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 Hemiguy04

Joined: 11/14/2008
Msg: 251
why dont most men keep it trimmed ??
Posted: 12/7/2008 4:36:12 PM
Some men do not keep it trimmed because of going to the gym. Most mens gyms have "open" showers and talking about your trim job doesn't go over well in those places. I personally keep mine trimmed close up top and shaved below. Sure you get a couple of glances in the shower, but the few times guys have made a comment I just tell them that the girl I'm with prefers it this way and I love the extra attention she gives me!
 manimal123

Joined: 3/5/2007
Msg: 252
why dont most men keep it trimmed ??
Posted: 12/7/2008 5:07:21 PM
I have to say, I personally prefer to keep it neat and tidy down there, however i had to let it grow wild for my ex, she nearly barfed the first time she saw my shaven bits, she said she felt like a paedofile!!! seems to me we guys have to go with the flow and keep the missus happy, its a dogs life, lol, as long as she is happy, im happy!!
 Ninki

Joined: 4/11/2005
Msg: 253
why dont most men keep it trimmed ??
Posted: 12/7/2008 5:13:20 PM
Hey Cowgirl, I agree with you. I've always been a rebel and a nonconformist, so the more people say 'shave it', the more determined I become to not shave it. It's so sad to see how brain-washed and mind-controlled most people are.

N.
 BigDaddyJinx

Joined: 11/4/2006
Msg: 254
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Posted: 12/7/2008 5:17:16 PM
Hmm...

Regardless of whether I'm sexually active at the time or not, I still prefer to keep my package trimmed up as often as required. Electric shaver with a #2 attachment, and less than 5 minutes and I'm good to go. Only ever shaved it all off once, and swore to myself that there would never be any power strong enough to make me even consider doing it again. I like to keep it trimmed up, but that's it. I'd rather be told that I'll never get oral performed on me unless I shave, than to actually ever do it again.


 WhiteTigress0107

Joined: 9/30/2008
Msg: 255
why dont most men keep it trimmed ??
Posted: 12/7/2008 9:10:33 PM
As long as I don't have to "go down" on it, then I could care less if my man was bushy or not. JMO

KISSES

KAT
 ron62449

Joined: 10/28/2008
Msg: 256
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Posted: 12/7/2008 9:22:28 PM
Uh, why dont you ask him if YOU can trim it for him. Tell him the advantage and all, and he just might. It could be a turn on too, thinking about it. If a woman asked me to give her a trim or shave her legs, I would get turned on.

Ron
 chuckles 08

Joined: 10/6/2008
Msg: 257
why dont most men keep it trimmed ??
Posted: 12/8/2008 6:02:23 AM
men seem to expect loads from us wimen and i do take care in my lower area fully waxed seems so much cleaner to me and sensation is more intense to so cum on guys respect our needs we do for you
 cruzzinbruzzin

Joined: 7/15/2008
Msg: 258
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Posted: 12/10/2008 8:41:49 PM
<------doesn't want his woman shaved....so, probably no trimmage for me..
 BigDaddyJinx

Joined: 11/4/2006
Msg: 259
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Posted: 12/10/2008 8:52:24 PM

men seem to expect loads from us wimen and i do take care in my lower area fully waxed seems so much cleaner to me and sensation is more intense to so cum on guys respect our needs we do for you

Some guys, like me, do respect a woman's "needs". This is why those that shave/wax get no lovin' from me. I respect they're trying to say that men want it, and they can respect that I think that's the most laughable excuse I've ever heard to pass off a fad.

So I respect the shavers/waxers by letting them look for someone who likes 'em that way, 'cause I certainly don't.
 ohio07

Joined: 12/27/2008
Msg: 260
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Posted: 1/29/2009 6:45:23 PM
Doesn't bother me either way, I've had requests on both sides and happily consented to their whims. However when it comes back, it itches like CRAZY!!!! So I try not to "change" it up a whole lot. Just depends on the preference of who I'm dating. No big deal.
 lightening51

Joined: 11/13/2008
Msg: 261
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Posted: 1/29/2009 7:41:04 PM
Manscaping, yes.

Definitely preferred. Anything over 1/2 - 1 inch needs to go...except for the obvious, of course!

 widowedmom

Joined: 7/4/2008
Msg: 262
why dont most men keep it trimmed ??
Posted: 4/7/2009 10:31:15 AM
Ladies, how many of you have "trimmed" you man's privates? Or men, how many of you have given the responsibility to your lady to manage your grooming?

My man has more hair in the area than I would like. I don't expect bare, but would love to do a little grooming. The topic has been broached with him, and I would be more than willing to help, but am new to this.

I don't know what the best way to approach this is. Not so concerned about the area over the pubic bone, which should be easy enough to deal with. I am concerned with how to approach the scrotum, perineum and the base of the penis. The last thing I would want to do is hurt him. (even though I would be more than willing to kiss the boo boo and make it better). Any advise?
 andyjr86

Joined: 10/28/2008
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Posted: 4/7/2009 10:52:04 AM
Listen Op, this is friggen 2009 21st century sweetheart do you want us to get manicures and pedicure just for our women too?

Whatever happened to a man being a man I can understand you dont want to visit the jackson 5 downstairs but come on you're going a little to far.

Also Any women that even get to go down on my Jimmy should be friggen honored that they've gotten that chance, Consider yourself lucky to even be playing with this boys toy and when I say boy I mean boy because thats exactly what Im hung like..
 Chevelle67

Joined: 3/26/2005
Msg: 264
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Posted: 4/7/2009 11:05:15 AM
No need to worry about me trimming I am bare down there! LMAO
 deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 265
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Posted: 4/7/2009 11:06:49 AM
I use to think that having no hair down there would not be manly ...but I tried it and for the last few years I have been hairless as has my wife ...and yes we do each other ..but never use a razor ...those cordless little mustache trimmers are just the ticket ... the cut it all off and leave no stubble and after a couple times the hair gets softer so it does not itch when growing back ....I love the feeling clean and close
 Polar111

Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 266
why dont most men keep it trimmed ??
Posted: 4/7/2009 11:16:05 AM
why don't you trim it and shave it for them????

great fun!!!
 FourUms

Joined: 3/17/2009
Msg: 267
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Posted: 4/7/2009 11:29:20 AM
My default condition is trimmed on top with the boys being clean-shaven. For me it's mostly a hygiene thing. I feel cleaner this way. I also crop down my chest hair with a #3 trimmer every month or two. Thankfully, I don't have any hair on my back - that'd be a bear to get at (excuse the pun).

All that being said, I'm happy to oblige the whims and desires of any woman I'm with. What's the problem? I want, yes even expect, her to shave her legs and armpits as well as keep her pubic hair in check. I'm perfectly willing to do the equivalent.

At times I have let everything grow out, because my girlfriend thought that was more "manly". I felt slightly less hygienic, but mostly I want to be clean for her anyway. So if she prefers hairier, why not?

There was a time when I kept everything, including my chest, shaved clean. That was for a woman who was very orally focused. She always liked to "clean up", but preferred not to get hair in her mouth. And yeah, it took some work and I had to bear some discomfort, but it was worth it. I also got much better, more even suntans!
 widowedmom

Joined: 7/4/2008
Msg: 268
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Posted: 4/7/2009 12:19:12 PM

the boys being clean-shaven


Does it itch less if its trimmed rather than shaved?
I don't want him to deal with the itching of a shaved groin, and trimmed would be an immense improvement. I don't think the trimmed groin will be the issue. My concern is the scrotum and base of the penis.

I have found the hair on the balls, perineum and base of the penis is not something I like having in the way. I would get so much more pleasure out of oral play with him if I didn't have to deal with the hair. I already enjoy pleasuring him orally, I am just looking for a way to make it even better. Getting the hair out of the way will make me all the more enthusiastic, and enthusiasm is all good.

Should I use a personal trimmer on the scrotum and penis? Is it better to leave the hair 1/8 inch long or 1/4 long rather than shaving? Would this result in less itching? I don't want him to deal with unpleasant itching if there is a better way.
 FourUms

Joined: 3/17/2009
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Posted: 4/7/2009 12:32:08 PM

Does it itch less if its trimmed rather than shaved?

I would say it definitely itches less if trimmed rather than shaved - everywhere but the scrotum. Maybe it's just me, but that doesn't itch when shaved and never gets razor burn. I'm also much more scared of a trimmer near my balls than a razor. The skin is very loose and thin. It seems like it would be very easy for a fold of skin to accidentally slide between the guard blades. That would be a disaster!

If someone were going to do it for me, I'd say use a trimmer with a #2 or #3 guard on the pubic region and a scissor on the scrotum and base. Maybe after that you could suggest he use a razor himself. Or if you're very confident, you do it. I don't know if I'd have the balls to let someone else use a razor there - I'd be too afraid I wouldn't have the balls afterward!
 l00kingAhead

Joined: 10/30/2007
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Posted: 4/7/2009 12:40:39 PM
Maybe it comes off a little "sissy" to guys. At least that was my excuse. But we all learn and grow eventually so I suppose more chicks should request it of their mates. That's what got me to try it. Know what? It's not bad at all!
 goodforu81

Joined: 10/7/2007
Msg: 271
why dont most men keep it trimmed ??
Posted: 4/7/2009 12:51:20 PM
well ladies FYI i shave cause i like it to be presentable
 Classy585Guy

Joined: 12/26/2008
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Posted: 4/7/2009 1:14:54 PM
100% bare...it feels good and women like it.
 officialpartygirl

Joined: 1/19/2009
Msg: 273
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Posted: 4/7/2009 1:17:19 PM
omg you know i've actually gotten hair stuck in the back of my throat?
LOL i was hacking like a bloody cat. it's not attractive for either of us!!!
guys should really at least trim!!!
 tondog509

Joined: 2/22/2008
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Posted: 4/7/2009 1:24:18 PM
I have to say that I am always bald down below. As for a woman I feel that if a woman doesn't you tend to sweat more and if it's trimmed or bald you don't get that nasty smell and it allows it to smell and even taste better for both parties for when they travel south of the border.
 shipoker58

Joined: 8/23/2008
Msg: 275
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Posted: 4/7/2009 1:56:02 PM
Other than facial hair, I prefer to keep things just as they were planned...no shaving here!


...JMO
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