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Our Christian walk. Posted: 7/30/2008 10:43:39 AM
I remember a situation that took place long ago and it was the deciding factor in the lives of to people deeply in love. Torn apart by this set of rules our parents live by. I wanted to stay with the girl I loved and thought about forever. She asked me to marry her. I had been her "First" and she mine. there were only a couple of things to do first. One I was to accept the Catholic faith and two I was to be married to her in the Catholic ways. No prob I went to church with the family Wheo were living only a couple blocks from mine and sat there listening in my tie and my coat on the hottest day of the year in an un air cooled crowded church. the Men talking in Latin. I sweated thru it and suffered so deedply that I realized I could not go again. Ours war the innicents faced with the omnipresent. and then there was Alcoholisim in the home of both of ours. At dinner Her mom may just fall flat on her face in the plate. drunk ten kids the Mon Senior the suitors the 100 year old turtle and the di owned oldest son on Pot in Eco Park was just too much for her. She would look out the window at my car and decide if I had enough money for her saintly child. " remember " her own son was thrown out. well I was secretly ex commuunicated and I will be the looser forever on that one. I was fine with them and they predjudise me. a WASP who went to god in any emergency. this was the deciding factor in two lives. I saw the mom recently she is a bent over witch looking person who is un recognizeable and she recognized me in a donut shop knew my name and said HI as if nothing had happened. also her daughter had wanted to put a party together to see old friends before we all die. I met her thru a call I got about it. we sat and talked an hour I cried in the middles and told her that in theis world I could not and was not allowed to see her face again as she chose to marry a differnt person . He had ruined her life and had left her alone in a big nhome in Mission Viejo. she wants to be a nun now. she had sobered up one day and realized she had been manipulated for a few decades and her own kids say she is crazy. her only tie to her youth were a few photos of me. she had them and was afraid someone would eventually find them and throw them out as some non important thing. I got them back as there was no other photos of me from my prime picture times and i can show them tody to anyone interested. she has grown her hair and it is pure white and 50 or more inches long. she lives to talk to her daughter and has no life sitting alone in a Mansion how sad. ou want to talk christian talk truth along with it