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Posted: 6/22/2008 3:44:11 PM | For phuck sakes get some self respect.
You're way too young to even understand the FWB concept.
A FWB is just a bit better than having a w*nk.
Oh, and if you really want to be a singer, stop smoking. It'll make you sound like a horse.
Look at this like a wake up call. You need to focus on you. Build up your self respect, grow your confidence so that you'll realise such things are beneith you and you deserve better. | |
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| When you lie.
Posted: 6/22/2008 5:46:57 PM | It seems to me the important thing is whether you or he (or both of you) decided that you wanted the FWB relationship. If you wanted more than that, then you should not have agreed to this arrangement. If he wanted more than that, then he is probably thinking I might as well go elsewhere where someone cares about me.
Why he lied, I can't imagine, unless as other posters say he knew you would be unhappy about it or thought you might end the FWB arrangement if you thought he was sleeping with more than one FWB.
Friends should not need to lie to each other. | |
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| When you lie.
Posted: 6/22/2008 6:15:24 PM | | I don't think he lied, because your getting second hand information. Now if you waited and asked him the next day what he ended up doing and he told you something different...then he lied. I think that he knows that you would like to be more than just FWB, and will probably lie to you so as not to hurt your feelings...so he can keep up the benifits part of the friendship. | |
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| When you lie.
Posted: 6/22/2008 7:20:54 PM | haveaperfect
You really know deep inside that he did NOT lie to you. However, you need to cling to this concept to make yourself feel better about the reality that HE IS NOT INTO YOU as much as your are into him.
Often when one plays around with a candle -- one can get badly burned by the heat of the flame. | |
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| When you lie.
Posted: 6/22/2008 10:25:53 PM | Sometimes friends lie due to white lies , an inconvenient truth that you may not like to hear.
Perhaps he is trying to score another , or perhaps he only wants you around for the fwb.
Regardless, your position as a fwb is compromised as you have feelings for them. I'm told fwb's only work when it is strickly for hot sex. That is something you got , then you move on with your life with no attachment. The fact that you've indulged into his personal life means that this fwb is not healthy for you despite being fun.
Not to say that you shouldn't have great wicked sex, but what you reap is what you sow. fwb is strickly just for sex, it is an exchange of sex between friends. a gift exchange.
Perhaps if you want clarification , you will need to find out from him. If he says no fwb is what i want, you can still have wicked sex with him. Thats his goal so as long as he gets it he probably wouldn't care about the whole talk. He probably would want it so that your not all naggy like a gf anyways.
Deal with him, have hot makeup sex afterwards if it doesn't work out but least you know and you won't go bonkers. | |
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| When you lie.
Posted: 6/23/2008 12:47:48 PM | Ok nevermind,
he told me it was a guys night and there were a total of 6 people there. And only one girl was there because she can't live without her boyfriend so she just invited herself over.
And another friend came uip to me and asked, "Why didn't you come on saturday man."
And I said "oH, I was busy. Wasn't it supposed to be a guys night'?"
He said, "Yeah but it would have been nice if you came though." | |
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| When you lie.
Posted: 6/23/2008 12:53:26 PM | | This is why I think these kind of arrangements are doomed to failure. Maybe his plans changed...I don't know. Maybe a B.O.B is better than a F.W.B.? Only you know what's best for you. | |
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