| why dont most men keep it trimmed ?? Posted: 5/11/2009 12:41:56 PM | A man should not be "bald" down there. Only on your head! But a nice trim, tht would be good.
I trim, and shave, for better-for-him oral. And, he seems to appreciate it.  | |
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| why dont most men keep it trimmed ?? Posted: 5/11/2009 12:51:27 PM | Well, I wouldn't kick a man out of bed because he hasn't groomed his privates. I started having sex before it became "normal" to scape, so I guess I just learned to manage and there are worse things than hair to worry about. I do routinely ask the gents, if they chew tobacco, not to do so in my bed (yes one guy did and it was absolutely horrible) and that I find much more annoying than hair where God put it. I don't watch porn and I resent, yes resent, the fact that now everyone wants to jump on the "hairless train". As if we don't have enough "physical appearance" crap to worry about when it comes to attracting a partner... Now I have to shave between my legs. Thanks! Can't even scratch in public when them hairs start growing out....how attractive would that be? I think it is a royal and unecessary pain. Besides, how can you get someone by the short hairs if they don't have any...
Oh well, whatever. When I get a partner and if that's what makes him happy...I'll take care. But I ain't doing no brazillian...NO WAY!!! | |
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| why dont most men keep it trimmed ?? Posted: 5/11/2009 7:50:49 PM | Some men are not all that into the finer details of life, and some are just down right disgusting in their indifference
PS: Some girls love to give their men a haircut, so keep the hair trimmer handy; just don't turn him into a lost hairless little doggy :-) | |
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| why dont most men keep it trimmed ?? Posted: 5/11/2009 7:52:53 PM |
PS: Some girls love to give their men a haircut, so keep the hair trimmer handy; just don't turn him into a lost hairless little doggy :-)
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| why dont most men keep it trimmed ?? Posted: 5/11/2009 8:30:56 PM | | Now let me reverse somewhat the question with my advance apology if it shocks anyone. Why some women don't find it a good idea to seriously clean their long tunnel of love once in a while? Referring to past experiences (my ex ;-) with very questionable turn-off odor while doing it, not to mention the porcupine hair effect from to many years of shaving I guess; sometimes it's better not to be completely hairless and just neatly trimmed, for men and woman, in the long run | |
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| why dont most men keep it trimmed ?? Posted: 5/12/2009 2:48:50 AM | I believe the reason for this is because alot of men are so far up their own backsides, they feel that if they shave/trim their genital area, it takes away their masculinity. I for one have no problems with keeping myself tidy as i would expect the same from a woman. | |
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| why dont most men keep it trimmed ?? Posted: 5/20/2009 5:36:51 PM | Okay, i love a bare woman.. It makes it a lot easier to eat.
I trim, but I do not shave for one reason.... Hair bumps
I am a hairy **stard.. Full chest hair, basically none on my back, but on my arms and legs. I was teased virually all the time for this while in high school (its tough at 16 having chest hair like a full adult when all the other guys look like 10 year old boys lol) and when I went to college, I shaved it.. You think being a hairy **stard is tough, when men with smooth chest is so in, try having a chest full of hair bumps! I wont even describe the horror that erupted when I tried the groin area. 3 months of wearing anti itch creams, and of course no sex.
I let any women I am dealing with know up front, if you are looking for some hairless BOY, I am NOT the one, and I am not shaving anything for a night of pleasure. The three months of torture was enough for me. I like to think that I have a nicely trimmed bushes around my lovely tree. If you want a bare lawn, or better yet nothing there, I'm sure there are plenty of metro - sexuals' running around someplace.
I was lucky enough to meet a woman that told me if she was looking for something smooth and hairless, she would be a lesbian!
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| why dont most men keep it trimmed ?? Posted: 5/20/2009 7:09:40 PM | Probably because, well I can't speak for other men. For me it's because I'm male. I get tired of trimming my ears ( in and out), nose, eye blouse, long hair on my nose, face, neck, and hell my back could use it! Now I'm reading that my male business needs to be trim and tidy, I GIVE UP. Well actually below the waist I look a bit like the top of Don King's head. If you don't know who he is... I'm not bragging.
All in Jest, good question. | |
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| why dont most men keep it trimmed ?? Posted: 5/21/2009 6:17:33 AM | I just think most guys are'nt told that it's not attractive. Men don't shave, wax or preen and they definately don't talk about it with others so it's not somethign they pick up without instruction. Tell the guy, just don't supprise him by coming at him with a pair of scissors
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| why dont most men keep it trimmed ?? Posted: 5/21/2009 6:23:49 AM | If Im in bed nude and you come at me smiling with a pair of scissors, Im going to think you snapped and went Lorena Bobbit on my ass, and in that case I'm going to defend myself and go Ike turner on yours!
Just kidding, but seriously ladies, aren't men supposed to be men? if you want someone all smooth like a girl, why not get a strap on and just get a girl? I dont have a problem with it, I just wanna watch :) | |
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| why dont most men keep it trimmed ?? Posted: 5/21/2009 6:34:17 AM | My man has hair on his scrotum and at the base of his shaft that makes oral sex less than ideal for me. Trimming the length of his hair over his pubis to about a quarter of an inch, and shaving his scrotum and penis smooth makes oral sex pleasureable for me. I like to take his balls into my mouth and suck lightly on them. I also am willing to deep throat to the base of his penis if the hair is gone. When the hair is present I will concentrate more on the glans of his penis rather than the whole thing.
When I first suggested he trim/shave he was open to suggestion. We made it foreplay. He noticed the first time we had oral sex after I trimmed him/shaved him his sensations were more intense. Now he will remind me when its time to shave or clean up the boys. It makes the whole act more enjoyable for us both.
I will orally stimulate him many many times in one session of making love when he is manscaped. Its well worth the time to groom. | |
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| why dont most men keep it trimmed ?? Posted: 5/21/2009 3:25:51 PM | | Actually I don't like a woman to be shaved down there.I shaved one time.Never will again.I never itched so much before. | |
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| why dont most men keep it trimmed ?? Posted: 5/21/2009 3:34:40 PM | I can't think of a good reason not to be well groomed. Maybe not bald (IMO, that just looks funky), but well trimmed. no sweaty balls for me! LOL!
I shaved one time.Never will again.I never itched so much before. That only lasts for the first couple or three times. A good razor and lotion and you'll be good to go. I could detail the routine, but I will spare you the nightmares that would surely follow. | |
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| why dont most men keep it trimmed ?? Posted: 5/21/2009 10:54:48 PM | | Personally, I have always kept mine trimmed...I have even offered to shave it bare if thats how a woman prefers it...I usually get the answer "It's fine the way it is". So perhaps you ladies should be more vocal in support of your preferred 'housekeeping' style :) | |
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| why dont most men keep it trimmed ?? Posted: 5/22/2009 2:07:19 AM | I was quite surprised that you really hit a nerve. First, I agree with you. I don't wan't to spoil the moment with my gal spitting pubes. We also find it erotic to groom each other. I quit reading after the second page so this might be redundant.
All that being said, I actually had a lover that prefered moss around the tree trunk. She
My guess is if you asked him to shave his dog's ass he would do it! | |
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| why dont most men keep it trimmed ?? Posted: 5/22/2009 2:31:13 AM | I keep mine nicely trimmed (not completely bald) and groomed. You got to shampoo and condition down there and least twice a day and keep it smelling good just in case something comes up. No pun intended! | |
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| why dont most men keep it trimmed ?? Posted: 5/23/2009 12:19:50 PM | | I do keep trimmed, hell pretty much the only hair on my body is my happy trail running from my belly button to pants line. And I've never met a woman yet who didn't like it. | |
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| why dont most men keep it trimmed ?? Posted: 5/23/2009 12:24:48 PM |
Just kidding, but seriously ladies, aren't men supposed to be men? if you want someone all smooth like a girl, why not get a strap on and just get a girl? That's the point - girls (well, women) aren't supposed to be smooth either, but for a lot of men it's a requirement. Bad example. We could just say when asked to trim/shave that women are supposed to be women, and we're back to square one. | |
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| why dont most men keep it trimmed ?? Posted: 5/23/2009 1:04:12 PM | You know, some may not think I am, but I'm very open minded. If thats what the lady in my life would like, if thats what would make her happy, then I would happily oblige.
I enjoy my lady to be natural. I don't go for the clean shaven look. I enjoy her pubic hair being trimmed nicely. I think its very sexy. But not too short, because I love to run my fingers through it. I find it very erotic! | |
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| why dont most men keep it trimmed ?? Posted: 5/23/2009 1:32:20 PM | I have excellent hygeine.
This is just another form of having good hygeine for my generation. I don't expect anything of a woman that I will not do myself.
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| why dont most men keep it trimmed ?? Posted: 5/23/2009 1:52:33 PM | Hmm now this is an odd question because I'm not sure how you know most men don't trim but I get the essence of the question. There are a few reasons women, preference and porn. Men are creatures of habit so we do what we've always done for the most part but there's no denying we want to impress women to a degree so if a woman doesn't seem bothered we won't change but if she says something we'll deal with it and trim it. No smart man will let hair get in the way of sex. Now some men regardless of what their women want truly prefer looking like they are smuggling porcupines in their boxers and no woman is going to change him so you're just going to have to accept it and wear some goggles or keep it moving. Finally porn lol yes porn has affected how some men trim the trunk but just because a man keeps it neat doesn't necessarily mean he's into porn. | |
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| why dont most men keep it trimmed ?? Posted: 5/23/2009 4:45:51 PM | | I keep my stuff trimmed, well actually shaved bald. After all it adds length to the visual and the women I date seem to like it. Nuff said. | |
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