothing to do with male choice.
Male virgins are not as rare as some people here would claim, although they tend not to boast about it. Many men are forced to lose their virginities in brothels.
It was no co-incidence that one of the posters who expressed criticism of male virgins was called ‘Ms Picky’. Women have the right to be selective, but there are unfortunate consequences for others.
I was interested in a mention above of involuntary female celibacy: that really is a rarity. Where exactly is that thread? | |
|
| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 3/13/2007 10:49:54 AM |
Men who sleep around can barley do it right.
If they're doing in barley still, does that involve hops as well? Or are we talking a malted barley dried over peat fires that imparts a wonderful smokey flavor to the final product? | |
|
| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 3/13/2007 11:16:40 AM | | K, I had to jump on this...To all the virgins out there who want to wait for that special someone blah blah blah....you are missing out!...why?...You want that special someone to settle down with and all...I am all for that, but....when and if you do find that special someone and you have sex....it will not be the greatest the first time compared to when you get some real experience, and you can not deny that cause you just do not know, so using that excuse just does not make sense in reality ...another point I would like to make is another reason why women and some men do not want to date virgins is not only because of their lack of experience and being needy...it is also because further down the line if they were to date you and teach you the ropes...you will wonder what it's like to be with other people...not one woman or man is the same in bed...I say go for it and find that person to have sex with and build the experience so you can be a master in bed for the REAL special someone that you want to settle down with. | |
|
| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 3/13/2007 3:07:52 PM | | Londinium, it might be a thread (involuntary female celibacy) that could be started that you'd be surprised at the answers to. Just because it's easy enough for a woman to find sex if that's what she wants...doesn't mean it's easy to find a partner she has a suitable interest in... | |
|
Home
login 
