| Why do men stop messenging when you refuse the sex
Posted: 6/24/2008 5:08:27 AM | from all the posts . I am NOT a guy who wants sex . I leave that up to chance . IF , she tells me she wants it . ok . BUT , I am NOT about to demand it . I will demand we go places . do things with each other . When I was with my ex-girlfreind it was all WHERE she wanted to go . SHE WANTED this and that . when I was out of money I was S.O.B when I had money I was the best .  NOW , that she does not have me . she can't find a guy like me . Oh well , I have showed her how to use this site . nothing . | |
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| Why do men stop messenging when you refuse the sex
Posted: 6/24/2008 7:28:05 AM | Let's not forget there are also women that may send the same messages to men! Some men are more primal and lack the necessary skills to attract a women. So therefore the internet is a good medium for them to practice.
In my opinion most men will look at the visual aspects first and probably peruse a profile very briefly.( hence missing out your criterias )
If it is something you are not looking for, just ignore it. Being polite and saying thanks but no thanks does not always work as they may be low on a few brain cells and start hurling abuse. How amusing, its the boy in them don't worry. Best thing to do is not take it to heart or come on the internet if you are stressed, tired or down. Have a sound mind and do you know what none of those comments will ever effect you.
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| Why do men stop messenging when you refuse the sex
Posted: 6/25/2008 10:42:30 PM | I have to agree with Extream, they are horndogs. I also have to say the convenience of the interenet has trained both men and women that if they don't want a commitment, to just hope on line and find a mate for the night.
Your not the only one with the same issue, there are many of both sex's out there!
Keep fishing, the right one will come along.
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| Why do men stop messenging when you refuse the sex
Posted: 6/26/2008 2:35:16 AM | Usually they stop messaging when I won't talk dirty. Oh well, their loss, who cares. Why ask why?
y buy the cow if u can get a glass of milk
Why buy the pig if you can get bratwursts, hotdogs, sausages, salami...? | |
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| Why do men stop messenging when you refuse the sex
Posted: 6/26/2008 3:35:49 AM |
Why do men stop messenging when you refuse the sex
Is this a trick question?
You're simply getting involved with men who are just looking for sex. Try re-evaluation who you respond to, and maybe do a little searching of your own. There are plenty of us who aren't in a rush to the bed. | |
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| Why do men stop messenging when you refuse the sex
Posted: 6/26/2008 3:42:00 AM | | I was told by one guy that POF was great for one-night stands. He actually came out and said that to me, can you believe?!?!! What a huge turn off that was. I suppose that's why I haven't really taken POF seriously. However on the flip side, I do know people who have met and who are happy together. So I guess once you weed out the creeps, pervs and weirdos -- there is a chance you might meet someone spescial, but I thinik the chances are slim at best. | |
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| Why do men stop messenging when you refuse the sex
Posted: 6/26/2008 5:44:44 AM | Mostly, it's a matter of Tact....
If a guy acts like a Professional Letch....Sure..!! Slam him..!!
But if he's at least respectful and Adult about the subject...just set the parameters,
so he understands that Sex isn't the only thing that you May be interested in...!!
By the same token...You could just [kindly] ask him to continue
Developing a Chemistry with you....the personal stuff will come out..
All in good time..!! | |
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| Why do men stop messenging when you refuse the sex
Posted: 7/10/2008 2:08:41 AM | To the OP, thanks for starting this. I was told about men like this by a female member here, a long time ago. It seems this type of guy is basically indiscriminate and uses the hit and miss approach, without a care in the world for anyones feelings.
They are an annoying and a sad fact of life. Give them to flick every time.
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| Why do men stop messenging when you refuse the sex
Posted: 7/11/2008 11:44:09 PM | | I found out that a guy puts a lot of charming things in the info part of his POF profile, and you can hit it off great through e-mails, and once you call on the phone, the conversation goes straight towards sex and if you arent interested in all that crap right away, some losers lose interest..........if its not me first. Really though guys, lay off it. Its not a great ice breaker. Its a huge turn off. | |
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| Why do men stop messenging when you refuse the sex
Posted: 7/13/2008 1:40:15 AM | | Those that stop messaging you are just interested in sex. So you are better off without them. I would say the genuine men don't lose their interest once they hear you "refuse" to have sex. | |
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| Why do men stop messenging when you refuse the sex
Posted: 7/13/2008 2:39:58 AM | The best is when you state very clearly that if they want to just play they should be going to the intimate encounters part of the site or other relationship part and they still message you...or they have long term relationship as what they are looking for and then turn on their cam and it is them jerking off.
Yes it happens a lot and can be frustrating but like another poster said, chalk it up to one less weed you have to go through maybe bringing you closer to finding a decent one? | |
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