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Posted: 6/16/2008 7:10:19 PM | | So much of human sexuality is a continuum, something I've learned while exploring my own sexuality and meeting so many people into so many diverse things. And you are so right, gypsygirl29, the vast majority of people who are kinky in some way are normal people with a little more complexity to their sexuality. Unfortunately there's sometimes very visible wackos that can give the rest of us a bad name. And the media and the ultra-right seem to pounce gleefully on those stories! | |
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| Is it a fetish if someone likes to be
Posted: 6/16/2008 11:51:21 PM | | I had a friend who did that phone sex stuff as a job. She told me that there were a lot of guys who would call up and ask for this type of stuff. A lot of the stuff she told me about seemed pretty crazy, but then again, each to their own. She got paid a lot of money to say whatever they wanted to hear. | |
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Posted: 6/17/2008 12:04:53 AM | ""Polititians and Diapers have something in common. Both should be changed regularly.... for the same reason!""
AMEN to that. We should do to most pols what we do to doity diapers too.
who said that? | |
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Posted: 6/17/2008 1:32:27 AM | This was a hilarious episode of CSI, just because of how absurd it is. But it's a real life fetish.
Medically though, a fetish is considered something that someone requires for sexual arrousal that is not considered the norm. So in that sense, I think few people have a true fetish, as most would still be aroused without the requirement of whatever our fetish is. True fetishes can be real problems for people because of that need for arousal.
But I think I enjoy the broad general sense of a fetish, that being anything that isn't the typical norm that is just sexually arousing and enjoyable. Although as that stuff becomes more common, it seems it becomes less taboo and less of a fetish. Today, with the internet and having seen it all, fetish is more of a classification than it's true meaning. | |
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Posted: 6/17/2008 8:10:46 PM | "Polititians and Diapers have something in common. Both should be changed regularly.... for the same reason"
Whatever you say , dr Phil 
If you judge others then be prepared to be judged thyself , as long it isn't anything illegal I'm fine with it...... | |
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Posted: 6/17/2008 10:23:07 PM | "i like would like a woman to sneeze on my genitals"
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I have terrible hay fever and would like to wipe my nose on someone's balls  | |
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Posted: 6/17/2008 10:37:07 PM |
"i like would like a woman to sneeze on my genitals"
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I have terrible hay fever and would like to wipe my nose on someone's balls
I have terrible razor burn and would like to wipe my balls on someone's tongue.
I met some college kids that wore Depends to a strip club because it was "Free drinks till you piss" night....
No? Not the same? | |
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Posted: 6/17/2008 11:58:41 PM |
My tongue itches, isn't that weird???
No Hon. That's merely a physical manifestation of anticipation...
umm... OT: THAT'S weird... | |
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Posted: 6/18/2008 12:58:22 AM |
likes to be babied from time to time (being held, tucked in, sppon fed, given a bath, help with wearing clothes)? I know a few people who were dumped because of this. I mean is it really that bad? Weird but I don't think their long term partner should have done this?
We wonder why society is on so many mental drugs and some of these fetishes say more than what I want to know. Pretty pathetic and sick stuff.
Yes I think its strange and very weird. If a friend of mine asked his wife to treat him that way, I'd kick his ass first, and if any woman asked me to do it, I'd tell her the front door is that way. | |
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Posted: 6/18/2008 1:01:51 AM | | That is disgusting...grown men shouldnt be wearing diaper's unless they have anal leakage or something..It's also weird...next thing you know hell be asking you to spank him...This is a messed up world... | |
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Posted: 6/18/2008 7:27:31 AM | "likes to be babied from time to time (being held, tucked in, sppon fed, given a bath, help with wearing clothes)? I know a few people who were dumped because of this. I mean is it really that bad? Weird but I don't think their long term partner should have done this?"
This IS a fetish, as many have mentioned.
As for the being dumped or not being dumped because of it.... both parties should have been more clear about their sexual and fetish expectations going into the relationship.
No, one should not be dumped for their fetish, but they should have been more communicative and honest with their partner (and themself) from the very begining. If they knew they had this fetish and this absolute need to have this done, they should have said so within the time of dating. Mentioning it several years into a marriage is a bit dishonest.
Personally, I would be more upset that my partner kept this information from me than his need for a fetish or fantasy. | |
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Posted: 6/18/2008 7:55:13 AM | | I like fantasies but dirty diapers and baby talk is not one of them. I saw that CSI episode where they went into a specialty store to buy adult- sized cribs, etc. , for people who want to be babied. Personally, I find it to be without dignity and reeks of insecurities. | |
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Posted: 6/18/2008 4:04:13 PM | Do you know what a fetish is?
If you hope to be babied and pampered -- that is one thing but if you want to be in diapers, have wet wipped your butt thats another thing. | |
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Posted: 6/18/2008 5:16:03 PM | Well to the OP let's break it down from the things you have posted:
Being Held: Don't we all have that soft side that wants to be cuddled if we are sick or feeling low at times or just to be held by your mate is so nice like laying back in her lap in the park on a blanket.
Tucked In: I can remember zillions of times back when I used to drink my ex gf's tucking me into bed or tossing a blanket on me on the couch or in my fav chair when I was passed out or even when I was sick or even if I went to bed before they did cause I had to get up earlier than they had to.
Spoon Fed: Oh man what guy would not like it if he came home and his gf or wife was dressed as a Roman Slave Girl and had a huge spread of exotic food waiting for him and pampered and hand fed him that exotic meal.
Given a bath: Oh hell ya like no guy has ever stood in the shower while his gf or wife totally bathed him and then he returned the favor or this happened in a large indoor bath tub or sauna?
Help with wearing clothes: Many times I have had gf's want me to go shopping with them so they could ask me to try on different styles of clothes to see how I looked in different styles and or at the end of a hard day of work help me remove my clothes and into the tub or shower.
Fetishes? I do not think so as in my opinion fetishes are something that goes way beyond anything considered as the norm.
In closing to all of my fellow men out there if you want to keep that lady happy think totally as far as you can outside of the box.
To bad my last ex gf could not think outside of the box....but that is why she is now my ex.  | |
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Posted: 6/18/2008 5:31:57 PM | i think this is very strange.cuddle,curl up be loved ,but to be treated as a child....no thanks.
i grew out of the and i am all for being spoiled and loved,but to be treated as a child no!!i would run very very fast | |
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Posted: 6/18/2008 8:02:21 PM | | Seriously, I am a pretty open-minded and accepting individual but I draw the line at wiping a grown man's sh!tty a$$. I saw both the CSI AND the SIN CITIES episodes on this fetish and I've gotta say, I just don't get it. | |
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Posted: 6/18/2008 8:06:41 PM | Yes, it's a fetish called Adult Babies or something.
Amazing that you actually know people who were needing that, I don't believe I ever have. | |
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Posted: 6/18/2008 11:40:36 PM | Yes, it's a fetish. It does seem a bit odd, as I want a man in my presence and intimate moments - no a baby per se. However, I am sure there are some women that would play along and have no qualms "babing" the man..............
Some are into fetishes/role playing. If these people were dumped by their S.O., they should make sure when they meet someone that they each discuss what they like with each other and what they won't.
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Posted: 6/19/2008 8:34:08 AM | | It's quite possibly one of the most revolting fetishes I know of, right up there with Coprophilia, Furries, and Necrophilia. | |
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wow no shame uh? it's time to call Dr Phil 