| How men deal with broken hearts.
Posted: 6/26/2008 5:44:48 AM | tha1uwant4life....they dont just come along mate...you have to go look with all your senses..I am...happy hunting | |
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| How men deal with broken hearts.
Posted: 6/26/2008 9:45:32 PM | | Totally agree on all that you covered thanks for the honest advice . Because every one tells you to forget but dosent show you how to . Your paragraph relates very much to my situation. Its good to read stuff like that to keep you positive. | |
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| How men deal with broken hearts.
Posted: 6/28/2008 5:33:33 AM | First off to mrl6, I feel your pain. I been down this road many times. My piece of advice, on how to deal with this. I would half to say depending on how long you been in the last relationship, for example 4 months, give yourself at least 1 month off from dating and reexamine what you did wrong. Keep your head leveled by keeping yourself preoccupied. Go out for walks, exercise and eat right. Try to visit cousins, family and close friends for therapy sessions. Their the best therapists to have when it comes to someone listening. Once you feel the pain completely out of your system, another thing I learned from being a Christian is to forgive that person, leave it at a friendship level, and if they want to talk, just listen and not say much.
Eventually once you feel healed and don't feel the necessity to stay in touch with your ex and they moved on, I would get rid of as many of the things they gave you, like previous gifts, cards and that and either the donate the stuff or throw it out. My saying goes "Out with the old, in with the new". When the new year comes, go out with friends and make a resolution to make a new beginnning and not look at the past. Make a goal of it. Be realistic, and make it obtainable as possible.
To this day I am struggling with finding someone decent, but the single women are out there. Most importantly when you feel your confidence level is back to normal go back into the dating scene with an open mind. When dating, don't bring up your previous relationship into the conversation, as this may open you up to doubts and scrutiny and most importantly have fun and enjoy life as much as possible.
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| How men deal with broken hearts.
Posted: 6/28/2008 3:50:43 PM | Hey brother keep your chin up and get on with your life there is a country song that I heard back in the states while I was waiting to catch a plane that says it best.
If you gave it your best shot that’s all you can do.
I set out on a narrow way, many years ago
Hoping I would find true love
along the broken road
But I got lost a time or two
Wiped my brow and kept pushing through
I couldn't see how every sign
pointed straight to you
[ Chorus: ]
Every long lost dream
Lead me to where you are
Others who broke my heart
They were like northern stars
Pointing me on my way
Into your loving arms
This much I know is true
That God blessed the broken road
That led me straight to you.
yes he did
I think about the years I spent
just passing through
I'd like to have the time I lost
and give it back to you
but you just smile and take my hand
You been there, you understand
It's all part of a grander plan
that is coming true.
[ Chorus: ]
Every long lost dream
Lead me to where you are
Others who broke my heart
They were like northern stars
Pointing me on my way
Into your loving arms
This much I know is true
That God blessed the broken road
That led me straight to you.
yah
Now I'm just rolling home
into my lovers arms
this much i know is true
that God blessed the broken road
that led me straight to you
That God blessed the broken road
that led me straight to you
Just remember to open your heart to the next one and let her in, if she hurts you there is nothing you can do about it, to truly love you have to trust her not to hurt you.
And just realize that people get what’s coming to them in the end although you may never see it. | |
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| How men deal with broken hearts.
Posted: 6/28/2008 7:33:28 PM | Mrl6 - Any chance I can convince you to move to Los Angeles? Now my next request is a little tougher, I need you to age about 35 years.
You TRULY are a gem at your young age (I am sure you have heard that one too many times) but you have a healthy outlook on relationships, sometimes it just doesn't work out. But you have alot to bring to the table, it may take a while to meet the woman of your dreams, but with your depth and perception - I am sure you will make a very wise decision
Keep the faith | |
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| How men deal with broken hearts.
Posted: 7/24/2008 9:54:07 AM | | a good many of them drink themselves into oblivion, become bitter and then drag that baggage into the next relationship. I learned that the hard way as I was my x husbands 4th wife and his bitterness continues....... | |
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| How men deal with broken hearts.
Posted: 8/6/2008 9:31:21 AM | | I'm surprised by all this openness. I personally believe that as men you should have a dark deep place inside you that you bury all negative emotion. | |
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| How men deal with broken hearts.
Posted: 8/6/2008 2:21:19 PM | Hey, you know what? The ability to love is very rare. If you felt like you loved her and she dumped you, that's because she doesn't love you as much. All the feelings you get, the heartache, the memories, the moments that you savoir... all those things are created BY YOU. You will be able to fall in love again with same unstoppable force; she won't. Your love will get stronger over time and you will be able to project them on someone else later on. She's not the special one, you're. The feelings you get when you're with her belongs to YOU. They're your feelings.
You know what I do when I am sad and lonely? I write stories... lol... Now I am a writer and I actually NEED drama to make publishing deadlines, ironic, eh? | |
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