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Posted: 9/13/2008 8:24:24 AM | | I am not open to dating or being with a crossdresser. I believe in live and let live, but that life style is just not for me. I dated a crossdresser, though when he told me about it, it ended the relationship. We continued to communicate for awhile, but he was so different. When he dressed, it was for sexual gratification and he was into all kinds of weird fetish stuff that we did not do during our dating. It was as if he had a completely different personality when he dressed, and it was not compatible with me. Now he spends most of his time dressed as a woman, so I believe is more of a transexual, than a crossdresser, but no matter, we have no contact anymore. | |
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Posted: 9/13/2008 9:04:01 AM | | I dated someone who cross-dressed. He was a little hesitant to tell me about it, but it didn't bother me in the least. Gender is fluid and I enjoy playing with it in my own ways on occasion, so it's just another facet of someone's personality to me. | |
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Posted: 10/12/2008 12:25:38 AM | I find it so ignorant yet silly when people label things such as crossdressing as "gay" and "nasty."
I also find it ignorant yet silly to be extremely superficial and uneducated yet somehow highly opinionated. | |
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Posted: 10/12/2008 8:41:36 AM | This is one of my biggest fears................that I'll meet a great guy and then he'll whisper in my ear...........guess what? 
No thanks................I couldn't stand living with a cross dresser but I respect everyone the way they choose to live..............cheers. | |
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Posted: 10/12/2008 8:58:56 AM | it's not for everyone....
if i wanted someone in a dress....i'd get a real female.....
i don't know hairy legs and lace...gives me the creeps | |
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Posted: 10/15/2008 8:56:46 PM | Umm no...I would look just TERRIBLE...in a print! | |
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Posted: 10/16/2008 3:16:07 AM | Some good posts on here. Where people say yes or no but do it with respect. Of course there are a few insecure people who want to labelt TVs as gay, nasty, perverts etc.
As is the case with many, i am straight, a manly man, happy as a man but get a kick from dressing. I think at least if the TV or CD is open and honest people can see that and then make a decision.
As for the Biggots, you are welcome to say its not for you but labelling people as gay for what they wear sometimes is a bit silly after all what if people thought because you have a moustache, a weird haircut or a bumbag you were a bit gay?
Dont be so closed and narrowminded and defensive of your own sexuality by abusing others and trying to buttonhole them as something they probably are not. Or is it that you fancy TVs but have to pretend to be macho and even the TVs would reject you as they are NOT gay or bi  | |
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Posted: 10/16/2008 6:38:51 AM | "I feel pretty, I feel pretty, I feel pretty and witty and..............gay"
FYI : gay usually meant "being happy" in the old days ;) | |
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Posted: 10/19/2008 4:11:17 PM | On the same note; it's really interesting how a tie and/or suit is a symbol of submission NOT power like everyone assumes. With people crossdressing, sometimes as a measure of submissive tendencies, it's interesting that the tie hasn't been used more.
Guess that explains why I like ties so much though o.O | |
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Posted: 11/2/2008 4:51:53 PM | Most cross dressers actually shave....we DO actually have some decency , believe it or not 
"weird fetish stuff"
What's weird to one person might seem cool to another.....many women have weird fantasies , it's not just the guys....lol ;) | |
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Posted: 11/25/2008 8:19:45 AM | I love crossdressing, it's fun and exciting....it's kind of like acting, getting to play a different personality then yourself. I'm a guy but it's fun playing a girl sometimes, the clothes are sooo much better.......
Anyway, just thought I would send a shout out to all crossdressers and crossdresser friendlys out there....
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Posted: 11/25/2008 8:31:15 AM | bbittenb, then why don't you put up your real picture than one from the web???
Anyway, back on topic. I'm very picky about crossdressers. I actually get very jealous when I see they have nicer legs than I do. When they do it right, it's amazing. I love the whole over the top persona. Lots put real women to shame. When they do it bad, it's really bad though. But you know what? If they aren't hurting anyone and it's what they enjoy, I don't see a problem with it. | |
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Posted: 11/25/2008 8:35:05 AM | playing around the house bored what ever you want to call it .
Its fun as long as it stays home. and during play time | |
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Posted: 11/25/2008 8:39:52 AM | | Hey, I have a pic that I can dig up of me crossdressing, I will put it on my profile...hang on.... | |
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Posted: 11/25/2008 8:45:25 AM | My sister has a lot of experience with this, so does our family. He is currently, in Mexico getting a sex change. Crossdressing, I don't think so................. | |
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Posted: 11/25/2008 4:00:26 PM | just as a note i look wayy better in femme mode than i ever do in male mode.also the selection of women's clothing and shoes is much better than a man's.also i'm very lucky having a pair of legs that amke any woman i have met extremely jealous.mind you many of my women friends luv going clubbing with me just to see the reactions i can get.
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Posted: 11/25/2008 4:56:50 PM | As much as I respect everyones personal choice...
No ****ing way.... NOT for me at ALL. | |
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Posted: 11/26/2008 8:51:31 AM | To Krystall- I am sorry, even though this is your passion, you look like a man in bad women's clothing. Simply put, I saw this destroy a family and it was very sad. We all ask ourselves what is up with the youth today, I think you get my point. Life is tough without adding this to the mix; I think if it it truly your passion, keep it to yourself. I am neither biggoted or opinionated, I don't have to accept it. | |
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Posted: 11/26/2008 9:14:29 AM | lainey, have you seen Krystall's legs? Seriously, great legs for a man or woman! I don't see it being forced upon you his lifestyle. I doubt you fall into each others searches.
Many years ago women couldn't even wear pants without getting shocking stares.
CD's don't hurt anyone. The times that it may hurt is when someone is not allowed to be who they want to be. A lot of married CDs hide it from their wives for fear of ruining the family. And that is why when I was in s/m I had so many crossdressers come to me. It wasn't for sex, it was because their wives didn't understand them or accept them. Live and let live. | |
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Posted: 11/26/2008 3:55:25 PM | onemoretimewithfeeling ty for the compliment.
as for lainey,your post sounds just a little biggoted even though you say you are not.have i ever contacted you,no would be the answer,although me thinks you have been with a crossdresser or know one at some point in time.and i don't do it for a thrill,i just feel freer when in femme mode.if you really want to know i rarely go searching or bothering anyone,they-both men and women-get in touch or e-mail me seeking either to talk or meet.also i have never been out to destroy anyone's life or family,the married men that get in touch with me are the one's trying to do that.the only time i may push the envelope so to speak is when i am out at a club that accepts people like me.anyone that doesn't like people like myself don't have to look or even acknowledge our presence.
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Posted: 12/1/2008 9:58:12 AM | | My post was clear; it isn't for me, I saw a family destroyed after years of counseling and it is wrong. You don't bring children into the mix, period. It has nothing to do with bigotry, it has to do with choice. Yes, I am tired of all other forms of sexuality telling me I am a bigot etc. That is not the point, if you want to look like a man in BAD women's clothing, so be it. I don't have to accept it, this is a forum of public opinion and my opinion is what it is. You can club, you can have men "come to you" or whatever you choose. My post had nothing to do with what YOU are doing; it is what you do to those that are in your family. I think that is pretty clear and nobody has to accept it. | |
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Posted: 12/1/2008 5:17:34 PM | Well it's def for me. I love crossdressing! It's sooo much fun and I don't see how I'm hurting anyone by doing it? It's so trvial....it's just clothing! Women wear mens clothing all the time. Anyway, if you don't agree with my perspective that's cool, I'm just adding my two cents to the discussion.
I mean freaking Dennis Rodman walked down the middle of a crowded street in a wedding dress and it was awesome!
Bree.... | |
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Posted: 12/1/2008 7:01:43 PM | Hummmmm , nothing personal, butttttttt that would defintely be the end of my relationship !! maybe it's my age but if I saw my boyfriend/lover/husband, whoever...walking around in my dress, or even thinking about it, LOL ..NOPE no wayyyyyy ...it would be adios amigoooo for sure ! I would burst out laughing to tell you the truth, sorry but to me I 'll stick to being o'ld fashion or whatever you wanna call it, close minded ...who cares.
Then again ...to each is own, I live and let live,  | |
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Posted: 12/5/2008 5:02:40 PM | There are so many half-truths in this post, and some things that people just assumed that are totally false.
The percentage of Gay Crossdressers is the same as the general population about 8% that means that 92% are straight.
How a person dresses does not predict their sexual preference.
What people see are those crossdressers that are out in the public eye, most do not go out and are closeted. There are those that look so good that they blend into the crowd and you don’t even know they are there. So the ones you see you judge that they don’t look like women.
[u]Unfortunately, most men don't look that great as a cross-dresser. Most of them need serious coaching from women willing to teach them not only how to dress, but effective mannerisms as well.[/u]
[u]One of the most difficult situations for a cross-dresser to master is how to dress in a feminine manner (showing off some skin)[/u]
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I could show you a lot of pics of my friends that you would not believe these were men. Long legs with short skirts, low cut tops showing cleavage, midriff tops showing their flat stomachs, pretty faces. When we are out to the clubs we get many compliments from women on how we look. When out shopping and out in the general public I dress in women’s jeans, nice tops, flats or sneakers, not a lot of makeup, my mannerisms are feminine. I blend in well with the women my age around me. My shoulders and my voice are my Achilles’ heel; my voice is a lot lower than the average woman. My best asset is my own blonde highlighted hair, and my confidence in myself.
[u]As much as we'd like to, for most of us, our build and bone structure prevents us from looking as nice as we'd like to[/u]
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I always felt that way I have a Genetic Woman friend she is a beautiful large boned woman that is always borrowing my clothes (I have a great wardrobe), we are the same size down to the shoes, she is and always will be a friend for almost 20 years now(something most guys can not do), told her over a year ago if anything it has strengthen our friendship.
For more information see the following sites
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Ladies_Out_and_About/
www.URNA.com
www.CD.com
www.Alt.com
or Email me at [KristenKelly77@yahoo.com] remove the [ ] all intellegent questions answered
Add me to your Yahoo IM ID is KristenKelly77 if you would like to chat | |
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Posted: 12/5/2008 5:59:18 PM |
My post was clear; it isn't for me, I saw a family destroyed after years of counseling and it is wrong. You don't bring children into the mix, period. It has nothing to do with bigotry, it has to do with choice. Yes, I am tired of all other forms of sexuality telling me I am a bigot etc. That is not the point, if you want to look like a man in BAD women's clothing, so be it. I don't have to accept it, this is a forum of public opinion and my opinion is what it is. You can club, you can have men "come to you" or whatever you choose. My post had nothing to do with what YOU are doing; it is what you do to those that are in your family. I think that is pretty clear and nobody has to accept it.
Someone who forces family members to cross dress is doing something to their family. Someone who cross dresses himself is doing something to *himself*, and not to his family. I'm guessing that most instances of families "torn apart" by cross dressing have their problems spring from lack of acceptance and understanding.
What does it matter if someone cross dresses? Sure, you can choose not to be around people who do, but judging them as you clearly are *does* display bigotry and a judgmental, ill-informed attitude. | |
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