| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 7/11/2009 12:02:54 AM | p.s.
I'm a virgin and I'm proud of it. When I meet my special someone it'll make it all the better. | |
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| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 11/2/2009 3:26:47 AM | | I am 26 and a virgin, three of my close friends are also virgins, they are 26, nearly 26 and 25, we are all men. | |
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| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 11/2/2009 6:01:10 AM | | Total myth that virgins suck, my first time I lasted 3 hours. And I wish I would have waited for the one | |
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| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 11/2/2009 11:20:39 AM | | Im pretty sure even if particular people feel they did well the first time on average virgins probably perform worse the first time due to lack of experience, so of course they may 'suck' the first time. | |
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| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 11/2/2009 5:28:09 PM | | I wouldn't mind to date a virgin woman.... so why the sexism ? | |
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| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 11/2/2009 5:54:51 PM | | I used to be a virgin. First time was no problem, it was what I expected. She said I was the best lover she had experienced. It's not like I didn't know what to do to turn her on or know her anatomy. | |
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| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 11/2/2009 6:46:26 PM | If you're worried about lasting, just remember to jack one off beforehand and read up on roal sex, think about it and remember the rules.
ANy guy can screw, not every guy can give good oral. | |
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| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 11/3/2009 2:26:22 PM | | It's no problem at all. My last ex of two and a half years was a virgin and I had no problem with it. I did indeed get a thrill of teaching him some things and he was a good little student haha. he was eager to learn. He turned out to be very good in bed because we both were very open about the topic of sex and discussed it when the time was right. We had excellent communication of our likes, dislikes, wants etc. I don't think I could be with someone who wants to wait for marriage though. I am young and I do enjoy sex with the right person and I feel to a degree, it is important. Also, dating a virgin leaves you one less thing to worry about- STI's. just my two cents. | |
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| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 11/3/2009 3:01:07 PM | | I don't really think it's a fair point of criticism. Personally, I would never have had sex with anyone if I hadn't put a lot of effort into it and, in retrospect, none of my past relationships were worthwhile. So, in all honesty, a bi-product of living life more wisely than I did would be virginity. Should I be faulted in that instance? Also consider that my other option would have been to pursue purely sexual relationships seeing as they would not have taken a toll on me emotionally, so are we advocating that now or what? | |
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| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 11/11/2009 5:55:36 PM | Oh how I need to get something off my chest after reading this entire thread. I am 23 years old and I still have yet to do the deed. Sometimes I wonder why I am still one and that I need to get out of my shell, but on the other hand, and most of the time at that, I am usually indifferent about it. I have dated one girl before and we didn't go far into the relationship because she had other things to worry about, not to mention a weird feeling about her being my first, but to this day, me and her are still friends. There was someone who liked me and asked me out and I accepted, but deep down, I didn't really return the favor. Guess how long that lasted? She even told me herself that she was looking for a real relationship and I don't count it as one, and she even told me that I had my chance at getting lucky.
However, I have a story to share about an embarassing moment involving a girl who seemed to have had a negative attitude about the fact that I haven't gone that far with a woman. About a year ago, I met this girl at a festival that my dad was working at and I was helping him. There was someone who for some reason drew my attention. I made an ass of myself when I tried talking to her, but was also being professional in regards to my dad's exhibit and gave her a business card. Next day, she e-mailed my dad to give me her number (Please, it was a very complicated thing to describe). Anyway, I talked to her a few times, but then one night, she asked me if I was a virgin because she believes that anybody who has confidence has done the deed. She asked me if I have ever dated anybody and such and felt that it was really weird that I was a virgin at 22 (This was last year). It's almost as if she believes that nobody's a virgin in their 20s. She even said that she wouldn't try with me, nor would her friends, because they'd rather have someone who "knows what they're doing". Also, she felt that I needed to get it done soon. I even thought she meant a hooker at first, and she was disgusted by that, but said that I meet a girl and date her and get far into it. Also, she even told me that I would only get confidence completely if I stick my hoo-hoo-dilly in a girl's cha-cha and it would change it. I personally don't believe that's true. I haven't talked to this girl in a while and I don't think I will anytime soon.
I may have been ribbed by friends of mine about how I don't get action much, and I don't mean sexual exploits, but acting on my attractions towards girls, because of my stoic attitude. But in reality, they're trying to help me, not put me down for it. | |
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| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 11/11/2009 7:59:15 PM | | I had a virgin once... I wasn't very impressed(only for the fact that he didn't let me know beforehand lol) There's nothing wrong with being a virgin by all means, i just don't like taking the time to teach. | |
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Posted: 11/11/2009 9:33:08 PM | | I know what you mean, but some people have to start somewhere. The thing that I fear is that if I date a girl and me and her get along well, and it gets to that point, she'll do a total 180 degree turn if she found out that I was a virgin. Is it expected for guys to have done it by 23? Would prostitutes be a good place to start? (Rhetorical question) | |
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Posted: 11/12/2009 7:22:18 PM | I wouldn't even let those "used up" chicks that couldn't even "TEACH" the male virgins bother you all!! Apparently, their coochie wasn't good enough but of course they will blame it on him for being a virgin!! ha ha!! I bet that male virgin the "female SEX VETS" couldn't teach had the best sex with the next few chicks!!
Guys that are virgins have to be fools to let those "USED GOODS" get to them for having something that they didn't have since they were early teens: Morals and no or limited sexual partners!! Even the "experienced" chicks probably isn't all that good either!! Stick to your beliefs and let the "DAMAGED DAMSELS" talk smack like they always do on here  | |
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| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 11/13/2009 2:18:46 AM |
I know what you mean, but some people have to start somewhere. The thing that I fear is that if I date a girl and me and her get along well, and it gets to that point, she'll do a total 180 degree turn if she found out that I was a virgin. Is it expected for guys to have done it by 23? Would prostitutes be a good place to start? (Rhetorical question)
You can see by some of the reactions here that some people are very unsympathetic to older male virgins so just don't tell her. Theres no law that says you have to tell your partner how many people you have had sex with and that goes if the number is zero or a thousand.
I was a late starter as well - I never said anything and she never guessed (I think haha)
Most guys are rubbish on their first time because they are usually 17 or 18 and haven't got a clue. Someone of your age will know a lot more about sex even if he hasn't actually done it. | |
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| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 11/13/2009 2:48:54 AM | Dating a virgin wouldn't put me off, We were all virgins once right?
It seems to me that sometimes guys are damned if they do and damned if they don't. If a guys slept around too much they're dodgy, if a guy hasn't they're dodgy.
If we've clicked on some level, him being a virgin really isn't going to be a deal breaker. As for it giving you the opportunity to 'teach' him what to do, I think I'd be more into the idea of helping him find what he likes. I know what I like...that could wait til later!
But at my age, I think the probability of meeting a virgin is quite low...but I wouldn't be put off by it if he was a nice guy. | |
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| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 11/13/2009 3:23:07 AM | There's something quite not right for males to be claiming to be a virgin...I mean most of them look pretty demure and stuff, and I believe 'em....like would that be considered a reward for a female suicide bomber? Is that the promise that they hold on to? A bunch of nerdy males in heaven in white robes that would most likely to prematurely ejaculate?
C'mon guys...admit it now. You're a virgin not by choice...go on...its gonna be ok... | |
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| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 11/14/2009 2:18:06 PM |
C'mon guys...admit it now. You're a virgin not by choice...go on...its gonna be ok...
Most aren't one by choice.
I'm 26 and not one by choice at all.
I see it as nothing to be proud of at all.
It sure isn't a moral thing. | |
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| Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 11/14/2009 4:02:31 PM | | I dont think anyone wants to go back to the teen years, they were very awkward times. | |
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