| Men with roommates
Posted: 7/8/2008 5:04:55 AM | redheadedgipsy,.
most here are using every label that describes any kind of relationship, sexual or not, to mean "to have sex"...i know alot of men that i've met from here do this, i dont know about women or how many do the same, so i cant comment on it..
i keep asking myself why i even bother when i know most here cant relate to themselves enough to not twist the meanings of words to mean more than they do just so they can create sexual situations. i'm finally to the point that i just dont care about finding anyone to even want to date or try to have any kind of relationship with since most around me are already in something and just looking to make me a **** toy on the side from the get go when they know i want more than that.
i just dont care about finding anyone for anything right now... | |
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| Men with roommates
Posted: 7/8/2008 6:00:33 AM | "Can't men be honest? "
Nope
And while we're at it let's be real
most men on here are looking for sex with one woman they can have a relationship with
woman are looking for a relationship period with some ideal they have created from bits and pieces of past relationships .For some the sex part is the last piece of this pretty picture
I would rather have a man tell me his intentions than to give me a line of bs.
At least it gives me the option to choose. | |
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| Men with roommates
Posted: 7/8/2008 6:51:53 AM | I can only positively say that I have met one married man on this site. He produced a photo to contact me but his profile doesn't feature one, but indicated that he was married. When I asked him if this was an error, he explained that he wanted to be honest with the POF users, so I asked him if his wife knew about his intentions. Reasonable question I thought? Surely it would be as important not to lie to her? End of communication. Surprise!
Although I realize that some people just don't have access to a camera, I suspect that many of the photoless profiles belong to men with roommates, or men with some other secret. Many of those will offer a picture by email. Whats' with that? Can anyone tell me? I also suspect that the men showing off all of their toys in their photos have one agenda. These are all men I turn down immediately, albeit politely. Maybe I'm harsh but I'd rather be safe than sorry. | |
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| Men with roommates
Posted: 7/8/2008 6:56:28 AM | | It isn't just a sad experience for you but for their families too. These men are scum of the Earth. IMO | |
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| Men with roommates
Posted: 7/8/2008 7:02:09 AM | | I have come across a few married men online but I will say most of them have been honest about their status. At least that way the other person can choose if they still want to go there or not. Deceit is a dangerous thing and it makes us doubt others who are genuine xxx | |
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| Men with roommates
Posted: 7/8/2008 7:20:16 AM | | Married men online, looking for a discreet sexual encounter, and lying about it... IGAAAD!!! Crazy!!! Though I appreciate the generalization about our gender that we're all dishonest schmucks, having people like this from both genders happens online, how is that so shocking. I'm sorry it happened to you, it sucks honestly, but don't condemn the other billions of single men by the actions of 2. Just move on and accept the fact that you haven't had the best of luck so far. It's not limited to married men by any means, if I had a nickel for every virgin on here with 3 kids... well you get the idea. | |
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| Men with roommates
Posted: 7/8/2008 7:27:25 AM | | well women are not honest too.ive been with many girls i married one.all i got was lies lies lies.never been with a woman that says the truth.i addmit that some men arent honest.but guess what! my honest is what keeps me single.so ladies dont generalise when you talk about men not all men are liars.and not all women are liars.i can say "why women cant be honest" cuz i havent been with an honest woman ever. | |
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| Men with roommates
Posted: 7/8/2008 8:34:33 AM | | I read through some of the posts, same old stuff. Like one poster early on said, I am amazed how many women seem to pick married guys out of all the profiles on here. I'm single, I know maybe 30 guys on here I met in the forums, they're all single. Funny thing is when we write you single gals we get the old read/delete. Instead of b*tchin on here about the married guys, why not tell us what they say that intrigues all you women so much? By the way, at least 2 out of 7 women who make contact on here are married too, so the problem is not one sided. Though I guess it's somewhat different, they seem to be more open about it. I just delete and move on down the line. Bob | |
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| Men with roommates
Posted: 7/8/2008 8:40:32 AM | Ask more questions. It is not an interview but it is. With this forum if you don't ask questions you will not know. And yes to lie by omission is still a lie. If I am interested I do ask questions and expect answers and aks me as well. There is a fine line to walk but we must walk it. This is a dangerous world. I don't know about any of you but be honest. There are people who don't care if you are married... go to the web sites and to those people.
Trust in the inner voice. Some men will not tell me their name even after I have given mine. Make me think they are hinding somehting. Or, they do pick me up and still don't want to give their address. Why, pay attention to what is said and yes, what is not said. I want to know something about the man I am meeting. We must do that. Goes, both ways. I talked to a man that the woman managed to get him in her car and then spend off to another location. It totally unnerved him. | |
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| Men with roommates
Posted: 7/8/2008 11:23:16 AM | | Yes, I like to know how you found out. Was it a hunch or did you catch them in the act? Also you are dating someone who is cheating, is it appropriate to let the other man/woman know they are with a cheater? | |
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| Men with roommates
Posted: 7/8/2008 11:52:22 AM | | I have to agree with some of the men's comments that not all men are liars. I had a woman on this site who lied to me about living with a boyfriend. Because I have a tendency to believe what I'm told I was roped in. First she came on very strongly with sexual content early on. Never was I given a home telephone number yet she had mine as well as a cell. We made a date and I traveled quite a distance to only to have her cancel at the last moment with an excuse of being sick. For the next few days I heard all sorts of stories about her being in the emergency room and spending time in bed. It turned out she was in bed, yes with her live in boyfriend who travels out of town regularly for work. His schedule changed at the last minute and she had to come up with excuses. So my advice is for both sexes to be careful before meeting in person and I'm glad we did not get to the point of sex before I found out who she really was about. | |
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| Men with roommates
Posted: 7/9/2008 4:11:38 PM | well i agree with you man, i tried to message many girls but no response guess how i see it women want the man who is not available why? because since he has a woman then they think he is good.thats how i see it .ive been here for about a year now.guess what i only got a couple of response.and only one girl is single lol and up to meet up with me.
so there you go | |
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| Men with roommates
Posted: 7/9/2008 4:26:48 PM |
"cant men be honest?"
No, because obviously you keep sleeping with the dishonest ones and never give us honest guys a chance.
Go figure.
S | |
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| Men with roommates
Posted: 7/9/2008 4:40:57 PM | Hola Gypsy, Was the second one easier to spot than the first? That's probably because you live and learn, and then live some more. Don't let cheaters get you down. Learn their game and find the diamond in the rough.
best wishes ~ | |
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| Men with roommates
Posted: 7/9/2008 7:19:29 PM |
Well thats two now I've met from here. Married men just wantin to get laid.
Did they tell you they were married, or that they had a female roommate and you just assumed they were married? You should have asked to come over. | |
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| Men with roommates
Posted: 7/9/2008 7:29:18 PM | Well thats two now I've met from here. Married men just wantin to get laid.
Sigh...
TWO married men in 6 1/2 months, and from this you deduce that men aren't honest.
I had one LTR cheat on me, and my ex wife cheated on me and lied about it. Should I assume all women are dishonest and cheaters? | |
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