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Posted: 6/25/2008 3:32:06 PM | I'm surprised no one mentioned this line...
"Sunday a text to say sorry ran into problems he is a truck driver...he was unlaoding and asked if it was ok to text later."
Now, I can't speak for him as a truck driver, but as a musician and teacher, sometimes my schedule can be a little erratic. Ok, the teacher part, not so much, but definitely the musician part gets a little erratic. Maybe something really did come up and he got busy.
Not only that, but if it his job, maybe you should take this into consideration.
I certainly hope he wasn't texting you while he was driving, was he? | |
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Posted: 6/25/2008 3:58:31 PM | creative disco thanks for your thoughts..it wasn't his work just found out his daughter.she is only 4 and not coping with daddy not being at home.He was annoyed that he got stuck in uk for 2 extra days and didn;t get to see her.
He has her at the moment for a few days and is feeling guilty for not living in the same house as her.He says head is up his backside at the moment and it is difficult with her but that he definetely wants us to meet again???Do I give it a chance and wait and see | |
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Posted: 6/25/2008 4:42:49 PM | is there really a rush to make a decision? and what would the decision be? to sit around and wait on him vs. burning a bridge? i wouldn't do either of those things
i would take door #3. as far as THAT particular man, just wait and see how things go. everything may be up and down for him for quite a while, especially with a small child needing his attention
don't put all your hopeful eggs in this basket right now. keep dating around and keep your options open! | |
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Posted: 6/25/2008 5:00:39 PM | You can only go with your gutt feeling on it. I have been played one too many times that I would think he is probably shacked up with someone and he may or may not be seeing his daughter. Did he call or text? If did the text, it would really make me question it.
You are young, find someone that can give you the time you deserve! | |
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Posted: 6/25/2008 6:14:56 PM | This... from your opening post...
Was a bit annoyed as wanted to see him..anyway no real contact til Sunday a text to say sorry ran into problems he is a truck driver...he was unlaoding and asked if it was ok to text later.I said cool and i have heard nothing since yesterday lunchtime.I am very confused..am i dumped???what you all think??? Doesn't jive with this...
worrying about someones welfare is not respecting them and inconsiderate??
You weren't worried about his welfare, you were a bit annoyed and asking if you had been dumped.
Perhaps you really should learn to practise what you preach... begining with...
Don't play games and am honest all i expect is the same back.
I'm sure he'll be thrilled when he sees this thread in his honour...  | |
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Posted: 6/25/2008 7:40:22 PM |
I'm sure he'll be thrilled when he sees this thread in his honour...
No sh!t....
In two day's you've managed to over analyze the situation to hell and back... at least twice... conjured up all kinds of things he's done/will do with absolutely NO evidence whatsoever...
Frankly... in his position... just from reading this thread I'd be mad as hell, think you were a loon and tell you to go take a flying fuk... Not to mention the thought of letting someone like you being an influence on my kid sending a shiver up the spine....
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What to do? The same thing I told you 2 days ago. Chill the fuk out... relax... let the leash out... let him do his J O B and visit with his K I D.... hope he never sees this thread...
Or freak out over nothing some more and send him an hysterical text dumping him for no reason whatsoever.... I can envision his perplexed look and possible sigh of relief now...
I have nothing more to add... this thread is no longer postworthy... | |
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Posted: 6/26/2008 4:26:58 AM |
worrying about someones welfare is not respecting them and inconsiderate?? I think my expression of feeling has mad you think I'm mad and by the way i'm not.Don't play games and am honest all i expect is the same back.
So, out of your strong compassionate concern for HIS welfare and well-being, you wanted to dump him...write him off altogether and move on.
Stop lying to us, stop lying to yourself. | |
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Posted: 6/26/2008 10:41:17 AM | Sounds to me like he blew you off and that was his way of saying sorry, not interested.
Here's a tip though, try this little thing called spelling and the space bar. Works wonders. | |
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Posted: 6/26/2008 12:55:17 PM | meally,
I think it's too early to start having high expectations of this guy plus he has a demanding job and a child. My question to you would be what if you two decide to get married do you see his job as being an issue since it takes up a lot of his time? | |
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Posted: 6/26/2008 1:15:13 PM | I would relax, if he is a lorry driver then he will be on the road a lot. Perhaps he has taken so long to reply to you because he doesnt know what to say to you, this isnt something you can control. if he hasnt replied, switch your phone to block him for a week, dont appear online to him. if he hasnt messaged you in a week or tried to make contact then the message is clear enough. Trust me i know, wrap up your heart and keep it safe.  | |
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Posted: 7/28/2008 5:41:29 PM | | You've done all you can, as a traveling man myself I can tell you a lot of variables affect contact. I am sometimes in dead areas where messages don't go through, sometimes my phone is dead because I haven't remembered to charge it, and sometimes I am too busy or have other people working with me preventing me from checking my messages. After all my messages are none of their business. Give him a few days to answer and if he doesnt't kick him to the curb and move on. | |
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