| Women don't really care much for men do they?
Posted: 6/18/2008 7:25:26 AM | Like it or not, theres an inherent natural law that exists between the sexes. Women have it over us. There will never be equality of the sexes.
In the matting dance, men have to prove themselves to her.
It goes back to the Principle of the Least Interest. | |
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| Women don't really care much for men do they?
Posted: 6/18/2008 7:29:48 AM | says you pal. thats why you still dont have a female.
Go kiss that ass and see where it gets you. Nowhere. Grow a spine and don't care about female approval. Read around here, it's what they want.
BTW, I've only been single for 6 months and in no rush. | |
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| Women don't really care much for men do they?
Posted: 6/18/2008 7:38:32 AM | Read below.
And remember maybe the reason why you are here is women can smell the misogynist in you.
"We men can be very vain at times and it is through the approval of women that our masculinity is statified, if we are found to be in favour by other women.
On the other hand one may seek the approval of other women because they feel inferior to them.
Men want and need the attention of women. And their approval too, which is why men build muscles (show offs!), go for high paying jobs, etc. If women did not exist, men would be fat, lazy, ungroomed and unmotivated.
Woman will always have power over men because of who they are (power of puss* as one of many) (I think the most beautiful of all God's creations).
Any woman has the power to turn heads, to send a man weak at the knees at the mearest glance in his direction.
He quivers with delight if he knows that she appoves of him." | |
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| Women don't really care much for men do they?
Posted: 6/18/2008 7:40:17 AM | A simple personal opinion of Mine:
Like it or not, theres an inherent natural law that exists between the sexes. Women have it over us. There will never be equality of the sexes.
In the matting dance, men have to prove themselves to her.
It goes back to the Principle of the Least Interest.
gets a rude comment from you. What are you so bitter about anyway? Did I personally attack you? Grow up and stop acting like a disgruntled brat. No wonder you are without a female. | |
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| Women don't really care much for men do they?
Posted: 6/18/2008 7:42:48 AM | Men who accumulate large fortunes, and attain to great heights of power and fame, do so, mainly, to satisfy their desire to please women.
Take women out of their lives, and great wealth would be useless to most men.
It is this inherent desire of man to please woman, which gives woman the power to make or break a man.
And this is only my view which I choose to express freely and without acrimonious comments. | |
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| Women don't really care much for men do they?
Posted: 6/18/2008 7:52:55 AM |
I interact with men, most of my friends/aquaintances are men...but unless I accidentally come across a man whilst doing all those wonderful ME things... I just dont look for it. I just go around doing my thang.
Ive got better things to do than manhunt and if the OP wants to consider that not caring...well so be it.
I agree with Kyn on this one. Men are present everywhere, so it's silly to hunt for them. And there are women who aren't worried about being alone so they don't feel pressured to find one - they have friends, family, activities, work, etc. If they are social enough and get out of the house enough they'll bump into someone anyway while doing other things. If they never do, then it wasn't meant to be - oh well, it's not like it's the main thing in life.
Hunting for a man is counter productive for two reasons: it takes up a lot of time and yeilds small to no results which leads to frustration over something you can't control anyway, and it gives you a vibe that makes people run from you. Much the same as women will run from men who are hunting...it's a vibe that's not far off from neediness/desperation when you're trying to tag and bag the opposite sex. They come to you if you're happy, content, and frankly if you would be even if you were single forever. That's what's attractive.
If you're referring to sex, then I will agree. But if not, then I completely disagree. Women do have to work for man if what she wants is a man who is appealing to her as a whole. It's pretty naive for ANY woman to believe that she will just sit back and a great man will just come her way. Why should he bother to seek her out if she's too lazy to make an effort herself?
If she makes an effort to be social, friendly and open to people while also being totally happy about who she is and where her life's going, then yes - a great guy will come her way. Obviously if she just works and goes home and never leaves the house no one will know where she is to find her. But even errands get you out of the house once in a while, and if you're a good person, that's all it takes.
I think wanting keep a man and keep a relationship good is where the work comes in. A man who's into you won't be cause you're standing on your head trying to please him...and a man who's not won't change his mind for it either. The key is to work your numbers, and be comfortable in your own skin. | |
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| Women don't really care much for men do they?
Posted: 6/18/2008 8:07:46 AM | gets a rude comment from you. What are you so bitter about anyway? Did I personally attack you? Grow up and stop acting like a disgruntled brat. No wonder you are without a female
WTF is your problem?
Insults WTF?
Are you involved with a woman?
If you seek female approval in words and actions, you WILL be alone. It's as simple as that. I don't care about the outcomes of the way I interact with women but for some reason they still want me to interact with them. They look forward to it. I speak my mind and they love it. And I say what I want and I don't care. That's the thing, I don't care if they approve or not. And they come back for more. | |
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| Women don't really care much for men do they?
Posted: 6/18/2008 8:18:04 AM | P.S. rrainmakersaw...wanna expore some worship? You're cute and relatively local...are you free this weekend? lol
Seriously, yes I agree that a person can feel useless and like there's no point in their life if someone isn't there to share it with....male or female. | |
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| Women don't really care much for men do they?
Posted: 6/18/2008 8:22:33 AM | That how nice guys come about. You don't need female approval for jack.
You are the only one who needs to approve of yourself. That's what women are looking for.
You said that right.
The only womerns who want a guy whose life philosophy is to seek female approval are the manipulative control freaks.
It's like, "yeah buddy, hope ya enjoy being her b!tch!".  | |
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| Women don't really care much for men do they?
Posted: 6/18/2008 9:42:51 AM | You said that right.
The only womerns who want a guy whose life philosophy is to seek female approval are the manipulative control freaks.
It's like, "yeah buddy, hope ya enjoy being her b!tch!".
Yep. And if men continue to think like that, then women will act just like the title of this thread suggest.
Women do care but just not for the men who are up their asses constantly seeking their approval.
Instead, present a challenge to them and see what happens. Don't seek approval from them. Get their respect and see how things will be different. | |
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| Women don't really care much for men do they?
Posted: 6/18/2008 9:55:54 AM |
we prefer a man to ask us what we want so there's no confusion on either end.
That is total bull and you know it. You know as well as i do that women don't KNOW what they want!!   | |
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| Women don't really care much for men do they?
Posted: 6/18/2008 11:02:43 AM | ^^^ Poster...you might wanna google this...cos frankly I couldnt be bothered.
Statistically...most successful long term relationships include couples who look "similar".
ie. people that almost look like they could be siblings.
Dunno why it is...but it is.
The theories behind this are so flattering:
1) They look like us, and we are attracted to familiarity: IE: the more we look in the mirror the more we are attracted to someone who looks just like us but masculine/feminine. I read a study where they digitally recreated the test subject into a person of the opposite sex and mixed their digital recreation in with lots of real people - and the test subjects consistently gave opposite gender them the highest rating for attraction when presented with the pictures.
2) Similiar to 1, we are generally in love with ourselves as human beings.
3) They remind us of actual family members (mom, dad, brother, sister, cousin) < - yikes
4) people like others they feel are of equal attractiveness for a long term relationship because they think they are less likely to trade up | |
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| Women don't really care much for men do they?
Posted: 6/18/2008 7:29:47 PM | Oh My God dude...Seriously, do you have to passive agressively attack every guy that disagrees with you in this thread?
Sorry rant over..
And on to the topic we go...
I don't feel that women overlook me on purpose, they just have a lot of options to pick from. Every once in a great while I wish the option they picked was me , but what are you gonna do?
Just because a woman isn't interested in me it doesn't make her a b!tch or any other lovely words in our language that are less than flattering to a woman. It just means that I'm not her cup of tea. Are there times I wish I was...Of course there is. Are there times that I think that life isn't fair.....He** yeah there is. Does it make me angry and bitter at women......NO. They have a right to chose who they want to be with. Even if some of their choices are idiotic.
Plus isn't it kind of egotistical to think that women should be trying to get your attention all of the time????
I will agree to some of what was said about the women being friends thing though. I've got quite a few women that are friends with me, but I'm intentionally not as close friends with them as I probably could be. The reason is that I've gotten hurt that way in the past. Fell head over heels for a friend that didn't feel the same way, she was super nice about turning me down, said all the nice things; "You're too great a guy. I don't wanna ruin what we have. If I hurt you I don't know how I'd stand it." but it didn't matter. I was crushed. I know it's not her fault but mine, and I know that I brought it on myself, but it still tore me up. Then things got ackward and we talked less and less and now I don't even hear about her anymore.
So I think that it's perfectly acceptable to have girls that are just friends, but I won't be as close to them as my other friends. I just can't be that hurt again.
And as for the guys worried that women don't care for men much......You have too much time on your hands.
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| Women don't really care much for men do they?
Posted: 6/18/2008 7:59:08 PM |
I will agree to some of what was said about the women being friends thing though. I've got quite a few women that are friends with me, but I'm intentionally not as close friends with them as I probably could be. The reason is that I've gotten hurt that way in the past. Fell head over heels for a friend that didn't feel the same way, she was super nice about turning me down, said all the nice things; "You're too great a guy. I don't wanna ruin what we have. If I hurt you I don't know how I'd stand it." but it didn't matter. I was crushed. I know it's not her fault but mine, and I know that I brought it on myself, but it still tore me up. Then things got ackward and we talked less and less and now I don't even hear about her anymore.
So I think that it's perfectly acceptable to have girls that are just friends, but I won't be as close to them as my other friends. I just can't be that hurt again.
Well said. | |
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| Women don't really care much for men do they?
Posted: 6/18/2008 9:43:11 PM | I could careless if the guy showed up in jeans and Jesus sandals...........as long as he is clean!! I mean....hygiene-wise.............and yes, in the mind and soul too. | |
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| Women don't really care much for men do they?
Posted: 6/19/2008 11:31:56 AM | > It goes back to the Principle of the Least Interest.
So you're basically answering the thread title's question in the affirmative, that women show less interest in men (than the other way around - regardless of what they may say), and therefore they don't really care about men very much.
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| Women don't really care much for men do they?
Posted: 6/19/2008 11:46:30 AM | So you're basically answering the thread title's question in the affirmative, that women show less interest in men (than the other way around - regardless of what they may say), and therefore they don't really care about men very much.
So how does the fact that many women arent constantly on the prowl looking for someone to date/marry/sleep with equate to we dont care about men very much? So would it be fair to say that because you arent looking for a new puppy, and arent constantly looking at dogs, that you don't like dogs, or that because you arent hungry at any given time, you don't like food, because according to this logic, you should be constantly looking, eating, buying food in order to like food.
There are some awfully bizarre leaps of logic going on in this thread. I suppose that because I dont spend my time ensuring that some random man who is looking for a partner, ctually gets one, I dont care about men? | |
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| Women don't really care much for men do they?
Posted: 6/19/2008 12:00:48 PM | First off, most women don`t walk around a pub checking out each men`s behinds and then attempting to mate with the finest physical specimen. that`s not what we are about. Also, how socially acceptable do you think it would be for women to act like alot of the guys do? They have a name for women like that.
The other thing is that most of us know the game. We know why the guys that are preening and fluffing and putting on the show. It`s to mate. Tonight! That may not be on our agenda or on our list of priorities, or in our best interest. Most women (not all)
are usually looking for a man with qualities that she might like to have him around for more than a wham bam in the parking lot. You can`t see those qualities in how a pair of jeans fit (at least not in total )
So basically women choose to mate in a little different way than men. It`s not all visual
and we don`t have the big hormone storms nearly as often. That urge is just not that strong that we need to grasp every opportunity, nor do we want to. We need a little more time to get to know you, your nature, your inside. I wish more guys would understand that instead of trying to force the issue. | |
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