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| A friend of mine is cheating on his pregnant wife....
Posted: 6/8/2008 5:56:06 AM | It's very interesting to see what people are posting. I sometimes wonder if, after some of these messages, the poster realizes what they have just revealed to the world about THEMSELVES. And, you're on a dating site. I'm thinking you are interested in meeting someone with whom you will be compatible?
I can't help thinking that, as a result of their thoughts and their words, they have shown ME very clearly, that they definitely would NOT be compatible with me
What you folks say,goes a long way in determining your eligibility for partnership. Who knows, perhaps a few prefer to say what they want to say, how they want to say it and just don't care what anyone thinks....That, too, is o.k. with me..
Just MY thoughts.
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| A friend of mine is cheating on his pregnant wife....
Posted: 6/8/2008 6:19:48 AM | | Hi if you know he is cheeting on her tell her. That happened to me i found out so i told the so call friend of mine that he had a week to tell his partner or i would she found out that day. Thay were to married that same year so tell her. | |
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| A friend of mine is cheating on his pregnant wife....
Posted: 6/8/2008 8:32:32 PM | | Some of the posts I have read on this thread are down right pathetic! What ever happened to chivalry i.e. doing the right thing as a husband and future father!!! This man (in all do respect, he is your friend) is a pathetic miserable S.O.B.!!!! Is this the state of America?? Oh, I forgot Grand Theft Auto 4 the largest selling game in video game history..I was deployed on many occasions to some rather exotic places (full of beautiful women) in the military, could have had many a liason...I never cheated, in respect and love for my (then) wife, the mother of my child, and of course my son! No one should support this man, and in fact it is your buisness...If he is capable of this, what further harm can he do to his family in the future? A man cheating on his pregnant wife, (who needs him to be a HUSBAND) that is about to give him the greatest gift on earth is the lowest of scum, the stuff that lines a dirty toilet bowl..Tell her, you will feel good that you did in time... | |
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| A friend of mine is cheating on his pregnant wife....
Posted: 6/8/2008 10:08:45 PM | My friend is about to give birth. At her 8th month, she walked in on her husband in bed with another woman. Turns out a lot of people knew and didn't tell her. Now she feels like an idiot and she really hates all those people who didn't tell her. She got a divorce and is happy she knew before he could come back to have sex with her and bring her HIV or anything else - and before the other woman could get pregnant and trap the man, taking away some of her assets and ruining them financially.
The one who is cheated on is always the last to know - and it shouldn't be this way. How would you feel if everyone was feeling sorry for you and pitying what a dumbass you are for not knowing what others do? What if he brings back a disease for his wife and baby? The truth hurts, but it's always better to know it. | |
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| A friend of mine is cheating on his pregnant wife....
Posted: 6/8/2008 10:31:35 PM | geezus, after reading the replies to the OP's post, I now know why I have never posted a question. By the way he was not gossiping, nor did he have a dilema. I thought he was simply asking why would a man risk all by cheating and the fact that the wife is pregnant.
Lighten up and quit jumping down his throat! | |
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| A friend of mine is cheating on his pregnant wife....
Posted: 6/9/2008 5:37:57 AM |
Guess the man who cheats on his pregnant wife with, what you know,is no better than the woose that winges to a forum about it
Ok, that's about the stupidest thing I've read in a long time. | |
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| A friend of mine is cheating on his pregnant wife....
Posted: 6/9/2008 5:58:12 AM | Heren:
We "hear" you, but....
"I think this is a pretty rotten thing to to do to his wife. I'm not saying a word to either one of them about it "
This is part of his first statement...true, it wasn't gossiping, but, perhaps he did have a dilemma, simply because he felt he had to ask...
As far as asking why someone would take that risk, if he REALLY wanted to know the answer, wouldn't he have asked his "friend"? I have read every post, and, I didn't think everyone was jumping down his throat...not everyone knows the best words to get their thoughts across.
However, it looks to me like most people felt that, as a "friend", he would not be out of place discussing it with him. And, I doubt you will find many people who are in favor of his wife being placed in a position to have harm come to her or the baby, as the result of her husband's clandestine activities.
As to "lighten up", I certainly hope that you are not, someday, in the same position. It's not a "light" matter. As a matter of fact, when it happened to me, it totally changed my life, and, I chose NOT to continue any "friendships" with people who knew about it and said nothing to me. I don't think of them as friends.
There are many valid reasons for what people have said here. That's what happens when one asks a question on an open forum. Yes, bashing sometimes happens, but in this case, I think it was kept to a minimum. It's perfectly alright if you never ask a question on here, AND, also perfectly alright for you to give your opinion when answering questions asked by anyone else. That's what forums are all about.
If you ever have a dilemma, go ahead, ask a question. You just might get some good information with which to come up with an answer. You are under no obligation to accept answers given by others. Some are sincere; others respond for "effect".
Mine, are from the Heart...I know no other way.
Sincerely,
Knittin Kittenjavascript:smilie(' ')
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| A friend of mine is cheating on his pregnant wife....
Posted: 6/9/2008 6:35:07 AM | Knittin_Kitten I agree with you. Rants and raves are going high and low here, and I also see no second thoughts making people question themselves, whether they're shooting themselves on the feet.
We are the designers of our destiny.
As for the question of one friend witnessing the other friend cheating on his pregnant wife, well, I keep my opinion. We're are not in place to judge anyone or act in their behalf. Carefully approach the "friend" first and let him know you're about to blow his dirt and immature games.
BTW, could be that you're interested in your friend's pregnant wife and came here to gather motivational stories and ideas to blow their relationship, in order for you to get the chance to get her? Everything is possible... It is just a thought...(too)
Anyways, be wise... be prepared...  | |
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| A friend of mine is cheating on his pregnant wife....
Posted: 6/9/2008 6:41:57 AM | Firstly I think you are right to stay out of it completely this is between the two of them. You never know, she may know already.
Secondly when someone cheats it isnt always for better in our eyes. He has his reasons and it probably isnt cos he finds the other woman better looking. There could be a whole host of problems in their relationship (the marrige). Im not condoning it one bit. Hes a good for nothin scumbag for doing it and gettin his rocks off elsewhere. | |
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| A friend of mine is cheating on his pregnant wife....
Posted: 6/9/2008 6:49:59 AM | | If you do not say something to this guys wife, you will be doing yourself and her a very big disfavor. she deserves to know this, cheating is never acceptable, why would you condone such behaviour? or better yet, there is a tv show called cheaters, call them and have them do it for her...:) | |
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| A friend of mine is cheating on his pregnant wife....
Posted: 6/9/2008 10:42:10 AM | Doesn't anyone have any feelings towards the health of the mother to be, AND the unborn baby....Try to overlook the infidelity and simply make a comment on that...At least that will give us an idea of what you're thinking and why?
Even if it's not for others to make judgment, what IS your involvement if you simply stand by and possibly allow a medical tragedy to occur....unbeknown to the mother to be and the unborn? A good case for , "AM I MY BROTHER'S KEEPER?"
There probably is no right or wrong answer, in this case....to me, the damage is already done .....but, next is the thought of how to minimize it, maybe! I can't help wondering how you, as a friend, can stand by WITHOUT at least talking to your friend. But, maybe the word, "friend" to me, means more than someone just to hang out with?
Just my thoughts.
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