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Well, it doesnt bring me to " tears" i just have to take a deep breath and try to let everything go loose. I find if i kiss him or do something i dont feel it as much. I am making an appointment tomorrow, i need to have a papsmear done anyway.
I've had several women confirm this; they all said that the initial moment of insertion was always a bit painful. Disclaimers in the conversation all had that just slightly hesitant response, kind of making their adversarial argument questionable. Kind of makes intercourse an even more iffy proposition than before; and since then, I'll always be thinking about possibly causing someone pain (talk about a mood killer). Not real good for any of us who really are concerned about our partner's pleasure.
try ab0lene cream. you may be wet, but abolene has a "thicker" lubrication. it is probably size (width) if it's upon entry. if the pain is at the "end", you're cervix bumping (also very painful), so in that case, adjust positions with you arching away to stop complete entry. if the opposite (insufficent length) then the pillow is used to arch forward.
also make sure your bladder is empty. by holding in urine, you are creating bladder infection potential and also you tend to hold your muscles, not relaxing as needed.
some drugstores carry abolene and others don't. if necessary look online. it's been around a long, long time and nobody has ever shown me something better. it's greasy, but does not stain.
it's not as sticky as vasoline. not as thin as vaginal lubricants and also does not dry up as fast. it prevents irritation, protects your tissues, and also the beginning spasm is not as much because it glides rather than rips and gives muscles less cause to overreact.
that 's the best i can do in words, trying to explain. this all assumes you've checked with gyn. also, gently wash away afterwards. relubricate when necessary. keep it by your bed!
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