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Posted: 6/19/2008 10:47:11 AM | | ^^ I could not find in the OPs post about being bi sexual , or cheating. Did I miss something ? Or did you assume it? | |
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Posted: 6/19/2008 5:37:56 PM | | totally not into that & it is something that would put an end to the relationship | |
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Posted: 6/19/2008 6:37:29 PM |
I could not find in the OPs post about being bi sexual , or cheating. Did I miss something ? Or did you assume it?
Hi Coca2
Looks like the OP has hidden his profile. But yes, it was in there. Maybe he took that out before he hid it. In fact, as I recall, his profile said he was looking for males. | |
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Posted: 6/19/2008 6:50:58 PM |
So far all of the cross dressers that spent years learning how to use the slot on your "tighty whiteys" you are willing to throw all that practice away?
Yup. Besides, not all men's briefs have that. Lots of 'em don't, in fact. | |
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Posted: 6/19/2008 7:42:44 PM | | any women that wants a man that likes to wear womens clothes has just as many issuses as the man himself thats nasty and gay. I like a real manly man!!!!! If hes into that hes defintly gotta have at least gay tendencies. | |
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Posted: 6/20/2008 3:30:09 AM | | I couldn't have a realtionship with a CD, it just wouldn't feel right ..Like some I like my men to be men. However I do not believe that all CD's are harbouring homosexual tendencies. | |
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Posted: 6/22/2008 8:53:10 PM | LOL.....many cd's have male hobbies such as going hunting etc.....they're just like everybody else (cept for the clothes)
Also , we DO have our own clothes , thank you very much ;)
My green satin dress is my fav...lol :) | |
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Posted: 6/23/2008 1:46:53 PM | | There is another assumption being made here that is erroneous...that all crossdressers are bisexual or gay...this isn't so...many are straight. | |
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Posted: 6/23/2008 2:19:17 PM |
any women that wants a man that likes to wear womens clothes has just as many issuses as the man himself thats nasty and gay. I like a real manly man!!!!! If hes into that hes defintly gotta have at least gay tendencies.
Fancyface; right on; I agree totally | |
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Posted: 6/23/2008 3:23:52 PM | Methinks some people who crow the loudest against it are the ones truly insecure with their sexuality. They can't accept the idea that for some, the lines between "feminine" and "masculine" can be blurred, even crossed, and it doesn't mean the person is mental.
I think it's a shame that people have such tunnel views as to what is "masculine" and "feminine"; it seems that anytime there is someone out there who challenges it and doesn't fit into the neat little boxes, then they get labeled as weirdoes and perverts, or are given some other negative feedback. Just because someone likes to wear something that society deems is meant for the opposite sex doesn't mean the person is sick and needs help, and doesn't mean they are unable to represent the usual (ridiculous) stereotypes that go along with that particular gender when needed.
Personally, I like a person who is willing to challenge the norm and be who they are, stereotypes aside. I spent quite a few years getting to know some cross-dressers, and I think only 10% of them were either gay or bi-sexual.
As for me......coming from an extensive theater background, as well as a diehard David Bowie fan (I have a pic on my wall of his album cover from "The Man Who Sold the World" that I drool over), I have to say I would be open to the option of dating a man who liked to cross-dress. I don't think it makes him any less of a man or less "masculine" because he likes to dress up.
I think it takes a real man to wear women's clothes.
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Posted: 6/23/2008 4:17:30 PM | Here Here Gonzo! It's kinda sad that more people can't accept the notion of a gender continuum. I admit it's a tough concept to grasp that gender is more than your private parts.
But I actually have a nice success story on this one. I started cross-dressing in little steps, a purse because it was convenient, nail polish to be silly, then to jewlery and skirts. Now I wear a nice mish-mash of male items (boxers, a beard and mustache) and female items (a purse, hat, sunglasses, and skirt some days). I'm not dressing like a girl to feel sexy or because I'm gay (I have been bicurious-ish for years). I just do it because it feels nice and I happen to look good dressed up (probably because of the extra effort).
And I don't know if it's some sort of enormous coincidence but I pretty much get treated the same as before from either friends or strangers. Nobody looks and gawks, people still talk to me as much as they did. The only comment I ever get are some of my less secure male friends (ok so they're really insecure, but oh well) constantly seek reassurance that I'm wearing something under it.
Oh, and in regards to the person who claimed to be the least passible cross dresser? Not even close. Rudy Giuliani. No contest. | |
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Posted: 6/24/2008 10:49:04 AM | | Awesome Gonzo! You hit the nail squarely on the head. It’s always refreshing to see posts from intelligent people who actually have some knowledge of the subject matter rather than ignorant opinions based upon archaic stereotypes. | |
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Posted: 6/24/2008 11:09:54 AM |
any women that wants a man that likes to wear womens clothes has just as many issuses as the man himself thats nasty and gay. I like a real manly man!!!!! If hes into that hes defintly gotta have at least gay tendencies.
Fancyface; right on; I agree totally
What's that, you totally agree? You like a real manly man also? ....hope you can take a joke, but if not, oh well. You should have seen that one coming. It is rather curious that you're reading posts on cross-dressing though. Had to switch threads because it's no longer fashionable or acceptable to bash minorities and gays? | |
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Posted: 6/24/2008 4:08:22 PM | | Oh, you can still bash whatever minority you want, you just have to make sure it's in a forum "friendly" to your views. After two or three pages, you can tell whether a forum is fact based or crazy-ranting. It all depends how many people shout down the other side. If you get a post where it's all about the arab terrorists are raising oil prices, it's safe to blame them queer-o-sexuals too. But if you're on a forum saying how global warming must be stopped, maybe they'd best move along. | |
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Posted: 6/24/2008 6:12:45 PM | i've been cross dressing since i was an early teen,got into my mom's clothes.i have no reason or explaination why or how i started i just did.i did it often over the years and slowly acquired my own clothes.i didn't really try the sexual experimentation while being even partially cross dressed until my early 30's.after my marriage broke apart-had nothing to do with my cross dressing-i slowly evolved into teh completet transformation into being fully femme.and that is when i started to experience i could only have sex with anyone while being dressed,again i have no explaination.i know i am lucky have a body shaped the way i do to the fact i can make many women jealous when i'm out-mainly because i have long legs and small feet-,yes i do go out en femme.
as for the labeling thing,those belong on boxes.society is so closed minded.i've been a memeber here at POF for just over a month and at least half the e-mails or profile views are by straight men that have no desires with bi encounters,but the want to take me out.why is that?i find woman are more open minded to us than most men.i have been out to straight regular clubs with a few women and they get pissed at me because the guys will approach me first,could it be the way i dress?i politly explain about me to them.mind you many men harbour homosexual thoughts and if they are to act on them it is easier with a girl like us.
crossdressers/t-girls seem to be in a realm of our own as most gay men don't like us because we represent a woman to them.straight guys don't like us well because they start thing whet it would be like spending some time with us.
guess i better stop this i'll be writing all night.whatever you like or do just do it to best of your ability.
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Posted: 7/9/2008 5:13:22 AM | OP You are a lucky guy please don't mess that up. Not everyone is as fortunate as you.
I'm a Transvestite and I'm a manly man, well I was last time I went to the bathroom, I could definitely feel my manhood.
I've posted my profile as a Transvestite on pof for over a week now, had lots of women look at my profile but I'm guessing they were just curious. I've had a few emails saying I'm so brave and honest for putting my profile up, and a few that offered friendship.
In most studies a low percentage of women said that they would date crossdressers / transvestites. I'm a realist I know my chances are low.
I could also have done what most TV/CD do, hide their dressing from their gf / wife - live a lie. I can't do that, I have to be true to myself and to any prospective partner.
Oh and no transvestite is ever going to look better than any woman, all women are beautiful!
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Posted: 7/9/2008 11:57:37 AM | I too like to crossdress. I don't do it all the time but I do it.
There are plenty of men who do and are straight and you just don;t know it because they keep it a secret.
I don't care if it is sexy to any of you or not butthe truth is it is ok for my ex-wife to wear my underwear but if I wear hers I'm strange. Double standard for sure.
I hope to meet some understanding woman in the future and was lucky to have a few in the past that loved it. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2008 12:07:36 PM | | definitly not my thing, nor do i think it will ever be. im into the rugged manly men i guess..not so much a guy who borrows my panties! haha i have friends who love it though. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2008 1:28:54 PM |
haha i have friends who love it though.
Nice to know. So, where do we find those 'friends'? There are millions of really nice, wonderful men that crossdress, who are looking for a woman who can maybe even tolerate us. so, .all., any suggestions here???? We're waiting. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 12:25:00 PM | | Just a warning to other folks who crossdress and are looking for somewhere to find women who might be interested. I did a google search, and found dateacrossdresser d0t c0m; now I find that my credit card that I used for that site (and have used no where else in the past six months) has been maxed out. So, any other people using that site beware. This is just the kind of predatory thing that I worry about, people taking advantage of the fact that we are so eager to find someone, we willingly take a chance, fork over our money, and then get ripped off big time. I had to cancel my credit card, and now have a lot of companies to contact to try to get all those charges off of my account. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 12:36:37 PM | | Not into crossdressing except that I do where shorts or cutoffs. No dresses for me ty... | |
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Posted: 8/16/2008 7:03:50 AM | http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ii6Mr9FWRvc
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