| A friend of mine is cheating on his pregnant wife....
Posted: 6/7/2008 10:24:17 AM | | Leave her an anonymous note in her mail box..name names so she can see for herself who it is...let her know. If hes sleeping around, that could be unsafe for their unborn baby. Have you seen what STD's Do to an unborn child? It is your place to be a friend to her and her unborn child. You just have to be creative how you let her know. Do the right thing. | |
|
| A friend of mine is cheating on his pregnant wife....
Posted: 6/7/2008 10:29:59 AM | | If you are his friend, then be a friend. Tell him what you know and ASK HIM what he is thinking. IT IS YOUR PLACE. Maybe you can open his eyes and prevent this disaster from going even further. You shouldn't sit there blindly and confess to being this dawg's friend. I hate to sound cliche, but honestly, if YOU don't intervene before the sh*t hits the fan, would you like yourself any better knowing you didn't even try? | |
|
| A friend of mine is cheating on his pregnant wife....
Posted: 6/7/2008 10:35:10 AM | | Honestly who actually does that? I think you need to say something to him and let him know you do not approve. Men will never stop this incredibly selfish behavior unless those they consider peers make it hard for them. Not even mentioning the fact that he could be bringing home an STD for his wife! | |
|
| A friend of mine is cheating on his pregnant wife....
Posted: 6/7/2008 10:40:25 AM |
Why is it that People when they hear or read about Polygamy, they think its a MORMON thing??
The Fundamentalist Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints (FLDS Church) is one of the largest Mormon fundamentalist denominations and one of America's largest practitioners of plural marriage.
hm...seems to me you answered your own question...
A mormon fundamentalist is still a mormon right? | |
|
| |
| A friend of mine is cheating on his pregnant wife....
Posted: 6/7/2008 11:04:13 AM | Bikeman, I read what you said in Msg. 13.....and now we both know how many people simply post without reading....It would be very funny, if it were not so sad.
Now we may never know how it will end....but then again, I will....She WILL find out!
I did....and, I appreciate the people who knew and told me so that I could prepare for the rest of my life......
KK | |
|
| A friend of mine is cheating on his pregnant wife....
Posted: 6/7/2008 11:11:31 AM | lol kitten.....I reinterated that the OP is gone in msg 20 and 24.............
It doesn t seem to matter,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,too funny................ | |
|
| A friend of mine is cheating on his pregnant wife....
Posted: 6/7/2008 11:13:52 AM | The funny part is his wife is way better looking than the woman he's cheating with.
That is usually the case--you gotta scrape the bottom of the barrel to find a women that will date a man who supports his family and she is just for an extra fukin.
Hopefully he doesn't catch anything--if he is having sex with his pregnant wife still there are std's that are very dangerous for fetuses. | |
|
| A friend of mine is cheating on his pregnant wife....
Posted: 6/7/2008 11:57:32 AM | | Some men feel neglected when their partners are pregnant and it may just been the reason why he is doing this...she may have gone off sex or feel that he shouldn't bother her with sex. It may carry on after the baby is born as he wont be getting much attention then and unfortunatly men like to feel needed... | |
|
| A friend of mine is cheating on his pregnant wife....
Posted: 6/7/2008 12:28:44 PM |
What kind of man runs around on a woman who is pregnant with their first child anyway?
The kind that is your friend.
You can judge the character of people by the company that they keep.
Oh, and I don't think that there is a "funny part"...
This is just sad and tragic.
OP, how would you feel if your wife was cheating on you and her friend, whom you know, knows about it.
Would you want to be told?
This is not even taking into consideration of possible STDs risk.
Read some of the women's posts and do the right thing.
 | |
|
| A friend of mine is cheating on his pregnant wife....
Posted: 6/7/2008 12:49:38 PM | I havn't read all the responses on the forum, but I stopped reading when again the OP said it was none of his business!
well if it's none of your business, why are you airing their dirty laundry on this forum?
you are looking for what, from the responses on this forum? seeing you are not about to do anything in response to his behaviour!
To cut a long story short...
I was pregnant, my ex went and cheated on me and gave me an STD. Med's to clear it up would of either killed the baby, made the baby vegetable state or would of killed me!!! so....I lost the baby and had to get sterilsed!
They don't need you as a friend! friends don't sit back, when shit could hit the fan. They try to help!
In my response, I would advise you explaining the risk to the guy, as well as to the women he is seeing!
I would hate the wife to lose the baby as I did, and you also have the knowledge that you sat back and knowing that maybe you could have changed that situation!!
I DID SAY MAYBE!!!
but as I said that is your choice. sad as it may. | |
|
| |
| A friend of mine is cheating on his pregnant wife....
Posted: 6/7/2008 1:06:46 PM |
The say all-end all comes down to "who is putting out?"
it's obvious his wife isn't. she loses!
Frankaland I had to check to see if you had kids and since you don't I guess (as I vomit in my mouth) that gives you a pass on the ignorance of this statment...
She is pregnant for pete sake, but that isn't to say she isn't putting out... Maybe he's turned off by her expanding body, and doesn't want to have sex with her...
Do you think it is possible to have a child without your body changing????
A good portion of pregnant women have hormonal surges of extreme horniness, so saying she wasn't putting out is a really lousy thing to say...
Dude when you get married it does say "foresaking all others" that is a commitment, not just when ya eel like it...
As for Steve the disappearing op...
I can tell you saying anything to the wife will BLOW up in your face... I would have a major sit down with your friend though and ask him what the hell he's thinking... That is if you are really truly good friends...
I learned the hard way to NEVER get involved with the SO and tell them stuff, even if THEY are the good friend of yours... I did and it blew up in my face...
You are his friend from childhood, and let him know that he is setting himself up for a life time of hurt and for his unborn child as well, is NOT over stepping your bounds, but rather letting him know as a friend that he is not just hurting his wife, but a whole lot of people including himself...
It isn't a matter of judgment but rather of concern... What he does past that is his choice...
Good luck... | |
|
| A friend of mine is cheating on his pregnant wife....
Posted: 6/7/2008 1:07:30 PM |
Some men feel neglected when their partners are pregnant and it may just been the reason why he is doing this...she may have gone off sex or feel that he shouldn't bother her with sex. It may carry on after the baby is born as he wont be getting much attention then and unfortunatly men like to feel needed...
Until these men grow up they shouldn't be having children. | |
|
| A friend of mine is cheating on his pregnant wife....
Posted: 6/7/2008 1:12:15 PM | | My suggestion is if you have her phone number, buy a phone card & call her from a pay phone & tell her anonymously. She needs to know so she can address it. It will not come back on you. Would you like to know if it was happening to you? | |
|
| A friend of mine is cheating on his pregnant wife....
Posted: 6/7/2008 1:18:30 PM | | Men dont cheat because someone else looks better than the other person. From what I've heard... what your friend is doing isnt uncommon because of the attention and sometimes jealousy involved in a new baby's arrival. Regardless of that, no man deserves the wife or baby who would stoop so low to do something like this. | |
|
| A friend of mine is cheating on his pregnant wife....
Posted: 6/7/2008 1:21:27 PM | | This would be a very bad thing for you to do. You might just have to people that never want to see or talk with you again. Can you be absolutely 100% sure he is fooling around and do you know for sure that his wife does not let him do it. What is your intention? To help her or get him? I had a friend and I knew his wife was fooling around. I did not say anything and not long after that they broke up. I am still friends with him. If I had of said something I can not be sure I would still be friends. Ask what you want by telling her the news that her husband is fooling around. | |
|
| A friend of mine is cheating on his pregnant wife....
Posted: 6/7/2008 1:59:38 PM | OK.....WE ALL SHOULD KNOW BY NOW THE OP IS GONEEEEEEEEEE
So this is directed at the stupidity of the men who think maybe the husband isnt getting any and gets a free pass to look somewhere else. Just to educate you a little if thats possible. Some women have a hard time with pregnancy. Maybe she had a previous miscarriage that puts her at high risk. Therefor the Dr.s have told her to cease intercourse until after the baby.
Sad state when a man cant take care of himself for a couple of months without going outside the marriage. Shows a real level of immaturity. So I'm sure with your thinking, should you get a stubborn infection and the urologist tells you to cease having sex for a couple of weeks or months, your wife has permission to do the same...........
Just so we know
PEACE | |
|
| A friend of mine is cheating on his pregnant wife....
Posted: 6/7/2008 2:17:13 PM | | i agree with loz. the wife has the right to know. what if this girl he is messing with has a disease and he brings it and gives it to her? i say tell her for the safety of her and the baby! wouldnt you like to know if you are being two timed? i think so! | |
|
| A friend of mine is cheating on his pregnant wife....
Posted: 6/7/2008 2:29:53 PM | | this "guy" is a d!ck, rat him out, she deserves much better than that piece of sh!t, what a looser. And think of when she does find out, which she will in time, and she discovers that you knew and said nothing. Loose the "friend" and tell her, even if it's anonymously, she deserves to know before he brings home something she can't get rid of or worse. | |
|
DazzyB
|
Joined: 10/9/2006
Msg: 46 | |
| A friend of mine is cheating on his pregnant wife....
Posted: 6/7/2008 3:16:41 PM | Ok, my thoughts and opinions!...
When's the baby due?? I ask that for 2 reasons...
1) I'd tell him that I would have nothing to do with him unless he changes his ways and,
2) I'd tell her AFTER the baby was born if he didn't. Poor girl!! Let her find someone descent or at least give her a chance to try and rectify things with him.
Some blokes are just b******ds! Would never be a mate of mine. A$$hole! | |
|
| |
| |
| A friend of mine is cheating on his pregnant wife....
Posted: 6/8/2008 5:56:06 AM | It's very interesting to see what people are posting. I sometimes wonder if, after some of these messages, the poster realizes what they have just revealed to the world about THEMSELVES. And, you're on a dating site. I'm thinking you are interested in meeting someone with whom you will be compatible?
I can't help thinking that, as a result of their thoughts and their words, they have shown ME very clearly, that they definitely would NOT be compatible with me
What you folks say,goes a long way in determining your eligibility for partnership. Who knows, perhaps a few prefer to say what they want to say, how they want to say it and just don't care what anyone thinks....That, too, is o.k. with me..
Just MY thoughts.
KK | |
|
| A friend of mine is cheating on his pregnant wife....
Posted: 6/8/2008 6:19:48 AM | | Hi if you know he is cheeting on her tell her. That happened to me i found out so i told the so call friend of mine that he had a week to tell his partner or i would she found out that day. Thay were to married that same year so tell her. | |
|
Home
login 
