| Why do we men have this incessant urge to check women out?
Posted: 6/9/2008 11:25:51 PM | | Look.. let her know you appreciate her form... hey if she is married or not interested at least she knows she is attractive! Just don't stare after she has noticed your glance and turned you down... and carrying a "business card" isn't so bad... I mean how is it much different then POF? | |
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| Why do we men have this incessant urge to check women out?
Posted: 6/10/2008 12:37:38 AM | a buisness card works. but it seems to much in the side of order
attraction is chaos in order after all. this is why i whould not date someone who has there life together to the t, and all the developed worlds possessions at there fingertips. perhaps someone who enjoys a simple life for what it is. why wear makeup with all the hassle that goes into it, and money spent. when your face without makeup probly looks a ton better. i do glance, but to stare is another thing, and instead of staring at someones chest, stare into there eyes, you will know MUCH more about a person that way | |
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| Why do we men have this incessant urge to check women out?
Posted: 6/10/2008 11:14:41 PM | "Fun Crazy..if you had already got a smile then your follow up (making sure you held a cheeky grin on your face) wold most probably raise a giggle I would think."
"To those who have mentioned about the uncomfortableness...just to point out..the odd glance is fine..I'm talking about those who stare hard and fluff themselves up around you for the entire journey..anything from 5 minutes to 20 minutes...that is too much..and yeah it's a shame that some guys do that.
There's no way I would ever say something to them..you never know what they might do....I just get out of the station as quickly as possible when I get to my stop. When I'm alone and in an area I don't know very well I don't hang around."
I don't know how to do the quote boxes...............So what's above is the quote!!
Funny you should post that one Blue. When I wrote the previous post last night, I was thinking strictly during the day time. However this eve I rode the train in the late pm (unusual for me and it's been awhile too) and actually got to thinking what it must be like for a female alone at night. I would have a much harder time offering anything more than that "not even realize you looked until you looked" quick glance in fear that I may just plain old frighten her. After all even though I'm a big bulk of handsomeness in the daylight....... I might look like a big scary oaf at night :) | |
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| Why do we men have this incessant urge to check women out?
Posted: 6/10/2008 11:34:40 PM | ^^^then all respect to you for actually thinking about that. 
On the tube it's restricted, not easy to get away if you are concerned..not only that but for instance one time a few weeks ago there was one guy puffing himself up in front of me, another guy sitting opposite staring like a mad man and did not avert his eyes for the whole trip and another guy to me side who was eyeing me up and down too.
In that situation I wouldn't have felt confident saying anything to any of them as I was a bit surrounded. In hindsight the only person who might have eased the situation was teh friend of the guy who was puffing himself up..I could see that he was amused by his friend's actions.
I was wearing jeans and a top and trainers, had already travelled for about an hour and a half, wasn't dressed up for a night out and wasn't showing flesh either.
If a woman is actually really worried and in this situation who is she likely to turn to? The three guys staring at her or the one guy reading his paper? | |
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| Why do we men have this incessant urge to check women out?
Posted: 6/11/2008 10:42:05 AM | I think it's human nature to look at someone or something pleasant looking to our eyes, whether it is a nice tree, a cool building, a car, or yes, a nice looking person. I am always looking..and my neck is a lil sore now that it is summer! But, I never (at least I try not to) give off that " I'm staring at you" vibe. I think that creeps women out and can't blame them. I think a look, maybe even two or three if out in public, then the other person gets the idea that he/she is being noticed as attractive. Any stare longer than about 5-10 seconds can be pretty eerie..maybe he is imagining what you look like chopped up into 500 pieces. I think just looking and noticing is perfectly natural.
I also have no problem if my wife, gf, or significant other happens to notice a good looking guy. I am not a fan of jealousy and why is it my place to tell someone else, even if she is in a relationship with me, what to look at? I would think her to be more odd if she didn't notice a hot guy now and then! | |
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| Why do we men have this incessant urge to check women out?
Posted: 6/11/2008 8:28:16 PM | | Maybe because at some level you are exploring her suitability as a mate. Looking can be a form of mental 'touching' and we all know that touching tends to lead to more. At some deep unconscious level, the longer your eyes dwell on the woman, the more likely it is you will bond with her, in fantasy if not reality. | |
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