| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 3/29/2007 9:11:59 AM |
*shrugs* not much to say for me in this matter, i'm 21 almost 22 and still a virgin, all my friends look at my crazy like but I don't care. I'm not waiting for that special someone, or to get married and its got nothing to do with religion I'm just...still a virgin *shrugs again* I've got no shame in admitting that I am one and when the time comes it comes however where i'm from over here in my town its very hard to find a woman who isn't some rich spoiled girl and/or willing to look past the virgin part, ah well to each their own lol.
How does your family feel about you being a virgin?
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| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 12/15/2008 7:48:41 PM | Since making this thread, I met this guy, hung out with him for a bit, and slept with him. Afterwards, he thanked me, I asked him why, he said because he was a virgin. I was a complete shock, I didn't believe it at first. I started asking around and I got the same answer. Yes he was a virgin. He thought that if I knew that I would have nothing to do with him. Which I would have anyway, he was just shy, I hit on him.
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| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 12/15/2008 8:30:40 PM |
Since making this thread, I met this guy, hung out with him for a bit, and slept with him. Afterwards, he thanked me, I asked him why, he said because he was a virgin. I was a complete shock, I didn't believe it at first. I started asking around and I got the same answer. Yes he was a virgin. He thought that if I knew that I would have nothing to do with him. Which I would have anyway, he was just shy, I hit on him.
Here's the question, would you have liked him if you knew? Going by some of there posts I've seen here by others, seems to me that people like me are screwed, and not in the good way. I'm not a virgin, but I'm not really experienced either. | |
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Posted: 12/15/2008 8:49:36 PM | I dated a virgin once a few years back... I must say from my own personal experience, I'd do it again in a heartbeat. The fact that he didn't know anything about a woman's body allowed me to mold him to my wants and needs, not that he minded lol he was quite willin to explore, fascinated with my body, and extremely eager to learn. and boy did I have fun teachin him *blush* he turned out to be the best lover I've ever encountered, even to this day. I don't hunt virgins down, but after my one incredible experience I must say theres somethin really sexy about a man that has saved himself for just the right moment, and then offers it to you. I gotta admit though, maybe this is just from my own point of view... but I don't really feel like I'm the one who impacted his life, I feel like he's the one who impacted mine.
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Posted: 12/15/2008 9:26:52 PM | So questions:
I feel like there's as much of a stigma these days to being a female virgin as to being a male virgin. Would you men date a female virgin in her early 20s? What if she had a strong, independent personality?
Secondly, for those of you scared of dating virgins, is being a "technical virgin" anywhere near as serious as being a "total virgin"? Do you make a distinction there?
(Of course, maybe someone with a few short, failed relationships is a bigger red flag than someone with no experience whatsoever -I don't know... but what do you think?) | |
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Posted: 12/15/2008 9:28:08 PM | After perusing the thread and finding an a multitude of answers I found it slightly odd not to find exceptions to two points made.
If you're a 34 yr old virgin then you will more than likely handle sex like an 18 year old.True to an extent;if you've never had sex and never fallen in love or dealt with the woes of love rather love loss,then you'll handle sex like an 18 yr old.I think finding out what love is and is not truly braces one for the thralls of physical intimacy.
Second,if your a virgin after age 25 then one may rightfully question religious intent. I don't agree with that at all,being a 20 yr old virgin who has other virgin friends I can wholeheartedly tell you that religion has nothing to do with virginity and climbing of age.
Yes I know I know it may seem like I'm in some sort of Virgin club har har har.....Nope just a few of the interesting characters I've met along the walks of life.Cheers to the topic. | |
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Posted: 12/15/2008 10:01:02 PM | | It's not likely that I'd date a male virgin, simply because I doubt there's any around in my age range. If I happened to find one, I'd date him. Why wouldn't I? IF we got to the point where we wanted to take the relationship to the next level I'd be able to teach him what I want without having to worry about what everyone before me wanted. | |
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Posted: 12/16/2008 3:03:31 AM | | i'd love to date a virgin guy, but it's hard nowdays to find it one, at least not where i live | |
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Posted: 12/16/2008 6:37:18 AM | I have a male friend who is a virgin at 29 years. In the first 2 years I have known him, he never admitted that fact to me and always claimed that he did in fact sleep with one woman prior. Observing his actions and mannerisms around females, I always had my doubts about his experience (or lack thereof). A few months ago the truth came out and he admitted that he was a virgin after all, as I suspected, and further, he never kissed a girl before, or had a girlfriend. All I can say is the poor guy is going to have a super tough time gaining that life experience. The awkwardness, shyness and overall lack of confidence in that area I suspect will kill many, many, many chances for this guy to potentially find someone. Those qualities are inherently anti-seductive and anyone would be hard pressed to refute that fact. Its going to take a phenomenal kind of woman to teach someone to fly, when they can barely walk.  | |
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Posted: 12/16/2008 2:05:33 PM |
i'd love to date a virgin guy, but it's hard nowdays to find it one, at least not where i live
It's probably not all that hard to find them. Just find the guys that have trouble talking to you, look nervous, and can't look into your eyes. The chances they've never been laid increases by a hell of alot. | |
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Posted: 12/16/2008 2:15:12 PM | YIKES!!! I want a man who knows what he is doing and can take control in the sheets. JEEZ just the thought makes me quiver in my red boots. The idea of purity is amazing but the act itself would be so boring. Nope only real men for me!!!
 
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| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 12/16/2008 2:19:41 PM |
Nope only real men for me!!!
Your a real self-esteem boost. 
Even tho some of us haven't been laid, it doesn't mean we aren't men. It just hasn't happened.
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Posted: 12/16/2008 3:07:08 PM | You know you can get that from a virgin too. Their excitement from actually getting it makes them try harder. Yes, its true, they may finish early the first time, but the second round may last longer than YOU like. 
My virgin told me that he read a lot and methodically planned what he wanted to do when he got a woman. Believe me the books did his moves some good. Sometimes just a female showing interest is enough to spark the know-how.
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Posted: 12/16/2008 6:37:23 PM | | Usually this does not come up in the initial conversations...tends to come up after a few dates...truthfully if I really liked the guy it would not matter...It would not be a turn on or a turn off...If you have feelings for someone, intimacy comes somewhat naturally and the rest can be learned. | |
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Posted: 12/16/2008 6:44:46 PM | | Hmmm In many of your posts you claim to be a virgin WhiteTigress0107 . Now just how would you feel if men said the same thing about virgin females? Just because a man's a virgin don't necessarily mean he won't know what he's doing between the sheets. A very long time ago I dated two virgins, not at the same time. Shame on me, I was the first for both of them. The one, I had NO clue he was a virgin. The moves that boy could put on a girl, mmm. The second, yeah, I knew, but life was still good. Besides, if you're a virgin, and he's a virgin, you can learn together what you like. | |
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Posted: 12/16/2008 6:57:18 PM | I wouldn't even hesitate to say I'd exchange every single sexual act I've ever had (conception acts excluded of course), for 1 more night with my red hot virgin. Just thinkin about how eager he was to please me curls my toes. lol 6,7, sometimes 8 times a day... when they first get it, they can't get enough and mmm is it good when they're open minded like mine was ;)
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Posted: 12/16/2008 8:32:08 PM | I used to tell people I am a virgin by choice - no girl ever chose to sleep with me.
I did have a girlfriend once, but we met on the internet and lived 950 miles away, and we never got to meet in two years. Believe me, if we'd met in person I would no longer be a virgin. But, it didn't work out.
Does cyber and/or phone sex count as losing your virginity? Believe me... I know what I'd like to do... just haven't had an opportunity to do it.
It still depresses me to read things like "If I ended up like , I'd eat a bullet," or "Go hire a prostitute."
That doesn't appeal to me; even less so now. I'm 37, and don't want to engage in casual sex that isn't part of a long-term mutually-monogamous commitment. Not sure how I'd react to being offered "friends with benefits," because I don't have any single female friends of such temperament. | |
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Posted: 12/16/2008 11:59:08 PM | I'll be honest here. I'm 25 and I've never actually dated in any serious sense of the word. Naturally I haven't had sex. There are a number of reasons for this, but mostly because I was shy in high school and the first few years of college. I'm not shy anymore but I know that I'm lacking in experience.
But it doesn't bother me and I don't think it shouldn't bother anyone else in the same situation. I used to fret so much about not having any job experience until after I went to college and it was true, I couldn't get any interviews for summer jobs while my peers all seemed to be rolling in them. I did get a job eventually and became on of their best employees. This carried over to subsequent jobs as well. I look at this dating and sex business the same way. My lack of experience is going to hinder me at first but I will figure things out quickly. And then it's not going to be a problem anymore.
What I've noticed from reading this site is that a lot of people are very uncompromising. "This is a deal breaker, I don't want to have to deal with [...]". This topic is a good example. But the absolute statements that some of you make strikes me as odd. Maybe I am being naive, but I've always felt that human relationships are much more fluid than that and that there will always be give and take in any relationship. If you're so uncompromising at the outset with all these requirements, how compromising could you ever be once you get into a relationship? If someone were otherwise compatible with you but you've ruled them out because of some aspect of the person that is actually mutable, then are your criteria really optimal? | |
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Posted: 12/18/2008 6:58:37 AM | Honestly I have never dated one.....but...there may be some virgins that are better in bed then some of the so called " experienced" men that I have dated.....hey maybe I should give that one a try.....  | |
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Posted: 12/18/2008 7:44:08 AM | I think an experienced woman dating a male virgin would be a really good thing. As long as she was able to communicate with him, she could teach him to be an amazing lover. When I think back to my first time we were both virgins, (16) and all we knew was what we had read, seen, and heard. We were able to talk and laugh with each other through the whole thing and it was an wonderful experience, but there are times I had wished my first time would have been with a more mature and experienced woman. I guess the bright side of my first time was that I learned to talk and listen about what made her feel good, instead of that just stick it in and go as fast as you can teenage carnage. lol
I made it a habit from that point on to always ask what really got a girl hot, and really got off on knowing that she was enjoying herself. Which was a far cry from what most of the guys were doing with their girlfriends from what I understand. Seems the teenage guys from where I was from were only interested in busting a nut as fast as they could and thought that if they could get off in 3 minutes then so could she.
So once again, you experienced ladies out there that end up with virgin guys, take your time and make them into good lovers. You have a responsibly to your fellow women. :) | |
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Posted: 12/18/2008 7:56:33 AM | I think there's something to be said for "deflowering" a virgin...something kind of exciting about it, knowing that he would desire you more than anyone else in the world and be desperate to please you.
But the chances of me actually being attracted to a virgin are slim to none. Sad, but true. | |
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