| Pulling out with the condom still on to ejaculate....
Posted: 6/23/2008 8:46:59 AM | One posters mentioned "trust issue".
And after reading the entire thread I feel I have to agree.
1. He pulls out because he doesn't trust the condom for an internal ejaculation.
2. He ties the condom in a knot and takes it with him because he doesn’t trust you with the proper disposal of his "baby batter" filled condom in his absence.
3. As you have posted, you have no trust in men and their past history - hence the continuous use of condoms.
Nothing wrong with the points listed above.
Famous last words from women include "but I can't get pregnant", followed by "ooops - the DOCTOR must have been wrong".
There is nothing wrong with this man's action, he practices safe sex, and clearly does NOT want the responsibility of an unwanted child.
Perhaps your post is less responsible than his action. | |
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| Pulling out with the condom still on to ejaculate....
Posted: 6/23/2008 9:29:42 AM |
I'd be close myself to climax and BAM-he'd pull out just to make sure he could jerk off into the condom.
Maybe he had trouble 'finishing' inside you. Either lack of sensation or too vigorous a workout so he finishes by hand when he's ready. Maybe that you were close was just bad timing... | |
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| Pulling out with the condom still on to ejaculate....
Posted: 6/23/2008 2:44:50 PM | [Perhaps your post is less responsible than his action.]
Nah-I don't think my post is irresponsible-just making an observation. The thing is, I have never had an issue with a person using a condom, and I even know men who do tie the condom in a knot before disposing of it, but to wear it even after to ejaculate in I found odd-but taking it with him-I had to give my head a shake.
I was just wondering if other guys do it-or thought about it. I have no issue with your opinion at all, and some of the posts have been utterly hilarious-to each their own. And I never said I didn't trust men-but everyone has a sexual history, including myself, so condom use is logical and a smart means of protecting oneself during intercourse or any other sexual act where bodily fluids are mingled.
All I know is-I found his practice of finishing himself odd-and from some of the replies-I'm not alone | |
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| Pulling out with the condom still on to ejaculate....
Posted: 6/23/2008 5:46:29 PM | Better safe than sorry. I have a friend who wishes he did that.
Cleaning up after yourself and taking your used condom to be disposed of..... shouldn't he do that anyway or should he hand it to me to take care of so he can fall asleep in 30 seconds?! LOL! | |
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| Pulling out with the condom still on to ejaculate....
Posted: 6/24/2008 4:03:40 AM | I don't like condoms. (and since my relationships are usually long-term I don't need to keep using them).
But when i have used them I've had bad experiences by not leaving enough of a empty space at the end of them. During orgasm it felt like i had a cork in the end of my c**k. Not very comfortable. I've pulled out on occasion and ripped the thing off so I didn't get that feeling. | |
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| Pulling out with the condom still on to ejaculate....
Posted: 6/24/2008 4:15:57 AM | | Hmmm, taking the condom home. That's a new one. If he's really paranoid of the woman using it to get pregnant, just flush it, even if it is bad for the sanitation system. Or if he really doesn't want to have kids, just get a vasectomy, and then he can use the condom for protection, but doesn't have to worry about the pregnancy issue with any one. | |
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| Pulling out with the condom still on to ejaculate....
Posted: 6/24/2008 4:37:24 AM | [He's somehow paranoid that you're gonna take the condom and inseminate yourself...however you are 42 so he might be a little bit too cautious]
Well, I would like to add, he was a bit younger than me, and I while I respect his concern for not wanting to get me pregnant-that wasn't what got me-it's the fact he'd pull out with condom still ON-jack off into the condom-slide it off-knot it and take it with him....LOL.
Maybe he was paranoid, but seeing all my children are adopted I think he should have been more at ease. I never had intercourse with him without the benefit of a condom, and despite that fact it was the same ritual each time we fooled around. He was certainly one of my favorite boy toys-but I think it was his eccentric behaviour I liked as much as the sex.
Perhaps I should have asked him to wear two condoms-just in case one did break-lol...course something tells me knowing him he would have put another one on lol. | |
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| Pulling out with the condom still on to ejaculate....
Posted: 6/24/2008 5:56:12 AM | | I dated a guy 4 yrs ago that did the same thing..lol. I thought it was weird myself so I nic named him Mr. Jack Me Off In A Condom..lol. Even though he knew I wouldn't trap him he had a woman do that to him before..lol | |
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| Pulling out with the condom still on to ejaculate....
Posted: 6/24/2008 6:52:15 AM | Maybe he's hoping to become a sperm donor and wants to store it for future use? 
Now if that's not the case...I'd say the guy has major trust issues to the point he's not even capable of pleasing someone else nor caring if he did. Did he not even ask if you'd climaxed or just tie it up and head out?
My first reaction is it's just really, really weird but I'm guessing it's a trust thing. Glad to hear you're not seeing him anymore. | |
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| Pulling out with the condom still on to ejaculate....
Posted: 6/24/2008 8:27:05 AM | Does he have reasons for this?
You say he couldnt articulate his reasons for it - some guys feel explaining is taken as whining when they happen to have a negative view. This is not always unfounded.
Is is view point more centered on the elimating the risks as opposed to taking 'healthy' risks?
In his perspective he may well have simply been elimating the risks of anything like pregnancy - is it safer to see if you can be trusted, only to find your one of the ones that cant? or better just to take the responsiilty of making sure issues dont occur?
Having been on the recieving end of some rather malicious female BS surronding an issue that might cause me to consider to make sure I wouldnt have kids, at least until Im ready I can empathise with the guy. I can see some aspects that could be argued hes simply protecting his interests and could be well described as being mature and taking responsibilty to make sure he doesnt have that experience again.
Some prices are too high to pay.
Is it better that he has the trust issues based on experience or waht he has learned from others? There are those that would say if you dont want kids dont have sex - well for women they have a range of options to follow that allows sex with out children (not to say those may not come at various prices, emotional and/or money), he seems to have found a a way that works for him.
Sometimes explaining such things, due to the intimacy involved can leave another feeling hurt. Trust enough to go so far? Trust enough to go all the way? so many diffrent things.
Perhaps it may be wise to think that with a guy so bent on making sure hes safe from ensuing possible drama and problems - the very point he trusted enough to that far with you may be taken as a complement on his feelings for you and that he well have had intention, with time for it develop futher with proof that he could.
Sometimes wounds heal, sometimes scars are left behind - not to say the wound hasnt healed, scars even are tougher than the skin around them. Even skin heals in such a way asa to be effected by its past - whose to say the fella in the story hasnt to. Or maybe hes still at the scab stage - wound still healing. | |
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| Pulling out with the condom still on to ejaculate....
Posted: 6/24/2008 9:30:23 AM | Could be a nmber of things. Ole Dr Drew would love this guy! COuld be he had the issue of ou trying to inseminate yourself ( its not that rare had one try that on a friend of mine)Or could be maybe he though you would have a bad break up and use the sperm to put it in you and claim rape. I know I know kinda law and order type stuff but hey could happen. But the post has merit, I would ask a question like that as well if I saw a guy walking down the street with a tied upused condom in his hand lol.
Oh even worse, if he got in a wreck on the way home. I have come across some strange stuff in the Fire service but never a guy carrying used rubbers, that would be a first.Hopefully a last as well. | |
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| Pulling out with the condom still on to ejaculate....
Posted: 6/24/2008 11:18:04 AM | Some believe that ejaculate contains some kind of vital energy that must be conserved at all cost. Certain Taoist practices involve learning to orgasm without ejaculating and, if some does leak, sucking it back up where it belongs. So maybe he is taking it home to practice. Or maybe a previous poster is right. He recycles it in his favorite flavor of smoothie.
I had a dog once that could find a used condom no matter how deep in the wastebasket it was. She liked to run around the house with one in her mouth, shaking her head back and forth. Does he have a dog? | |
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| Pulling out with the condom still on to ejaculate....
Posted: 7/5/2008 5:49:31 PM | sorry but the little buggers can live up to 5 days. once they are inside . as soon as the time is right when the egg is released. they wake up. chemical compounds in the female body. if they are still mobile that is. makes you wonder about all the myths. half hr. to an hr. on the outside of the body. if they come in contact with the female genitals. they are up and swimming . they are programed to do that. [ their job . ]
STRICKLY SEX WITH D.R. DR$$ don t know if i can give his name out . but he has a show that deals with sexual issues of the day . | |
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| Pulling out with the condom still on to ejaculate....
Posted: 7/7/2008 8:33:23 AM | Maybe the guy has been burned by the girl he trusted "yeah Im on the pill" and then she tried the pregnancy trap to force him to committ. That would make you gun shy! I like the pull out, remove, take aim and fire approach lol Im an artist......... and shes a beautiful sheet of canvas... | |
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| Pulling out with the condom still on to ejaculate....
Posted: 7/7/2008 9:05:08 AM | | I always pull out also incase also and I also pull out many times while having sex also because condoms do rip sometimes also. I also flush the condom down the toilet myself also incase a woman tries something you never know you have to be safe these days for sure. I a woman don't like the way I do things to bad that is the safer way which is alot better to be these days.Alot of woman don't even know the father of their kids because of what they do which is very sad. | |
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| Pulling out with the condom still on to ejaculate....
Posted: 7/7/2008 9:32:40 AM | | I use condoms , but , yes once in a while i like to spray the woman with my man muck ,,,,, lets her know just how excited she got me ..... pull out long b4 1st spurt ,,, slid off condom ,,,,,, let er' fly ,,,,, if u ejaculate in her mouth face area less likely to become impregnated ,,, Im no " Scientician " ,,, thats my method ,,,,,, LOl its funny to guys to see her reaction , when u spunk on her sheets , pillow cases alarm clock n wall ,,,, hee hee o ya .... | |
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| Pulling out with the condom still on to ejaculate....
Posted: 7/7/2008 1:50:51 PM | OMG MR CAPPY!!! You slay me to no end!!! And Reelmein-I think he liked his stuff right in the condom-but as I stated he told me his deal. Funny sh!t! I don't see him in the biblical sense anymore-but he was definitely one memorable lay!!! | |
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