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 yarimelma

Joined: 5/4/2008
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Should a woman buy a round of drinks?
Posted: 6/20/2008 4:23:55 PM
as I said before...
Woman offers to pay
Man says "NO wai.." and pays.
That's the way it goes...
I'd never let a woman pay, that's how I've been raised.
but,
If a woman doesn't offer to pay,
She doesn't get a second date with me.
 borntoski683

Joined: 4/28/2008
Msg: 302
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Posted: 6/20/2008 4:24:47 PM
Well Sienna I actually respect you for being true blue old school if you indeed really are. I don't think the world can really ever go back to that way of living, though frankly I wish it never stopped, but if there are few hopeless romantics left doing it, then power to you.
 HarleyKat~

Joined: 3/30/2008
Msg: 303
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Posted: 6/20/2008 4:25:21 PM
Oh wow....I dunno if any of that even made sense...but Imma tryin'!

<div class="quote">so ill drink it.my martini is more expensive than what was you eatin?

Are we trying to sound snobbish, here?! LOL Sweetums...one of my choice drinks happens to be a martini...dirty...straight up...and I can swig a beer or a shotta Turkey, too! So take offa your martini goggles...it's not a declaration of class! (Not to mention that an APPLE MARTINI should not be able to be classified as such!) LMAO


<div class="quote">ROFL... Kat.. You are definitly one that would be worth chasing.... watch out!

This feline is blushin'! But she is not runnin', either! ;)
 x-rayTechGirl

Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 304
Should a woman buy a round of drinks?
Posted: 6/20/2008 4:28:03 PM
im just trying to answer back what born to ski said about the rage..so i want him to cool down ..his...."head"...opps another freudian slip
you bet --Sienna my fave drink is sour apple martini.i was joking what ive said about born to ski.


sure smuggleR...thanks for the wish..and good luck finding the 'woman that fits like you" no wonder why some women didnt stick with you or the relationship with them never last , because the way you view in treating women, eh smuggllleeRRR'

or save your money to buy a boat (dont pay for women that youre going to date with)-sail away and never come back..so that men like you will at least ONE like you will be out in a dating world. thats my ardent wish for you.

Post #301.thats a good man.ive said that too in one of my posts,but it seems some of the replies didnt get what i was trying to say.

 Smuggler1

Joined: 2/2/2008
Msg: 305
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Posted: 6/20/2008 5:05:51 PM
hey there ray tech girl...

Like I said, your an LBFM... probably wont ever amount to much more than that.

LOL... If being single means staying away from girls like you with such a bad attitude... well then hell... Im Happy as Hell to stay single... At least my wallet will never come into play with such like yourself.

So stick with your apple martini's little girl, and when your ready, come real, or stay home. Because so far, you are nothing but a knee jerk reaction to someone who has something worth saying....

and Im sure your going to respond.... right??
 x-rayTechGirl

Joined: 5/11/2008
Msg: 306
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Posted: 6/20/2008 5:15:08 PM
look whos talking capital JACKASS--
sure you have to "stay" single as crap--haha be defensive,man but deep inside of you you dont want to be single (forever)--you will be afraid to be single as hell that's the fact. who knows when youre old enough and couldnt find any women anymore you will be ended picking up a woman who has a bad attitude like me? for sure i wont take YOU 101%...and what for youre at plenty of fish if you were planning not to "suck up" your wallet, moron?

yes the little girl will respond to you...GENTLE DOG--is that fair enough?
haha so youre true colours are showin...go ahead man,make my day...watch out youre going to have a heart attack responding to the little girl like me.
and oh...i wont give you a CPR instead ill kick your ass OUT to the shore...shoo00 go away,man..you stinks!
watch out your mouth, watch out your money,,eerr your manner--women are miscroscoping you right now.
and i dont know what is LBFM means ..whatever it is..its meaningless to me because i know myself better than you.,DH.
Laughing my ass off*
 James_in_SD

Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 307
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Posted: 6/20/2008 5:28:12 PM
She was brought up drinking? Must have been some childhood.
 borntoski683

Joined: 4/28/2008
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Posted: 6/20/2008 6:09:35 PM
I think the LBFM has pretty much exposed herself for what she is at this point. Nothing else to say about that.

I tell you what that, if I came upon her at a bar I would almost want to buy her drinks just to keep her around to make a fool of herself. She's a riot.
 HarleyKat~

Joined: 3/30/2008
Msg: 309
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Posted: 6/20/2008 6:14:45 PM
OMGawd...I just put LBFM in my browser!!!!

You boys are soooo baaaaaadddd! **spank**

Unfortunately, she would probably take it as a compliment!

OK...on topic to avoid Banned Camp...lol...TGIF! Let's all have a shot on...Xray! :O)
 Smuggler1

Joined: 2/2/2008
Msg: 310
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Posted: 6/20/2008 6:15:31 PM
LBFM's .... they are what they are...

But you never want to keep em around....

Besides... snail trails around the house are messy...

LOL... Can I buy you a drink there Tech??


Oh .... you can google that?? LOL! Old Navy term.... been there, done that...
 1Caligirl

Joined: 1/7/2008
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Posted: 6/20/2008 7:27:21 PM
If a man invites me out on a first date; I feel that if he is a gentleman, he would not ask me to pay. And Yes; I would have offered to buy the next round if he already bought the first few rounds. And, if we are iterested in one another and the situation leads to more dates, and time spent together doing other fun activities, then of course I would pitch in, or at least offer to pitch in. It takes two incomes to make it these days, unless you are independently wealthy.
 Smuggler1

Joined: 2/2/2008
Msg: 312
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Posted: 6/20/2008 7:46:17 PM

If a man invites me out on a first date; I feel that if he is a gentleman, he would not ask me to pay. And Yes; I would have offered to buy the next round if he already bought the first few rounds. And, if we are iterested in one another and the situation leads to more dates, and time spent together doing other fun activities, then of course I would pitch in, or at least offer to pitch in. It takes two incomes to make it these days, unless you are independently wealthy


Hey... LBFM...
This quote, comes from a true lady...

Maybe you should take notes....
 pure_classact

Joined: 4/25/2008
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Posted: 6/21/2008 5:15:41 AM
Hey SmugglerONE

HIGH MAINTENANCE!! SPARE ME ON THAT ONE!! There are men out there that are "old fashioned" and have a lot of pride in them... all depends on the man... trust me... I don't need a man to wine and dine me and try to impress me....but most men out there a just a gentlemen... and wouldn't have it any other way!! As my date said to me "call me old-fashioned if you will" as I proceeded to pay (got that!) for my valet parking... ALL DEPENDS ON THE MAN... LATER ON DOWN THE ROAD, if you both are in a relationship together....there is nothing wrong with each of you buying a round of drinks together...I'll have an LIIT on you!! Good luck fishing!!
 pure_classact

Joined: 4/25/2008
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Posted: 6/21/2008 5:18:05 AM
Hey SmugglerONE

HIGH MAINTENANCE!! SPARE ME ON THAT ONE!! There are men out there that are "old fashioned" and have a lot of pride in them... all depends on the man... trust me... I don't need a man to wine and dine me and try to impress me....but most men out there are just gentlemen... and wouldn't have it any other way!! As my date said to me "call me old-fashioned if you will" as I proceeded to pay (got that!) for my valet parking... ALL DEPENDS ON THE MAN... LATER ON DOWN THE ROAD, if you both are in a relationship together....there is nothing wrong with each of you buying a round of drinks together...I'll have an LIIT on you!! Good luck fishing!!
 Smuggler1

Joined: 2/2/2008
Msg: 315
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Posted: 6/21/2008 5:31:39 AM
ROFL....

Women want it both ways.

Either you're Equal... or your NOT...

Apparently, you feel the need to post your opinion twice... I dont get that...

But last I checked... If a man opens a door, or pulls out the chair... he runs the risk of being called a chauvanist pig..

Same token... if he Fails to open the door, or fails to pull out the chair... he runs the risk of being called a mannerless pig..

Your feminist sisters have done a lot for SCREWING THAT UP! Go bytch at them... The way I see it, either way I turn, I run the risk of being called something... So why should I expect anything different from the likes of you??
 pure_classact

Joined: 4/25/2008
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Posted: 6/21/2008 6:51:00 AM
Mr Smuggler:

It's all in how your raised - sounds to me like you don't have a sense of manners... if you don't like opening doors for women or pulling a chair out.. well, then... that's you!! Don't blame it on all the women out here for "screwing it up " by calling you a pig with no manners... sounds to me like there are some angers issues within yourself....
 SKAJ

Joined: 5/29/2008
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Posted: 6/21/2008 7:16:34 AM
pure_classact what you're not getting is that for a lot of men it is this attitude;

Are you kidding me? In all my dating experiences, I have never paid for a drink... nor would I! If a gentlemen is asking you out... well, then, be a gentlemen for God's sake and pay for the drink....

that we find deplorable. I'm sorry, but on the first few dates a guy does not know if you're woth pursuing, and that outlook on life probably doesn't help your case. In the end it is not about the money. Many men spend money on things they don't want or need. That fact that you would not even consider chipping in even as a social gesture says a lot about you. It seems that you think that a man spending money on you somehow shows affection or interest. Shelling out money does not make that person a gentleman, and it's too bad that you can't realize that.
 opnmydm

Joined: 3/23/2008
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Posted: 6/21/2008 7:38:34 AM
hel yes they should buy a round or 2..why can't women buy a few drinks? is there something written somewere in the year of 2008 that states they are not allowed?
next......
 mlt07

Joined: 4/26/2007
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Posted: 6/21/2008 7:59:50 AM
[well why should we buy a round of drinks, I mean are you that CHEAP that you can
buy all the drinks, maybe you should find a woman that is not that materailic
jut keep buy the drinks you cheap idiot]




Sexydancingprincess: You have illustrated far better than I ever could the type of woman I & I think most guys wouldn't want to come within a mile of with your post!! Thank you, I rest my case. This is just a thought but I bet your a FUN date???
 Smuggler1

Joined: 2/2/2008
Msg: 320
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Posted: 6/21/2008 8:02:55 AM

It's all in how your raised - sounds to me like you don't have a sense of manners... if you don't like opening doors for women or pulling a chair out.. well, then... that's you!! Don't blame it on all the women out here for "screwing it up " by calling you a pig with no manners... sounds to me like there are some angers issues within yourself....


ROFL....

Ummm Yeah, I was raised with manners... But... as it stands... YOU just proved my point. Sense of manners... Please... How about you get a sense of Class, or is that something you are lacking ???

I didnt "blame it on all women," apparently your reading comprehension skills are a bit lacking as well... go brush up on those too... please. I stated 'feminists' screwed it up.

With women like yourself trying so desperately to gain vestiges of lost youth, and providing such comical rhetoric.... How could I ever be angry??
 easterbunnny

Joined: 6/2/2008
Msg: 321
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Posted: 6/21/2008 8:19:04 AM
i didn't read all replies.. so maybe will repeat something already said.
if you can't afford drinks - don't invite her for a drink... go for a piknick or something totally free.. like walk in the park... it is very rude and offensive what you've done.
 mlt07

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Posted: 6/21/2008 8:23:42 AM
[Are you kidding me? In all my dating experiences, I have never paid for a drink... nor would I! If a gentlemen is asking you out... well, then, be a gentlemen for God's sake and pay for the drink.... you need to get real here! If you expect a woman to pay for a drink... all I have to say is.... most men wouldn't even think of having a woman pay for a drink... no matter what her salary is... etc... I've even had many men pay for valet parking too.. without expecting it... and just saying "thank you".. happy fishing... and happy drinking!!]



Pure classact: You really are a pure-class-act!!!!
 HarleyKat~

Joined: 3/30/2008
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Posted: 6/21/2008 8:40:59 AM
ACT is right. LOL

PureClass...what would be the equivalent for a WOMAN to do...that you are expecting from a man? You know...to show these "manners?" Do you promise to obey, honor, and iron his tightie whities?! Keep me outta the stone ages, please!

PAYING FOR DRINKS HAS NADA TO DO WITH MANNERS! Sheesh!

The only time I want a man to pay for anything, is when it is because he would LIKE to...he wants to treat me because he sincerely WANTS to...not cause he CAN.

Easterbunny...you might wanna read the posts! LOL The point is NOT whether or not the dude CAN afford it, per se...it's more about the fact that these so called women think it is entitlement simply because they host tits, azz, and a pvssy!
 easterbunnny

Joined: 6/2/2008
Msg: 324
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Posted: 6/21/2008 9:39:53 AM

He didn't offer he was politely trying to find away to get her to pay.


why make your date do something they don't want ? let it slide and forget about her... it is a FIRST date. what if she tried to change something about you ? what if she thinks your hairstyle is bad and tries to correct it or argues her point ?
i think it is very offensive what this guy did.
 HarleyKat~

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Posted: 6/21/2008 9:47:24 AM
Imma curious, MLT07....and if I missed the update already...my aplogies...I will buy you a drink!

But when you started debating with this little Princess...did you end up paying for that 3rd round?! Or did you all just get parched!?

I think comparing a hairstyle to buying a drink, is a little moot though! ;)

And if a woman feels so strongly in her "principles" of having everything be on the fellas dime...then maybe SHE should be the one clarifying such, upfront. Like when she accepts a meet...she should make no assumptions and just say, "Just so you know...I am the sort of Princess who expects a man to pay!"
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