| How you feel? Posted: 6/16/2008 1:00:34 PM | I don't now, nor have I ever, had sex with strangers for three reasons:
#1. I respect myself.
#2. I respect the other person.
#3. There are too many diseases out there. It is not worth dying for a few minutes of fun.
Anyway, just my rules for myself. | |
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| How you feel? Posted: 6/17/2008 11:30:26 PM | | I don't have sex with strangers. | |
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shimbo
| Joined: 6/15/2008 Msg: 28 | |
| How you feel? Posted: 6/18/2008 6:27:25 PM | I had sex with a stranger in March. It was pretty good sex. But over the past three months it quickly evolved into World Class, Unbelievably Great Sex. I still don't know much about her outside of sexual abilities and perferences.
But I'm okay with it. | |
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| How you feel? Posted: 6/19/2008 5:01:19 AM |
I had sex with a stranger in March. It was pretty good sex. But over the past three months it quickly evolved into World Class, Unbelievably Great Sex. I still don't know much about her outside of sexual abilities and perferences.
But I'm okay with it.
Wondering, is your wife ok with it too? Or does perfer not to say mean something else?  | |
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| How you feel? Posted: 6/19/2008 4:29:45 PM | not for me, i have to know, trust and share the same feelings with her way before i would even decided I was ready to be intimate so what are you waiting for? -tell me your name, -strap on this lie detector, -hold my hand, -tell me the name of your kitty cat, favorite tv show and dream vacation... | |
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shimbo
| Joined: 6/15/2008 Msg: 31 | |
| How you feel? Posted: 6/19/2008 9:23:45 PM |
Wondering, is your wife ok with it too?
It means I didn't bother to fill out the profile because I already know I won't be getting even sporadic sucky sex from PoF members. | |
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| How you feel? Posted: 6/19/2008 10:27:08 PM | | Not into sex with strangers. When I was younger tried it once and found it empty. The experience itself was not bad, but I discovered the emotional connection is vital to me. I like being with someone I know well and care for and am comfortable enough with to be and do silly things. | |
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| How you feel? Posted: 6/20/2008 1:00:50 PM | WHAT! People actually come to POF for sexual activity????
As a freshman in university a senior once proposed to me that intercourse with the tailpipe of a 1949 Ford would both make me a man and provide relief from the gnawings of my youthful biology, but I can not imagine the mechanics of intercourse with a computer screen or keyboard.
(BTW: For those of you experienced in these matters, I really have no desire to be educated in this particular area either!) | |
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| How you feel? Posted: 6/20/2008 1:07:09 PM |
It means I didn't bother to fill out the profile because I already know I won't be getting even sporadic sucky sex from PoF members.
Are you inferring that POF members provide spradic "sucky" sex? That could be taken more ways than one ya know? OMG, my bad | |
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shimbo
| Joined: 6/15/2008 Msg: 36 | |
| How you feel? Posted: 6/20/2008 2:33:46 PM |
Well at least you are honest about it.
There's no point in denying what is obvious.
Perhaps genophobia women will take heed. Perhaps not. | |
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| How you feel? Posted: 6/20/2008 2:42:59 PM |
It means I didn't bother to fill out the profile because I already know I won't be getting even sporadic sucky sex from PoF members.
...Well then, I would say its a good thing that your only interested in "hanging out" considering how you feel.
...maeflowers | |
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| How you feel? Posted: 6/20/2008 3:24:24 PM | Yes ... 'hanging out' is good if you're interested in sucky sex -- although the visual does appear rather comical for a date. Not so sure if I'd be too interested in the sporadic part, though -- certain things, when activated, and all ...
cdn guy | |
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shimbo
| Joined: 6/15/2008 Msg: 39 | |
| How you feel? Posted: 6/20/2008 8:02:06 PM |
Not so sure if I'd be too interested in the sporadic part, though
Yes, that's my point. I already did sucky sex but it's good in a way because I have a yardstick to measure against. We met at a coffee shop, did a walk around the mall and then she led me up to a hotel room that she's already rented.
Our second meeting was at my rented house. I had rugburns for several days. When the moving guys came to get the bed, I forgot I'd left the bondage straps under the mattress. And I had spilled honey on the rug. The duct tape wasn't a problem, though. I never used any sex toys in my previous relationships but now I have a pretty good working knowledge. The most awesome night was about 3-4 weeks ago when she had six orgasms in one night but I'm almost afraid to try for seven. | |
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| How you feel? Posted: 6/20/2008 8:17:05 PM |
Our second meeting was at my rented house. I had rugburns for several days. When the moving guys came to get the bed, I forgot I'd left the bondage straps under the mattress. And I had spilled honey on the rug. The duct tape wasn't a problem, though. I never used any sex toys in my previous relationships but now I have a pretty good working knowledge. The most awesome night was about 3-4 weeks ago when she had six orgasms in one night but I'm almost afraid to try for seven.
....Aw you poor guy, I know how you feel, honey's a b1tch to get out of the carpet....so what did you say you did for fun?
...maeflowers
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| How you feel? Posted: 6/20/2008 8:17:14 PM | Only six? What's so awsome then?
I'll keep fishing.... | |
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shimbo
| Joined: 6/15/2008 Msg: 42 | |
| How you feel? Posted: 6/20/2008 8:22:44 PM |
I'll keep fishing....
Exactly my point!
Thanks! | |
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| How you feel? Posted: 6/20/2008 10:16:24 PM | Well, after reading all the posts I'm kinda speechless(pretty damned rare). All I can say is if it's good for the two of you, have at it and enjoy those moments. All the raw, sweaty..gut wrenching.....massively satisfying.........screamingly sensual...............aw shit, I'm so damned envious I think I'll go get drunkenly insensate just to console myself!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  | |
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| How you feel? Posted: 6/22/2008 7:15:47 PM |
Well, after reading all the posts I'm kinda speechless(pretty damned rare). All I can say is if it's good for the two of you, have at it and enjoy those moments. All the raw, sweaty..gut wrenching.....massively satisfying.........screamingly sensual...............aw shit, I'm so damned envious I think I'll go get drunkenly insensate just to console myself!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
...Don't be envious, if that sort of thing was happening in the real world, do ya actually think he would be here on PoF posting on a Friday night?
maeflowers | |
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| How you feel? Posted: 6/23/2008 9:16:21 PM | | Yeah, you're likely right Mae, but what the hell...........the chores are done, I've got a CD(Looney Tunes Classics) and a box of beer................................. | |
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| How you feel? Posted: 6/24/2008 7:14:48 PM | | OP, first of all sex can be very imtimate, or it can be far from intimate. Why wouldn't sex be fun with a stranger, if you are both attracted to each other? Also providing you are both adults. You need to be careful as to catching things, but the good news is, most people aren't walking talking disease factories. There is also this new invention, called the condom. So many innocent people!!! | |
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| How you feel? Posted: 6/26/2008 9:49:18 PM | | It depends on the needs of the moment. | |
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| How you feel? Posted: 6/26/2008 10:33:58 PM | Try http://cultivategreatness.com/2007/04/15/turning-strangers-into-friends | |
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| How you feel? Posted: 9/14/2008 6:44:22 PM | If depends on the needs of the moment... A moment like Adam and Eva?
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