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 mthomjmark

Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 51
Dating a Separated Guy
Posted: 6/22/2008 11:24:25 AM
A seperated person is still married. I see some that are seperated for years and that is irresponsible in my mind.

He's legally married so that means if marriage is in your sites he can't be until; and thats if; he gets divorced.

I think some people are so desperate to find love they will talk themselves into anything. His life is a mess. Train wreck. Dont get on board for the ride. Seperated means married.
 Sweetstothesweet

Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 52
Dating a Separated Guy
Posted: 6/22/2008 11:55:05 AM
I tend to stay away from seperated men. But on the same hand, my husband and I seperated in 2002 and finally divorced in 2006. Our seperation was final, and there was never a thought to getting back together. There just was no need for a complete divorce, since neither planned on remarriage, or had a long term relationship. So, I would say it really depends on the circumstance.
 GotFin

Joined: 5/1/2008
Msg: 53
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Dating a Separated Guy
Posted: 6/22/2008 12:10:01 PM

There just was no need for a complete divorce, since neither planned on remarriage, or had a long term relationship.


As you can see from the messages posted here, most people don't seriously consider your marriage 'over' until your divorce, so to say 'there is no need to for a complete divorce' is simply not true. There are also legal implications if your spouse does something bad or stupid, which makes you a bad prospect for a relationship while still married.

And, all of this aside, I think ALL of us have heard women say they'll NEVER get back together with their ex, and a week later they do.
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