| creepd out the second you meet him
Posted: 6/19/2008 6:01:33 PM | | NO did you read the part about me being a virgin, I didn't see it coming. This was 10 years ago. A deer in the headlights moment I would have been 18 and he was in his mid 20s. | |
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| creepd out the second you meet him
Posted: 6/19/2008 6:09:17 PM | [Because his picture made him seem like a completely different person & when he ate he talked with his mouth full & little particals went everywhere..really gross.]
Too funny ! 
I met a young lady that stared at my hair all night long so finally I had to ask her why and she said that a friend had told her that she should look at my forehead if she was nervous.
I'm not sure why that would help, but it sure made me wonder what her problem was.
I caused an Ewww (inadvertantly);
I was going to meet another young lady and I told her that I was a little older that my pics would indicate as a joke along with joking about having a goiter, etc.
All in good fun.
Well, she was waiting for me in a park and before I got there this old guy (I was 35 at the time, he was like 70) comes up to her and starts hitting on her, so she thinks I really am this guy and bugs out. Took a little convincing to get her to meet me still, but she did and we had a good laugh. | |
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| creepd out the second you meet him
Posted: 6/19/2008 7:37:14 PM | | I was only creeped out once and had an ewwww moment...I just dont get why some men put old photos on here thinking we wont notice that they aged about 20 years in the matter of a few weeks we talked and then met...ugh! | |
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| creepd out the second you meet him
Posted: 6/19/2008 7:38:53 PM | I walked in and the man that introduced himself as my date looked NOTHING like I had expected. His head was smaller than his neck, he had girly hands and to top it off when he leered at me you could see he was missing half his teeth.
Another guy I met looked nothing like his picture. Instead he looked like a female friend of mine with a mustache. Everytime I looked at him an image of him in a dress would pop into my mind. | |
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| creepd out the second you meet him
Posted: 6/19/2008 7:46:44 PM | Oh yeah. The very first date I had via meeting online.
This guy had hands like a boy.......a young boy. Looked like they didn't belong to him.
I couldn't help but keep glancing at those hands the entire time. They were very odd looking to say the least. | |
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| creepd out the second you meet him
Posted: 6/19/2008 7:55:13 PM |
This guy had hands like a boy.......a young boy. Looked like they didn't belong to him.
"It rubs the lotion on its skin or else it gets the hose again. " ~~ Buffalo Bill, Silence of the Lambs | |
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| creepd out the second you meet him
Posted: 6/19/2008 8:45:00 PM | Yes. My stomach literally turned over with a primal feeling of fear.
Unfortunately, as someone very young, who was constantly squashing down fear related to social situations and life in general, I squished that feeling and ignored my instinct because I couldn't see any good reason for feeling that way.
He turned out to be a very bad lot and I'd have been wiser to turn tail and run the moment I laid eyes on him. On the positive side, I learned a lot from not running, even if it was not a happy time. One of the things I learned was that instincts are not always stupid and to be ignored. | |
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| creepd out the second you meet him
Posted: 6/19/2008 9:17:38 PM |
So if it has, please bare with me.
Talk about creepy, I don't even know you. I ain't baring nothing & I'd rather you didn't either. | |
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| creepd out the second you meet him
Posted: 6/19/2008 9:20:59 PM | | I had the height lie and it was not cool if I can see the top of your head and you say your 5 ft 10 theres a problem I did nt wear heels and I am 5ft 7. the lie issue to me is gross & made a very bad impression. | |
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| creepd out the second you meet him
Posted: 6/19/2008 9:58:41 PM | | I have once. Sometimes you just get the instant vibe (even if he's being fairly polite) that this person is cold-hearted and could easily hurt you. It doesn't happen often, but it's something in the eyes maybe, or the way they speak. Didn't come out in IM chat. But instantly in person. I say, if you get that creepy feeling, go with the gut - better to be safe than sorry. I went through with the meeting, but I actually made sure he walked away before even walking towards home just in case he was paying attention, and even ducked into a store for a while. What made the creepy feeling worse was that he was talking about this tv series called Very Bad Men, that had stories about serial killers and various other bad men, but he was talking about them not with disgust but with fascination. EWWWW. He couldn't have creeped me more out if he tried. | |
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| creepd out the second you meet him
Posted: 6/19/2008 10:34:06 PM | Yeah - but they are still on here and I'm a gentle soul. I won't hurt their feelings by telling their stories, but 3 of them are nothing like their pictures or their self descriptions. Shorter WAY shorter, older by 10-15 years just so much difference that it is dissapointing. I don't think I'm ALL THAT, but dang it I'm honest and I will send a photo if asked nicely.
The saddest was one who was not particularly appealing in any way to me but said something that hurt so badly I couldn't even speak - I just got up and left. I have arthritis, so what, it's not freakin contagious for God's sake! I live life way more actively than many people male or female around my age. But this ass*ole looked at my hands with utter disgust and said "well you're a cute little woman, but jeeeeze I couldn't have to stand to look at those hands every day." Believe me little man these hands ain't nearly as ugly as your little dried up raisin of a heart.
Whew where the hell did THAT rant come from? Too much ice coffee :) | |
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| creepd out the second you meet him
Posted: 6/20/2008 4:26:48 AM | I havent had many "Ewwww" moments, tons of awkward ones, but only one very "ew" one comes to mind.
I had a guy pick me up at my house once, he showed up with flowers and all (Even though I have a strong disliking of flowers, I took them politely.) He seemed nice, not to bad on the eyes, but not like his pictures either. (Girls watch out for those fuzzy profile pictures lol.)
Everything was good until we got to dinner and his conversations were definately not things you discuss on a first date or at the dinner table. His table manners were horrible and I can't stand people chewing with their mouth open. With every perverse question he asked, he would slip in a cheesey compliment which made me just as uncomfortable as the questions.
Luckily enough, a few friends of mine was at the same restaurant and I casually slipped away from the table with my drink, left money on the table to pay for my drinks and meal and went to sit with my friends.
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| creepd out the second you meet him
Posted: 6/20/2008 10:32:34 AM |
"It rubs the lotion on its skin or else it gets the hose again. " ~~ Buffalo Bill, Silence of the Lambs ^^^ EXACTLY what I was thinking, hmm, body parts or body bag later? I didn't want to take the chance that Clarice Starling might not show up there....which is the reason why I kept my eye on him and then bailed when I had the chance.... | |
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| creepd out the second you meet him
Posted: 6/20/2008 2:22:40 PM | | [Calisoldier: Are the kids at least behaving? LOL] Unfortunately, the daughter was dressed very similar, which creeped me out, like you wouldn't believe. | |
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| creepd out the second you meet him
Posted: 6/20/2008 2:37:27 PM |
Have you ever met someone, from here, or anwyhere on the net, then when you met him, you just said "EWW ". If so, what was it that made you say that?
Oh yea! Been there, done that.
Let's see, he looked nothing like his picture which was probably a good ten years old.
He weighed about 250 pound more than he said he did
He was totally anti military. Anyone who knows me for 10 seconds knows I am a huge supporter of our troops.
He was anti Air Force. Again, anyone who knows me for 10 second knows I am a very proud Air Force mom.
and he was rude to the waitress - snapped his fingers at her to get her attention and called her "hey YOU!"
And that was in the first 5 minutes. | |
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| creepd out the second you meet him
Posted: 6/20/2008 2:48:25 PM | It's best to meet in a public place. I think this is a good idea for men and women. I think that spending some time on the phone and seeing if you share similar interests means that you can at least talk to each other when you meet.
I avoid those that do not have a picture. I mean, you need a good picture of yourself that is flattering. For some of us that means a professional photographer. | |
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| creepd out the second you meet him
Posted: 6/21/2008 9:58:38 AM | | I think we have all had the moments of.. Yeah... sooooo not happening. Creeped out I save for those special brand of guy that show up looking like they walked into the barber and asked for the amber alert special. And yes, I have had those kind show up. | |
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| creepd out the second you meet him
Posted: 6/21/2008 11:05:31 AM | [And that was in the first 5 minutes.]
Michelle, it wont suprise you when i say it shouldve never went on for 5 minutes, darlin. | |
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| creepd out the second you meet him
Posted: 6/21/2008 11:06:26 AM | [Quiet an imagination u got there ....i believe you said....the guy "spat on your hand and put it down his pants?"...my question is did he cut your hand and put it down his pants or did you actually watch him put your hand down his pants??..lol.....youre crazy]
LMAO!!! So not only was he able to spit on her hand, but he was able to keep hold of it after he had? Hmm, doesnt look like she tried at all to stop him huh? | |
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| creepd out the second you meet him
Posted: 6/21/2008 11:24:03 AM | LMAO!!! So not only was he able to spit on her hand, but he was able to keep hold of it after he had? Hmm, doesnt look like she tried at all to stop him huh?
Well, none of you know anything about me, just as I don't know anything about you. I didn't start dating until I was 18 so he was one of my first dates ever in my entire life , and I was a virgin. I did not date in highschool. Of course once I realized what was happening I got myself out of there but I was in shock (like I said in my previous post "deer in the headlights") and knew nothing about men or what went on in their heads except for sex education in highschool which was really nothing back then (I grew up incredibly sheltered) .
The way you are all looking at it is like I was a seasoned woman that I am now who knows about sex but I wasn't. The man knew I was a virgin so essentially it would have fallen under sexual assault and date rape.
I was 18 but looked 13. So he was probably a pedofile. I was too young and stupid to do anything or even report that man. Are you all still laughing? | |
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| creepd out the second you meet him
Posted: 6/21/2008 12:45:18 PM | OOooooh yes. I've met several men from online, but one in particular will always stand out. This is also a good example of what not to do (ignore your instincts). I mean, I'm pretty good about following mine, and I did in this case, just not quite enough. If I'd followed them 100%, I would have canceled the get together. Ok, so here it is:
There was a man who hung out in a chat room I used to go to. We never flirted, never chatted in IM; we were just cordial in the chat room. One day he sends me an email asking to talk to me in IM (I had my IMs restricted to an "allow only" list). I ignored the email and didn't respond. He sent about three more, asking the same thing. I kept thinking, "wtf does he want to talk to me for? It's not like we ever expressed any interest. Maybe there's something wrong...some question he has about this or that." So I caved in and added him to my IM list. He told me he was going to be off work for a couple of weeks soon and wanted to know if I'd like to meet him. (?) I wasn't terribly responsive. He explained that he had all this time off but didn't have any plans, didn't have anywhere to go. He said he wanted to get on his bike and just hit the road but needed a destination.
I already had plans to go with some family and friends to a public event in the park on the 4th of July. So I told him he could stop in town and join us if he liked. Group outing. He said that would be great. We then spoke on the phone to finalize plans, etc.
As the 4th of July neared, he kept trying to worm his way into getting one on one time with me. First he wanted to take me for a bike ride the day after the outing. Then he wanted to pick me up the morning of and take me on a bike ride. I declined. Then he wanted to take me to dinner the night before and "get to know each other". I had no interest in getting to know him, I just felt sorry for him so I agreed to include him in plans I already had. I reluctantly agreed to dinner the night before but was increasingly uncomfortable with it, so I called him and said, "You know what, I think we just need to keep it limited to the group event."
So he calls when he gets into town and asks to go to lunch before we go to the park. I said ok, but I brought my cousin with me. We go to pick him up at his motel (didn't want him coming to my home). He walks out and my cousin and I both said "ew". It wasn't a matter of him being attractive or not. It was the fact that he looked nothing like the photo he'd been passing out and also the fact that he just looked like a sleaze. My cousin turned to me and said, "He's payin' for lunch!" (since it was so incredibly important for him to get together, since he'd misrepresented himself, and since he'd been a little on the pushy side.)
Lunch goes fine. We get to the park and things are fine until he gets several beers in him. He then tries for the remainder of the night to get into my space, hit on me, and continue trying to convince me to go on a bike ride the next day. I didn't. When he goes back home, he calls me. I don't respond. He calls every couple of days for weeks. Just when I was ready to change my cell number, the calls finally stopped. I found out, after the fact, that he had a reputation in the chat room of being a sleaze and had slept with many women from there.
Live and learn, eh? | |
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| creepd out the second you meet him
Posted: 6/21/2008 2:22:07 PM | I once went out with a guy from online, who seemed very nice. We talked on the phone for a while before going out, and had a great time when we did. Didn't get a very creepy vibe from him, at first, but then he started showing up and just parking in his car, on my street and sitting there.
When I finally did tell him I didn't really want to be around him any more (after...two dates, I believe.) he cried and begged. Major creepiness. That was the first dude I met from an online dating site. Turns out, he certainly wasn't the worst.
There was the guy who I took to a party, as my date, and got completely blitzed. Fell down the stairs, at my colleague's house, and then stole money from me.
There was also a guy who flirted with the bartender at the pub we were at, and barely talked to me for the first half of our first date. When he finally did talk to me, we seemed to hit it off and he didn't seem that bad...until I found out much later that he had a girlfriend! | |
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| creepd out the second you meet him
Posted: 6/21/2008 5:28:05 PM |
There was the guy who I took to a party, as my date, and got completely blitzed. Fell down the stairs, at my colleague's house, and then stole money from me.
There was also a guy who flirted with the bartender at the pub we were at, and barely talked to me for the first half of our first date. When he finally did talk to me, we seemed to hit it off and he didn't seem that bad...until I found out much later that he had a girlfriend!
those stories are awesome lol | |
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| creepd out the second you meet him
Posted: 6/21/2008 5:57:05 PM | | Even though the post was directed at women, I wanted to throw in my $.02. I've met a few women over the years who creep me out because they are so intense about stuff. If the server isn't right at the table, they are freaking out. You can't tell them a joke because they don't have a sense of humor and just read wayyyyyy to much into everything. That is creepy to me. | |
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