I have not found dating in my mid-thirties any more difficult than dating in my twenties.
Nor I. While I do find it completely different, it's not different in a bad or disappointing way.
I also face the problem of finding a man who has either already had his kids and won't be expecting that I push out a few kids or hasn't any kids, but still doesn't expect that I push out a few kids.
I'm kind of done with trying to placate a potential dates fears.
Yeah, see.. finding the men.. or the "options" as I'll call them for now, is NOT the problem. It's dealing with their fears. One in particular. Say I find a man without kids... I have a couple times... they NEVER EVER believe that I won't change my mind and suddenly want kids someday.
Finding "options" isn't a problem... getting them to believe certain aspects.. THAT is hard. But then, I think.. "screw this".. if someone can't believe what I want or don't want, they're a waste of my time.
I don't jump through hoops.
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