There really is no "usually"...it's an individual thing. And even if a person has their own "usual" time frame, it can all go out the window upon meeting the "right" one.
So true...
I think the other huge factor here is: how long you have been in the Celibate army...hehe and what is your rank...General, Major, Sargeant, or a simple Private... hahahahahaha...?? Let's face it....once ya light the match...ya better call the fire brigade!!!...Then there is the kid in the candy shop thing....ya just can't get enough...when it does happen....*sigh*...I hate that!!! LOL
I think for some people sex on the first few dates is completely appropriate, and I certainly don't think having sex early in a relationship necessarily condemns it...the direction of the relationship is guided by the couple...*IF* they are both clear and can communicate with each other...and have a bit of respect...but the "sex thing too soon" argument about fallen relationships....does give a great excuse for those who choose to use it...lol
Some of the best sex I ever had was with someone I had no "chemical" attraction for initially....sooooo who knows ...we are all so different.. But then, let me think...ya...ok..so I also have had the best sex when I have wanted to tear my clothes off at first site.... I am sensing a theme here....lol....
Those damn hormones don't just f**k with your body...they f**k with your mind too!! hahah 
justme-2u
Four Star General
Celibate Army.
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