| why do people lie about liking big women?
Posted: 6/8/2005 10:00:42 AM | I think this is a subject that has been beaten to within inches of it's life...but obviously, remains unresolved.
As a few of you have stated, it does come down to a matter of preference for the individual. For myself, I got to the point where I thought..'what will I do when I get older? I don't want to have a lot of extra weight in my sixties and have my knees give out." So, a year ago, I stopped drinking anything with sugar in it, got on a treadmill for 20 minutes three times a week. Starting parking my car further away from the store entrances, walking to the bank instead of driving. And in a year.. it's been almost thirty pounds gone with just that little bit of effort. And yes, I got alot of attention before losing the weight..but I do get more attention now, and I'm enjoying it. It's kinda cool to turn a head or two. 
I still endulge in sinful chocolate or cheesecake when I really want it..because, hell, I could get hit by a bus tomorrow, and I wanna die happy! 
I still have thirty pounds to go, but being a taller girl, it's nice to be able to look more proportionedly pretty than I did a year ago. To be able to take six flights of stairs without getting winded. To be able to play softball and make it to first base without the firstbaseman asking.. " hey.. you need me to call the amblulance?" LoL The change on the outside has made a difference on my inside. I am more confident because I have made this change for ME not for someone else. The bonuses physically and emotionally have been pretty cool. I'm certainly not saying that anyone who is overweight needs to diet or that everyone needs to be thinner. This worked for me..I wanted to be healthier for me..and my future. Whatever works for you...is just as cool. Just be happy with your decision what ever it is. Don't expect others to make you happy. Be happy with what/who you are .. and if you're not, then make the necessary changes. Just do it for YOU, first. Remember Who made you and just do the best with what you've been given. Everyone that posts here makes this an interesting adventure every time I visit. Thanks! | |
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| why do people lie about liking big women?
Posted: 6/8/2005 10:11:22 AM | huggskisss
In my case No one lied... Photos where sent.. There is no reason to lie about myself and every other guy on here that knows me knows my body shots and how I look.. I also have a web cam they can see how I look... Some guys say YA sounds great and you look hot....and then they end up playing a game. If they ask I show what I have, If they don't ask I tell...  | |
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| why do people lie about liking big women?
Posted: 6/8/2005 10:20:37 AM | | I like women with a little meat on them but not rolls of lard. I'm not trying to offend anyone but if you are not used to seeing it, A large woman can be a little overwhelming when she takes it all off. I guess you see I've had the experience and some guys like it more than others | |
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| why do people lie about liking big women?
Posted: 6/8/2005 12:25:09 PM | | Girl they do like big women. It is the pressure from their " buddies " that they can't deal with. I am a sexy big woman and i know this. I am alone because i am looking for something in particular. but, in case these guys did not know it ... big girls are the flavor of the new millenium. They need to get it together before they mess around and let a good woman pass them by. Hold it down in Cali girl !!!! | |
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| why do people lie about liking big women?
Posted: 6/8/2005 12:39:36 PM | big girls are like electric scooters they are fun to ride when your alone but its not so cool when your friends are there.......
personaly i like big girls because i think they can work it better.. but i admit i usauly only date the skinny ones.. | |
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| why do people lie about liking big women?
Posted: 6/8/2005 12:52:58 PM |
Sargasm does it because he is self conscious about his own weight, and its easier to put down the women than putting down himself. Just my opinion, i have seen him voice his opinion on a couple of different threads about heavier women. There is definitely some issues with him, what ever they may be.
is that Freudism or Jungism? either way, it's a little off base.
yes...i don't like the fact that i'm about 10-15 pounds overweight. but i'm also doing something about it. i walk between 3 and 5 km a day, i'm watching my intake as well...and it's showing. i'm taking positive steps towards reducing my weight, not whining about it or making excuses on a forum.
seriously...if you're that defensive about your weight...step away from the keyboard and get some cardio going!! | |
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| why do people lie about liking big women?
Posted: 6/9/2005 4:42:28 AM | Hey here's an idea, how about a thread for people who ARE taking positive steps to lose weight?People could share ideas,maybe support one another.Better to be doing something about the problem than wondering why people don't like us.
Just a thought | |
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Joined: 5/30/2005
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| why do people lie about liking big women?
Posted: 6/9/2005 10:33:17 AM | You know, I have alot of people that love me, a family that loves me, a daughter I wouldn't give up for the world, and I've had TWO relationships in the past 10 years. One marriage and one long term. And never once did those two tell me to those weight because it would be healthier. Hell, they liked my body and my "healthy" butt lol. So, as far as I'm concerned, if you don't like it, pass it. There's other people out there that will like me for who I am. And if they can't get past my weight to see what a really good person I am inside, well, their loss.
And pssylvr (what a nickname): Looks like you won't be "riding" any scooters from this site. Your attitude about big women SUCKS. | |
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| why do people lie about liking big women?
Posted: 6/9/2005 12:49:09 PM | I prefer "curvy" women greatly. This is NOT meant as a slight to those who are NOT "curvy".I would not slam anyone due to being "too skinny" nor "too fat","curvy" is simply MY preference.Having said that,I think many have varying ideas as to what "curvy","BBW","volumptuous"fuller figured" and "heavyset" are. To ME,curvy and volumptuous are very nearly synonomous. I always say when there is at least a 10" differential between the waist and hips(waist smaller of the 2 ) that makes a woman "curvy".If the waistline is ABOVE 36 the differential should be at least 12".Curvy and BBW/heavyset are NOT necessarily the same,in fact often are not IMO.
I think fitness is VERY important regardless of bodytype.
so do you think big girls are nicer, cause we have to be to get a man?
I don't think bodysize has ANYTHING to do with being nice,compassion,passion,considerate,loving nor does it determine fidelity,nor honesty.In other words,IMO,the answer is NO.
I want a woman to stay/become fit because I CARE. I know fitness improves overal feeling of self worth.I know fitness improves energy.I know it prolongs health.I know it helps vitality.For me its not about "losing weight" its about staying or becoming/improving fitness level. this is regardless of bodysize/type.I enjoy incorperating fitness into our lives,it becomes yet another common interest that bonds. | |
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Joined: 1/11/2005
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| why do people lie about liking big women?
Posted: 6/9/2005 3:58:20 PM | Its no lie I really do like big women. Especially those that undstand they don't have to be barbie to be attractive. I've felt this way for some time. The problem is finding a big woman who would like to be loved and admired and even spoiled.
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| why do people lie about liking big women?
Posted: 6/9/2005 4:01:05 PM | | Yes what you say is true marathon, but society helps us to feel differenly. It may be the ideal match but in the back of my mind I would think, what will my family and friends think and more importantly, what do I think. I like plump curvey women but I don't like it to excees. I am now 10-15 lbs. overwieght and I hate the way it looks and the way I feel. I guess in this case I'm a product of conditioning. | |
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| why do people lie about liking big women?
Posted: 6/9/2005 6:16:34 PM | some people like fat people. and there's nothing wrong with that...and yes...fat girls/guys have to lower their expectations a little because a fat person isn't as visually appealing to most people as would be someone who's in shape
^^^Sargasm...i have lost ALL respect for you....that was pig headed comment from you...and not i have no respect for you what so ever...
First off im fat..obese, cow, pig, whatever the flip ya wanna call me...but by NO means do I lower MY standards of who I choose to talk to or date just b/c im fat...how many people do you see out there w/a hot body, ugly face and an ugly personality...i think im cute..my body..well im working on it..and i love my personality....but i refuse to lower my standards of who i chose to talk to b/c im fat..thats just downright stupid....ive had guys(a lot on here) just email me b/c im heavy b/c they think I'll be easy that im so hard up for some sex that i cant get any..so i'll sleep w/whoever comes around...THINK AGAIN....i have self respect..i have self esteem...im so sick of people putting others down b/c of the outside...if ya dont like fat chicks..then so be WHAT GIVE YOU the right to insult anyone???? dont like short guys..fine..but dont insult them...this world would be so much better if we learned to love each other instead of constantly beating one and other up b/c of the outside....bbw, skinny, average, athletic..ya know what we are all human..and we deserve to be treated w/respect...dont like someone for the way they look...then move on...dont insult...grow up and move on :) | |
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| why do people lie about liking big women?
Posted: 6/9/2005 6:47:46 PM | aint nothing wrong with a bbw.
id rather have a bbw to play with rather than some scrawny chick that cant take a real man
without getting hurt. | |
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| why do people lie about liking big women?
Posted: 6/9/2005 9:55:05 PM | | I'm a bigger girl.. (not horribly overweight but do have some weight to lose) and I don't care anymore. I exercise, walk 20km a day and am in decently good shape, despite having extra poundage. I just came to the realization a year ago that this is me, and if someone doesn't like me because I have some extra weight, that's THEIR problem because I know I'm a good person who deserves better than some shallow guy who doesn't take the time to know me because of how I look. | |
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| why do people lie about liking big women?
Posted: 6/9/2005 10:19:32 PM | | It's my opinion that humans; like animals, are instinctive to what ithey find to be attractive. A heavy woman appears to be well nourished and prepared for gestation, delivery and nursing young. Too heavy, instinctively, appears to be unhealthy...That's why the buff bods seem to go together. | |
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| why do people lie about liking big women?
Posted: 6/10/2005 4:56:20 AM | | if your sick of the fat girl threads angellips then why do you bother checking in to read them. the choice is yours to come here or not. can you make that decision or are you drawn to them like a fly on xxxx? these are the opinions of people who have something to say. if you dont want to see them then dont come here. | |
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| why do people lie about liking big women?
Posted: 6/10/2005 10:19:58 AM | The same could be said for wanting a guy with a bigger penis...but you don't hear that said very often because they can't change it.
Is it size that matters so much as lifestyle and health? I mean if a woman or man is extremely overweight and can't run to the bus stop, there is something in his/her life that could use changing. I could not find that an attractive thing.
I think there is always a compatibility range there and I think there are many people out there who are very overweight and refuse to do anything about it while they say I'm accepting myself this way, you should too.
Bull...no one needs to accept anything, unless they truly do. Some men won't enjoy an overweight female and some women won't enjoy an overweight male. Yet, I have seen some mildly overweight men who were delicious looking...and I wouldn't toss his extra chops if I had him in my life. More sex would be in order I suppose LOL ! such a great way to burn fat. But... if I'm having fantasies about having sex with him and suddenly his gut weighs into my mental image as a potential obstacle, I'm going to feel put off a bit.
I am mildly overweight...I have a belly ponch and some extra cellulite on my butt I'd much rather be without. Mind you, I've also had four kids. Under it all I'm reasonably fit. I've never had anyone complain about my weight except myself most of the time. I am however, very mobile in bed and I think that is important to some. It is to me...it's more fun. When it comes to romantic interest, the sex IS a very important issue for moi.
If you fall in love with someone for who they could be and not who they are...you're setting yourself up for some bad stuff IMO.
If you like it plump and ripe and juicy, I say have at it. But if you like it lean and athletic, have at it too. It's all good in my opinion.
Fat is NOT where it's at...period...fitness is. Doesn't matter what size you are...as long as you are fit.
And I eat at McDonald's plenty thank you very much...coo coo catchoo! LOL! Mmmmm big mac! But...I also walk an hour a day and run my ass of with the rest of my life. | |
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| why do people lie about liking big women?
Posted: 6/10/2005 10:26:02 AM | Hey p u s s y lvr...how big is your c o c k? I want to see if you measure up for any woman, fat or skinny...heheeh...take that! What sucks, is that you can't change that...how does it feel now...and by the way, i'm a little thick not heavily overweight but I wouldn't give a guy like you the time of day with that attitude..you soooo suck and have a lot of learning to do...you wouldn't get a chance to see this kitty work it....hahahahaha!
OH LOOK A FRIEND OF YOURS JUST JUMPED THE CLIFF...QUICK RUN AFTER HIM!
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