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 damassteel

Joined: 7/22/2009
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Does anyone use the art of seduction or mystery method on dates?
Posted: 11/6/2009 11:07:33 AM

What I find amusing is the number of women who are absolutely revolted by the thought of men studying anything that might alter the power equation.

Tell the truth man...tell it.
That is IT as far as I'm concerned. Heaven forbid men should get tools that give them and edge, or at least make things more level, in ordinary heterosexual interactions.

Old greek tale of Hera the wife of Zeus sending some minor diety down to earth on a mission to find out which sex had the better pleasures from lovemaking. He appeared as a man and again as a woman and after experiencing lovemaking as both, returned to Mount Olympus to report his findings. He reported that it was the woman. He was immediately struck dumb and blind by Hera so that he would never again repeat his findings. Greek Mythology had it nailed.
 Vannili

Joined: 7/8/2008
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Does anyone use the art of seduction or mystery method on dates?
Posted: 11/6/2009 1:33:50 PM
tuffluv : Thanks now I got the drift.
When I was young and a dancer getting into show biz, all kinds of men hits on me,you name it, all the kind of men in the book....

But I am the one who hits the guy I want to go out with, to be seen with him. At that time money is not a problem for a guy,they would be happy to take you to any 5 star restaurant for prestige. When I was on break in a club,I just sit down sipping my water colored with a dashed of coca cola,,,, 2 waiters are on my payroll discreetly ,to talk to a guy ,flagging me that I am a nice girl lalalala, so a single rose or a drink will sent to me. And comes the introduction and chatting, I was shy ,charming and have sense of humor.. Maybe that is my mystery method. Some of my co dancer beautiful girls are fuming with anger ,why a gorgeous hunk man would want to date a dumb horseface like me,lol. When they flirt high to heaven and even buy the guy's drinks and those guys are not enterested...
 TuffLuv1984

Joined: 9/2/2009
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Does anyone use the art of seduction or mystery method on dates?
Posted: 11/6/2009 1:53:13 PM
Damas, I'm not revolted by guys learning social skills. About time they did. Its like the force though... can be used for good or evil.
 damassteel

Joined: 7/22/2009
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Posted: 11/6/2009 2:34:58 PM
^^^^ I saw your earlier posts, you're one of the few women who get what the skills are alll about.
 TuffLuv1984

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Does anyone use the art of seduction or mystery method on dates?
Posted: 11/6/2009 3:10:34 PM
Right, they are to even the scales between guys who are so smokin' hot women throw themselves at their feet with the guys who perpetually get no love. Even Neil Strauss on an interview on the red carpet said.... this book is for the nerds and the dweebs who need that leg up.

Being playfully negged by a guy who is slightly dorky himself is waaaay different than being negged by someone who clearly could be in a GQ magazine. One is funny and flirty...the other makes you wanna go home and cry.
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