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singer James

Joined: 3/3/2008
Msg: 51

plump women why we are so over looked?guys look a bit harder you will be amazed what she is like ins Posted: 6/13/2008 5:40:04 PM
just cause we may have a few extra pounds does not mean we are lazy.by far i am very active! so why is it so hard to meet some one that will accept us for our size?that will not just look at the out side but the inside of a person .my friends call me very lovable,sensitive ,funny and silly,genuion,plesent to be with and full of spunk.so what is wrong with that why just size counts? Don't you mean "why won't someone I'm physically attracted to accept me despite my size?" Yawn. If looks were not important to you, you would not be single. It's that simple. You are clearly a hypocrite, as is any single person who asks this sort of question. NEXT.

thatswhatshesaid

Joined: 12/28/2007
Msg: 52

plump women why we are so over looked?guys look a bit harder you will be amazed what she is like ins Posted: 6/14/2008 11:26:06 AM
^^^^^I think singer James is on to something. I think maybe you are not going with the flow. Perhaps you are unwittingly rejecting or discouraging guys who are attracted to you, in favor of some ideal guy you have in your own mind. You're quite pretty and if you are funny and nice to be around, I'm sure someone is interested in you, but maybe you just haven't noticed, because you're looking for a guy who fits a certain stereotype himself. YOU have to really accept yourself and your body type before you can demand that your future/hypothetical boyfriend does the same. Criticizing anonymous, on-line guys for not liking heavier women doesn't change the fact that YOU need to learn to appreciate a heavier woman first; find your own femininity and learn to cultivate the interest of the guys who naturally prefer your body type. Who is it you are really trying to convince with this post that you are attractive? Is it singer James? Or is it you? If you can do that, you will find it easier and natural to be interested in guys that are interested in you. You won't always dream about being liked by precisely the guys that are NOT into you.

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