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Posted: 6/23/2008 10:35:05 AM | Hey, I'm not saying that when two people want to have anal, it can't be great. There's no wrong hole if you both know what's going on, and want it. We're specifically talking about a woman being unsuspecting and then there are these stories of a man going full force into women "accidentally" and them in pain, throwing up even, and bouncing against the car and in serious pain (the guy says he was a jerk for laughing when he was 23, but he's still "lol'ing" now telling about how she wouldn't stop crying - that just horrifies me. He's talking about how she screamed, moved to the other side of the car and wouldn't stop crying and he's "lol'ing"...it makes me not want to date on POF, honestly, because there are guys like that here...very disheartening).
Yes, I know it can slip out accidentally, and sure, you could accidentally not aim back in the right place, but if you've slipped out accidentally, and you know that there are two places back there, it is your friggen responsibility to find the right hole before ramming it fully in. If it just touches the outside rim, and he figures things out, of course I believe that can be an accident, and I wouldn't think less of the guy (except that well, he is less skilled than someone who doesn't let it slip out and can find the right place again). But if it goes all the way in fast, I don't consider that an "accident." At the very least, it's irresponsible to the point of having no consideration for the woman's feelings and at the worst, it's rape (and sounds like both types of guys need to get that cucumber rammed up theirs without lube and without warning so they understand what it would feel like, if they think it's no big deal). | |
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Posted: 6/23/2008 11:00:40 AM | There is slipping out and missing the right hole and then there is being a jack a$$ about it..
I have never gotten in the wrong hole although have slipped out of the right one before...
and I have to say I have made the odd woman a convert to anal but not slipping but by taking the time and lube to get her going in that direction!
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Posted: 6/23/2008 12:45:36 PM | bubba if you can't tell one from the other in the dark you got problems.
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Posted: 6/23/2008 4:44:33 PM | I was about to say the same thing.. How the F'n hell can you possibly slip out and just start plugging away without noticing your in the wrong hole..
A. that would hurt.. both her and you unless shes loose as the spruce goose.
B. It feels different. And were not talking like a little different theres a signifigant difference in tightness on every woman.. and I think most women here would agree that are into anal.
C. I would be worried if I had sex and slipped out and stuck it in the wrong hole and it felt the same as her ass.. I really would.. especially if she was dry. | |
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Posted: 6/23/2008 8:26:00 PM | If you got a lubed up condom on you might not realise what you did until you're right in there.
I just wanna point out for the benefit of others that may not have experienced this or just in general wonder how you can miss like that, it's basically 2 holes 1 inch apart, it only takes 1 thrust to the pain train if she ain't prepared.
I dunno if accidents are the problem, so much as if you just keep on going without realising she's in some serious pain or anything. | |
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Posted: 6/23/2008 8:43:51 PM | | LOL and here I thought it was a way for a guy to try to get anal going if it wasn't already by "accidentally" getting it wrong. | |
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Posted: 6/24/2008 8:06:54 AM | I personally do not think any guy would do this on purpose. I am sure it is mostly accidental.
Women who deny it cannot happen by accident, need to check their anatomy back there.
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Posted: 6/24/2008 8:16:05 AM | Yes, in the heat of the moment when both people involved are rocking or thrusting, its certainly possible to accidentally enter or partially enter the wrong hole. I don't think any of us women are denying its possible to do this by accident and most of the time it is an accident . And if the man apologizes, its really not that big of a deal. We also realize that some men may try it this way with the expectation that we will let them finish there. Its men like my ex b/f my who blame the woman and never apologize that piss me off.
Accidents happen. Its just better if things are lubed when they happen 
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Posted: 6/24/2008 8:21:56 AM | Hey, it CAN happen! There was this one time my weiner slipped out and went...into my hot neighbor! "It SLIPPED!" I told my girl but I'm not sure she really believed me.
But accidental anal sex? Sure! The hiney port is, like, right there. Much closer. So it, you know, could happen. Maybe these women are all doped up on amyl nitrate or something. Who knows? They put that stuff in soft drinks, don't they? Or sometimes, a chick might have to toot and that sucker just opens up at the right moment and there you are. You might not even know it at first. Women will trick you like that. | |
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Posted: 6/24/2008 8:51:27 AM | I'd have to think it all depends on how relaxed she is and how hard you were going at it... I think I'd find it just as surprising I'm sure... It's a shame that some of us males are too n00bie to drive our own equipment. 
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Posted: 6/24/2008 10:32:04 AM | | I consulted with an expert about this (my dog) when he stopped laughing he just said "you humans are a hoot" | |
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Posted: 6/24/2008 11:59:44 AM | | There is still, however,....the issue of consent! | |
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Posted: 6/24/2008 12:22:11 PM | rolmao @ openmindedwi about the "Rodeo" comment.
Back on topic though: Ya it just is not right claiming "Opps I missed" or "Opps I slipped" when guys are thinking about the entire "Dominiation Thing" anyway in the heat of passion with all of that hard grinding going on while ya have her bent over and slapping her in the cheeks to get her more aroused.
Ya right guys there is no "Opps I slipped" but if you can actually get away with it and make her believe it then good luck. | |
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Posted: 6/24/2008 12:26:07 PM | "".... the issue of consent!""
Ya ya ya. I guess I'm old school or a hold over from the (last ) ice age or something BUT only if you're into sportfu¢king random women and barely know them then consent may be or will likely be an issue.
If you're NOT and you have a loving, trusting relationship the concept of stopping on every move, change of position, varying rate of thrusts, options and derivatives ... it is just ludicrous to suggest a "consent " issue. Some di¢k whipped dudes who grew up under the FemiNazi movement or at a University that is so PC it makes grown men cry, may think this is how a relationship works ... ITZ NOT!! Signed permissions, notarized by a lawyers spelling out which orifices and / or kink is on or off limits. ""STOPP - I haven't signed off . Our lawyers are still negotiating that !!! Touch me there and I'll own your house and you'll do hard time!!!!" (Ya I love you too)
In a REAL relationship there is no permission slip from a lawyer. There is communication and generally nothing I want to do to you or what you want to do to me or have me do to you is OFF LIMITS. Again that is based on an existing relationship where you are already aware that her turn ons are roughly the same as yours - which is what nobody has any guarantees of when you grab some warm body at closing time and have a "relationship" in the back of a pick-up truck in the parking lot. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2008 4:35:30 PM | Yes, it can happen accidentally. Happened to me a single time when I'm 18.
I can't fathom why a guy would want to have anal sex with an unwilling partner, nor why he'd find mirth in it. | |
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Posted: 6/25/2008 9:29:05 PM | OMG...LMAO... wrong hole , yeah right !, unless you have been drinking alot, you can tell what "hole" you have entered !!!! men like to slip, its like a 'yellow' light... proceed with caution !!!!!!! if she lets you, GO FOR IT !!!!!!
Im sure it was an intentional slip .......
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Posted: 6/28/2008 12:51:48 PM |
There is no such thing as the wrong hole from my perspective
1missblueeyes... lol... you're my kind of woman  | |
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Posted: 6/28/2008 6:03:50 PM | I've never slipped a woman "the shocker."
I just ask politely if I may put my****in her sexy ass. | |
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Posted: 6/28/2008 6:28:53 PM | | Sometimes wrong can go so right....for everyone involved. | |
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Posted: 6/28/2008 6:52:41 PM |
I've never slipped a woman "the shocker."
Ohhh it has a name! I didn't know this lol.
I just ask politely if I may put my****in her sexy ass.
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Posted: 6/28/2008 9:03:15 PM | | I've slept with about 5000 women and it's only happened about 100 times. So that's 1 in 50. Yeah, 'bout 1 in 50. | |
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