| Anyone else into hugging?
Posted: 6/9/2008 3:35:04 PM | As far as I know, pretty much everyone likes and need lots of hugs (I know I do). I suppose some people don't give great hugs right away because they are just not the touchy-feely type but I think most don't because, for them, hugging connotes a serious display of affection and they just don't feel that right away when they meet someone new. They may turn out to be great huggers once the affection is there.
To reply specifically to the OP, though, if a woman refuses to hug you on a date, she probably either a) is not attracted to you, b) does not feel the necessary level of affection yet, or c) thinks you only want to cop a cheap feel to get your jollies. And, based on your last post, c) might be highly likely. | |
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| Anyone else into hugging?
Posted: 6/9/2008 5:32:17 PM | | I love hugging! And I really miss that a lot. But I'm not going to hug a complete stranger just because I don't have anyone to hug. | |
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| Anyone else into hugging?
Posted: 6/9/2008 6:25:09 PM | I hate hugging, I hate that it is the norm in society, I hate that people just expect that they can hug you if they want to.
I find hugging to be a very inimate thing and therefore, there are only a few people that I would hug if I had the choice.
For me, having someone ask for a hug is equivalent to having someone ask if they can grab my boob. Unfortunatley it is unacceptable to say no to a hug and when you do, it immediatley lables you as having boundary issues.
Why does everyone always need to be touching everyone? Isn't it more special if only select people can touch you? | |
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| Anyone else into hugging?
Posted: 6/9/2008 6:53:57 PM | Share the hugs! Seriously a good hug can make the worst days seem like nothing, when I get home after a rotten day, a hug can lift my spirit fairly high...I agree that hugging is an intimate thing at times, I don't hug strangers very often lol. But I do think human beings are physical creatures that crave to be touched. Its a way of showing 'acceptible' gestures of caring and compassion in many societies... | |
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| Anyone else into hugging?
Posted: 6/9/2008 7:49:54 PM | i love hugs! feeling someone's energy up so close, smelling them, chests pressed together.... its an amazing and beautiful thing.
google - you should hang out at music festivals and follow around the people with FREE HUGS signs.... or better yet, make your own sign and go hug hug hug your brains out!
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| Anyone else into hugging?
Posted: 6/9/2008 8:13:15 PM | I always envied cultures that express greetings with a hug and or a double kiss. Even the men. Seems to me they're more well adjusted and personable.
On another note here in North America I've herd of groups where people pay $45 bucks to get in on a group hug for an hour or so with a bunch of strangers. Next you know people will want $10 to shake their hand! | |
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| Anyone else into hugging?
Posted: 6/9/2008 8:16:35 PM | | i like to walk up behind my girl and almost put her in a headlock... but not quite. Sort of a caveman-ish kind of hug. I try not to get my arm completely across her boobs if we're in public, but there's usually a little of that. | |
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| Anyone else into hugging?
Posted: 6/9/2008 9:21:55 PM | You're so silly...
Hugs are sweet terms of endearment, and lovin on your honey dripper in public without being obnoxious is perfect. Now groping those hands deep into pockets and such like a dive bomber might be just what the doctor ordered for you, but might scare Jesus away.
(I did not say that-really...) | |
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| Anyone else into hugging?
Posted: 6/9/2008 9:45:30 PM | | I enjoy giving and receiving hugs. Makes a person feel pretty good when you get one and there just seems to be something to be said about the power of a good hug. | |
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| Anyone else into hugging?
Posted: 6/10/2008 7:43:45 PM | SARSSS, I don't think you will be messing with my hair.
Hugging and affection in general is great. That and great conversation is what I miss the most. | |
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| Anyone else into hugging?
Posted: 6/10/2008 9:09:51 PM | | Hugging is awesome. I hug, even my platonic female friends. Is there something sexual to it? Maybe, maybe not. Depends on circumstances. But I would not say I have a fetish for it or anything. I would like a hug :) | |
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| Anyone else into hugging?
Posted: 6/10/2008 9:59:41 PM | | Infantile and Andy Kaufman-ish (I liked that comparison). And the responses are all so adorable. (Please inflect dry sarcasm in previous sentence). | |
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| Anyone else into hugging?
Posted: 6/13/2008 8:10:55 AM |
Maybe I'm a little bit crazy, but sometimes I just like to do a hug with a girl. It's even better when we do a hug in public. I'm getting pretty frustrated with dating though because it's pretty damn hard to find a girl that will do hugs. I thought that society was slowly becoming more liberal and accepting of people like me who are into extremely kinky behavior like hugging, but I just don't see it.
A hug,taken as the normally innocent act it should be,would not be described as kinky.Hugging for the pure sake of unloading in your trousers is more likely described as dry-humping in the standing mode and not everyones cup of tea.Just make sure you aren't wearing khakis when you are out on your adventures.Not a good image. | |
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| Anyone else into hugging?
Posted: 6/13/2008 8:15:47 AM | I agree hugs are great, especially the hug-from-behind when you can grab a little boobage......  | |
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| Anyone else into hugging?
Posted: 6/13/2008 9:50:20 AM | | if you're having trouble finding women to hug you might try deodorant and breath mints. | |
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| Anyone else into hugging?
Posted: 6/14/2008 3:41:48 PM | Hugging Porn LOL I googled it just to see, and not alot came up.
With me, I am so used to hugs from guys it is nothing new. Maybe it was because I was well-endowed young. But most of my guy friends when I worked at an amusement park refused to say hello or good bye without a hug. Maybe I just never saw anything sexual in it because my close group of female friends hug alot too.
When it comes to a significant other, I think a hug is so much better than holding hands. It is like a big sign that says WE ARE HAPPY. And it makes me feel safe, secure, and warm and tingly inside :) | |
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| Anyone else into hugging?
Posted: 6/14/2008 4:46:24 PM | I also like to dance up close and tight and rub up on eachother...................
thats like hugging......................................right??????????
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