| Do you touch on the first date?
Posted: 6/24/2008 5:08:32 PM | Yep - you like him/her - touch - you don't, end the date early, pick up a good movie and popcorn and enjoy yourself at home alone. | |
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| Do you touch on the first date?
Posted: 6/24/2008 6:34:32 PM | NOPE....absolutely not....did you know that some grocery stores and shopping centers have handi-wipes available to wipe of the handle of the shopping cart....communicable disease is rampant and there's no way I'm touching anybody on a first date.
I need to know much more about them, the kind of women they've been dating, and how open they are to rushing into something with me because most likely they are doing this with other people too. | |
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| Do you touch on the first date?
Posted: 6/25/2008 12:33:27 AM | | I leave that up to my date. If she's touching me in a friendly way (as opposed to pushing me out of the way of a speeding bus), then I'm going to kiss her goodnight and call her for a second date. Otherwise, I'll assume she's not all that interested. | |
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| Do you touch on the first date?
Posted: 6/25/2008 10:46:49 AM | Duh! obviously... she's human -not kryptonite, you do have to do the quick hug thing or grasp her hand when you greet. then its the attraction factor that determines if further closeness is eminent.  | |
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| Do you touch on the first date response
Posted: 6/25/2008 12:54:17 PM | Absolutely...!!
Whether it's Holding Hands across a dinner table...
...or...
Dancing close .. to Clapton . . ~ Wonderful, tonight...~
If she can follow me .. naturally .. on a dance floor...[which Isn't Easy!]..
I'll know she _Wants_ to be with me..!!! | |
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| Do you touch on the first date?
Posted: 6/27/2008 11:37:22 AM | If they are lucky, they might get a good-night hug from me. Otherwise maybe a handshake. I'm very old fashioned and do not believe in kissing on the first date. It's all in up to you and what your partner is feeling.
Touching, either the hand, or a hug, or more means things to each of us differently. It's an invasion of a persons space and can be good or bad. A lot of times it shows affection, and if applied in just the right situation, can make or break the start. I do agree if you care about someone, find just the right way to express it.
You never know, the person who you touch their hand, might just touch your heart... With me? It's gonna take more than one date! lol
CowTrucker
Chapman, Kansas | |
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| Do you touch on the first date?
Posted: 6/27/2008 11:56:38 AM | | Absolutely! And if they (or I, depending on the initiator) don't like it, then there's obviously not going to be a second date. | |
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| Do you touch on the first date?
Posted: 6/27/2008 12:17:17 PM | I don't see anything wrong with that. By that innocent touch, you should be able to tell if there is chemestry or not.
I"m having my first date since my divorce (several years) tonight. I'm rather nervous if he'll want to touch my hand at all. | |
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| Do you touch on the first date?
Posted: 6/27/2008 3:48:57 PM | Normally I am too worried about overstepping my boundaries (or more to the point, hers), so it is rare that I hold hands or touch other parts on the first date. Besides, it's a first date and I am mostly focused on conversation and getting to know each other. So unless it is a kick ass date with tons of sparks, I keep my hands to myself. If I capture her attention there will be plenty of time for touching on the 2nd date (and 3rd, 4th, etc).
I had a date recently where we went to the movies (her suggestion) and I swear all movie long I wanted to reach over and caress her leg, but never made the move.  Got a second date so it probably wasn't too bad. | |
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