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 Whodoguru

Joined: 1/13/2009
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why dont most men keep it trimmed ??
Posted: 4/15/2009 7:41:25 PM
No grass on the playground here............


(Lady Schick)
 v4voges

Joined: 3/29/2009
Msg: 302
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why dont most men keep it trimmed ??
Posted: 4/15/2009 8:23:06 PM
In my opinion a regular old hand or face cream (preferably not scented) works the best. My ex would rub it in for me which I found to be fun.
 Autumn Marie

Joined: 7/11/2007
Msg: 303
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Posted: 4/15/2009 9:37:00 PM
Maybe they are scared of the razor?
After all, it's hard to avoid doing damage if you don't know what you're doing. True, females can have this issue too, but you know what I mean right? There's isn't hard to miss, like at all.

It would be nice if more guys did this though.
 Zuglo

Joined: 5/12/2005
Msg: 304
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Posted: 4/16/2009 4:20:08 AM

What I purchased was an aftershave conditioning balm, that is alcohol free. Its main ingredient is aloe.

OK, that would work. Give the boys a nice aloe smell.

As for my desire to have him shave and trim , its purely selfish on my part,

I can't believe it! You selfish &#@!^!!!..LOL..Just kidding.. He is a lucky guy..
To me, that's one of those times when my women can be as selfish as she wants to be!..LOL..
 sidman08

Joined: 10/7/2008
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why dont most men keep it trimmed ??
Posted: 4/16/2009 9:17:35 AM
I keep my trimmed as I don't want see her with hair stuck between her teeth hehehe. Also it's about what she might like too?
 vinceismyname

Joined: 8/2/2008
Msg: 306
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why dont most men keep it trimmed ??
Posted: 4/16/2009 9:45:12 AM
Stubble and the sensitivity of the woman down there. ('')
 nonstop 1

Joined: 12/6/2007
Msg: 307
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why dont most men keep it trimmed ??
Posted: 4/16/2009 10:04:55 AM
Well for me personally I do keep my junk trimmed because I know women don't like like it .To be quite honest with you I love a full bush on my women to me its so erotic and the hairier the better and puts a bulls eye on the target.But thats one freaks opinion .
 Icey43

Joined: 9/17/2007
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Posted: 4/16/2009 10:56:06 PM
I always keep myself shaved or like a fuzzy peach for me it is a cleanliness issue.
I just feel it is cleaner. It's a pain to always do it, but I find worth it in the end.
I personally prefer my man to be either neatly trimmed or shaved. Sorry guys but if you want this gal to suck on your lolly pop then I don't want my lolly pop to be fuzzy.....
 jla1982

Joined: 2/21/2009
Msg: 309
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Posted: 4/17/2009 5:41:27 AM
Personally, trimmed is fine...Completely bald...NO!!!!! I've seen a couple men that shave down there and I do NOT like how it looks or feels...Gives me the willies!!
 widowsdesire

Joined: 4/7/2009
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Posted: 4/17/2009 5:15:46 PM
Mission accomplished! He said the end result was well worth the effort. Increased the pleasure many times over on both sides, both his and mine.

The whole process was a trust building exercise as far as I am concerned. Imagine a man letting a woman near him with sharp objects.

It amazes me the things a man will do to please his woman. This was definitely a win win situation for the two of us. I have never asked a man to trim his hair for me, and of course I have never played barber before. Definitely a new kind of foreplay. Thank you all for the guidance of this newbie.
 BraveHeart0221

Joined: 6/23/2008
Msg: 311
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why dont most men keep it trimmed ??
Posted: 4/17/2009 5:57:08 PM
I agree I don't want to eat hair when i am down there we already have something called dental floss .And guys FYI if ya trim your hair it makes your member look bigger .....take it from someone who knows what she is talking about .
 Michaelann

Joined: 9/11/2004
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Posted: 4/17/2009 6:31:31 PM
Ok guys, i am curious to understand why alot of men just dont keep your "stuff" trimmed down stairs ? You expect women to be nice and "tidy" or "bare", so why doesnt the same go for you ???? - misssexyprincess


I think the answer to that one is obvious, misssexyprincess. Being hairy is generally seen/thought of as a masculine trait, which is why they
don't like to shave & why they do like us to shave (& this extends to other areas, as well). Doesn't apply to everyone of course, my 25 year
old son shaves everywhere but his head & armpits. When I asked him why, he said that the smoothness & lack of friction, made for "really
amazing sex"

Another factor to consider, misssexyprincess: Have you ever nicked yourself while shaving your legs or under your arms? I suspect that like
most of us, you have. Well, I think an accident "down there", would be a frightening & horrifying prospect for most guys, to even consider.

One thing I would recommend to anyone considering trying it, don't use shave cream, they contain alchohol & if you nick yourself, & then "jump"
from the pain, it can make it a lot worse. I use an inexpensive Vitamin E cream, I figured that if I need this after I shave because the razor
irritates the skin, this might help prevent that problem from occurring & yes, it worked!
 Wild DNA

Joined: 9/30/2008
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Posted: 4/17/2009 10:03:18 PM
I like it trimmed.

Either he trims it or I do... The choice is his. lol
 Street King

Joined: 5/25/2008
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Posted: 4/17/2009 10:56:14 PM
It's just not a priority. We have better thing to worry about than the length of our hair down there.
 Experiencedone

Joined: 8/12/2008
Msg: 315
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Posted: 4/17/2009 11:41:09 PM
I believe that keeping it well trimmed is the best, and women seem to appreciate it too. I like a woman either shaved or trimmed..
 THEWELSHMAN49

Joined: 8/4/2008
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Posted: 5/10/2009 2:46:58 PM
I agree, I keep both the boys clean shaven and trim the rest. Used to do the whole thing clean when I was in the middle east due to the heat. Might be a good idea to try again.
 Level_42

Joined: 3/18/2009
Msg: 317
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Posted: 5/10/2009 6:33:06 PM
I like my body bald....no facial hair, no chest hair, no leg hair....etc etc. Only hair I like is on top of my head (well eyebrows and eyelashes too).

Personally, I'd want a woman to keep their privates well shaved....except it would seem better architecture to keep the "pie shaped" ARROW somewhat intact (but mowed to a nice hieght). Always sexy to have the ARROW pointing to the heavenly gates. But those gates should be smooth and visible.....we men like the look of naked skin....and it's especially pleasing not to have hair in some place we will be so close too.....expecially if our woman wants our lips and tongue down there.

The reason I would like it this way is probably because it seems just too blank otherwise. Sort of like having boobs with no nipples or inverted nipples. Nipples are supposed to stick out tantalizingly....so a bit of bush guiding the way is acceptable....but the rest of the privates should be clean shaven......and what's good for the goose is good for the gander too. Less hair is always good.
 xzanthius

Joined: 9/28/2004
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Posted: 5/10/2009 6:39:47 PM
I don't want/need another part of my body to shave and groom. I'll settle for washing everyday.

I like hair and am glad that we are mammals. I am fine dating a woman who doesn't shave... what I don't like is stubble... that doesn't feel feminin to me.
 mynamesnotjesus

Joined: 2/26/2009
Msg: 319
why dont most men keep it trimmed ??
Posted: 5/10/2009 7:03:22 PM
I didn't read all the responses. So please forgive me for any repetition.

I believe "most" men don't keep it trimmed is because they want you to get used to the size first. To get used to how it is. Then after a couple weeks, months, or years they WILL trim it. Then all of a sudden it looks like they've grown a few inches and Happy Birthday!
 tallshyman

Joined: 1/1/2008
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Posted: 5/10/2009 7:16:00 PM
why trim? I am single and I do not see the point.
 HardEngineering

Joined: 4/3/2009
Msg: 321
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Posted: 5/10/2009 10:22:12 PM
I do keep it trimmed short, or completely shaven off. It's a personal preference thing for me. I have a serious gag reflex, so it's definitely a turn-off for me. I love giving oral, and I don't want to barf while making love. I'm just not into having hair in my mouth, and I seriously doubt many women are either. Apologies for the bluntness, but that's the way it is for me.
 LesYeuxBleues

Joined: 11/5/2007
Msg: 322
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Posted: 5/11/2009 5:41:04 AM
I like it trimmed too, but not shaved like a plucked chicken hehe.. Trimming makes giving head so much more pleasurable and easier. I had a friend who insisted on shaving his entire body as he didn't feel clean otherwise, not my cup of tea!
 podthebod

Joined: 11/29/2007
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Posted: 5/11/2009 6:57:02 AM
I am actually about to shave mine all off tonight
 SmellOfPoop

Joined: 6/8/2007
Msg: 324
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Posted: 5/11/2009 8:40:11 AM
This is an easy question to answer.

If I know you're going to be down there on a regular basis, and you would prefer it trimmed, I have no issue keeping it trimmed.

However, if it's more of an ultimatum - Maybe I'd go down there if you trimmed... - then it's not worth it. I'd be trimming every day for the possibility of someone who goes down occasionally. That's not worth the effort.

So, in summary. If you wish me to keep in trimmed on an almost daily basis, I expect you to be down there almost as equally.
 widowsdesire

Joined: 4/7/2009
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Posted: 5/11/2009 12:16:48 PM
I believe "most" men don't keep it trimmed is because they want you to get used to the size first. To get used to how it is. Then after a couple weeks, months, or years they WILL trim it. Then all of a sudden it looks like they've grown a few inches and Happy Birthday!


The women you date must be really stupid, if you think that they would think this. LOL
I am going to give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you were joking when you wrote this.


why trim? I am single and I do not see the point.

Did you ever stop to think that the reason you are single is the same reason you do not see the point?


I'm just not into having hair in my mouth, and I seriously doubt many women are either. Apologies for the bluntness, but that's the way it is for me.

Would you please explain this to tallshyman, no apology needed for your bluntness but you are correct that ladies no not enjoy having hair in their mouths either.

I might add that all I had to say to my lover is, "oral sex would be much more pleasureable for me if you trimmed your hair, and groomed the area." I didn't have to tell him a second time. The first time I gave him head after a shave he could tell a difference in the way it felt for him, and my degree of enthusiasm. I help him with the trimming, and shaving and trust me, it has been time and effort well spent.
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