| could you live without a BJ for the rest of your life
Posted: 6/12/2008 2:29:25 PM | | honestly, i'm not really all that into sex. it's great yes, but i know i can live w.out it. i wouldn't stop it...but if it never happen, i'll feel somewhat deprived, but it's really no biggie for me. | |
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| could you live without a BJ for the rest of your life
Posted: 6/12/2008 3:14:13 PM | | Im still gonna be online buds,but anything more would just be asking for trouble.Ive never cheated on someone i was with and i dont ever see myself going without.Plus im not that attracted to my hand...lol...I know i know i went there,but hey its about the honesty. | |
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| could you live without a BJ for the rest of your life
Posted: 6/12/2008 3:56:32 PM | they make her curl up into a ball She enjoys them, she just is uneasy with the loss of control that comes from the intensity. My honest take is that its a real possiblity that she really enjoys orgasms but is afraid of being hurt by someone who may not be there for her through thick and thin abd therefore has set up a mental and verbal block. She says things she doesnt necessarily mean. She likely just isnt that into you.
Now to the threads question.....having a bj isnt even close to being as good as the feeling of being deep inside a woman to me. Due to my size (circumference) and the way I'm wired(takes a very long time for me to orgasm regardless) its been my experience that most women may find giving me a BJ to be an interesting but in the end frustrating and perhaps even jaw cramping challenge . So,for me.....the answer is YES, I could go the rest of my life without recieving a BJ. I DO however need loads of affection and passion but if a BJ is the only thing out of the equation its not difficult for me to live without. Cuddles, kisses, penetration, verbal affection, open and honest communication, touch, I MUST have in a relationship. | |
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| could you live without a BJ for the rest of your life
Posted: 6/12/2008 6:25:40 PM | For the answer to this question, I could indeed live without BJ''s the rest of my life, seeing as I only can achieve orgasm usually from penetration. Only one female's been able to accomplish giving me an orgasm using her mouth and hands.
As for this poor woman, either A. She's testing you to make sure you don't just want her for sex. Or B. She really has some major intimacy issues involving her past, beliefs, or just sex in general.
You've really just have two options here. Do what most people are saying and run for the hills never to return. That's not necessarly a bad choice, considering if she's "testing" you, then she'd be more apt to play games of a similar nature later in the relationship, and major intimacy issues, take a lot out of a person emotionally and physically to deal with.
Or Option 2, if you care about this woman, which if you've been talking to her for several weeks you sound like you do somewhat, than stick by her and help her resolve her issues as long as they are legitimate ones, maybe some counseling could be good for her, or just you being there for someone to open up to. Maybe she's just been with all the wrong guys who by cheating or some sort of abuse have caused her to feel this way about sex.
Ask her how she feels about masturbation, if by some chance you gain her trust enough to get her to do that for you in some manner, then the rest is just gravy. You just have to ask yourself if you see the relationship being worth it. If you do, then by all means go for it. :)
By the way ladies, you can message me so I can make you all "curl up into a ball" ;)
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| could you live without a BJ for the rest of your life
Posted: 6/13/2008 3:49:16 AM | I can live without it...sad but true....
It sounds like she has to work through some stuff and may need a coach (hint, hint)...
It's broke. She has gone off and killed Ms. Kitty somehow  | |
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| could you live without a BJ for the rest of your life
Posted: 6/13/2008 4:05:19 PM | | would just tell her were not a good match for a relationship and continue being friends with her. I have a few very good friends I've made online. Were not compatible as lovers, but we have great relationships as friends. | |
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| could you live without a BJ for the rest of your life
Posted: 6/13/2008 4:16:18 PM | You might want to try retaining some kind of friendship with the woman because by what you describe, it would seem that there may have been some sort of abuse in her past. As a friend, and not a potential partner, she might open up to you more about why she feels this way and you might be able to encourage her to take positive steps for herself if she trusts you because you have no interest in the outcome.
She might also consider, if threre was no abuse, that there is a very fulfilling aspect of relationships that she is currently not enjoying and that there might be a way for her to get to the point that sex is pleasurable. There are also conditions that make sex painful so there could be many reasons other than she is just a frigid biatch, that she feels this way about her own sexuality. | |
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